I am married with 2 children, we have been married for 15 years, and I am 43. In the beginning everything went well, but for the last few years we have not had sex at all, and I have never had a mistress. My problem is that I masturbate very often, almost 2-3 times a day, what can I do, please help ...
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Hmmm, bad job. But you say nothing more than that you don't have sex. The reasons can be many. So much has been written on the subject that we will probably repeat ourselves again, but there is no normal man or woman who does not like sex. You have probably had conversations on the topic, there is certainly more info that you need to share to be useful with the comments.
Try to predispose your wife. Make her a romantic present. Kiss her more often and hug her. I didn't know if she was refusing you or if you both didn't want it very much. Well, as has been repeated in specialty magazines lately, talk about this topic. Find out what has changed and what prevents you from doing so. Just do not get a mistress, it will be a big mistake and you will create additional trouble. K2
That is the problem. I'm like you too.
I am a woman, also 43 and my husband has been denying me sex for several years and I also masturbate every day, I tried to talk, he just said that men and women are different, he didn't like it anymore, but he doesn't miss parties to flirt, I think talking will not help and there is nothing wrong with having a mistress, because no one has the right even to your wife to determine how you will live your life
No one can do without sex, not even your wife - draw your own conclusions! When do you find time to masturbate 3-4 times a day - don't you go to work?
Abe people, let's have a meeting of people in the same situation, then obviously our halves don't care about us
I am a woman of 42. Until 3-4 years ago, I could easily live without sex. At the same time, if my husband could predispose me, we had great sex, but next time the initiative was not mine. But then something happened to me, I thought about how time passes and we will not get younger. And for sex, I thought that he was up to date. At this time, my husband began to complain of an increasing frequency of partial erectile dysfunction. Maybe then I realized that I was missing something and it could be irreversible. I shook the Internet, read, talked to my husband and these conversations came to me like rain after drought. Now, poor thing, I'm barely tired. This "renaissance" of our sex life has also affected our feelings and attitudes. We are closer than ever, and we have been together for 23 years. I have shared not to boast, but to give you hope, that things can be fixed for you too. But they will not recover on their own. Talk and come up with something. Success!
I am 29 and I have the same problem with my husband. Conversations don't help. They haven't helped for two years, on the contrary - we rarely make love. In my opinion, something is collapsing in the psyche. I suggest you visit a sexologist together - offer it to her! There is another point - there may be a lover. If so - just wait!
Find a mistress, she has obviously lost her desire already, and you are a teenager with these 2-3 times.
You look like a good person to me. Tell your wife how you feel, what you want.