I'm writing here because I really don't know what to do, and I don't know what advice you could give me. I am a girl of 21. At first I'm sexual and in a sense that's where my problem comes from. First by sexual I don't mean easy. I don't sleep with everyone and I don't feel like everyone, * I've had previous partners, it's not one, but the number is not big * but when someone really attracts me I often think of him that way. And at the moment there is a person who attracts me sexually, as a man and as a person, but the situation there is complicated and at the moment it is different. Ever since I met him, he sometimes gives signals that I am not indifferent to him, other times he does the opposite.
He treats me with great respect and is very careful, he never allowed himself to cross the border, even when they were separated from the other, and I know for sure that I attract him in this way. Sometimes he is even too careful. There's a real chance he'll think I'm a virgin. Which is a little weird, I'm 21 after all. And I'm not so innocent, but if I really relax, if I stop being serious, not to say wooden, and allow myself to take this country out in the open, I'm worried that he'll start looking at me only as a sexual person. object because he is still a man. Of course, as I said, he is not alone at the moment and it is not known when they will separate again * they often separate, the last time was for maybe 2 months *, so on this part of the topic I have enough time to think and I'm panicking, but the advice is still welcome.
I'm reluctant to take action while they're together. The second and most urgent part of the problem. I haven't had sex in months. This boy is attracted to me and I don't want to be with anyone else, but at the same time, I am a young man. I don't want to sleep with someone like that, because I have sex, but I can't have sex with him either. My question is: What would you do in my place? Shouldn't I wait some more or sleep with someone else because of sex? Although I don't want to, it's a bit old-fashioned to wait for him as a spotless girl, but it's close to my heart. How long do you think the normal period is * dry * for my age? Before you ask me in the comments if I take care of my own pleasure, I do it sometimes. I know my body well, I can get to the end, but it's not the same, sex is for two.
What would you do in my place? Shouldn't I wait some more or sleep with someone else because of sex? Although I don't want to, it's a bit old-fashioned to wait for him as a spotless girl, but it's close to my heart. How long do you think the normal period is * dry * for my age? Before you ask me in the comments if I take care of my own pleasure, I do it sometimes. I know my body well, I can get to the end, but it's not the same, sex is for two. What would you do in my place? Shouldn't I wait some more or sleep with someone else because of sex? Although I don't want to, it's a bit old-fashioned to wait for him as a spotless girl, but it's close to my heart. How long do you think the normal period is * dry * for my age? Before you ask me in the comments if I take care of my own pleasure, I do it sometimes. I know my body well, I can get to the end, but it's not the same, sex is for two.
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The typical anointing in the head of the Bulgarian woman. She wants it, but she pretends she doesn't want it. Then, at the age of 35, when she has to look after her husband and children, she goes wild and starts letting everyone go. Mom, now is the time to make a living, to have sex. The more and more often, the better. Now is the time to change partners every month.
Number 1 - The author may have anointed her head, but yours too. "Now is the time for you to change partners every month."
What a carcass you are !!! (I apologize to the readers for the comment) How can you wait for people to separate in order to "fit in" most brazenly between them? !! "It was in her heart" - only where he has a partner and what if they break often? They will come together again. There is no place for you there! Can't you find "your man" so much that you desperately hope for others? But he was very careful with her, that even "too much." Well well well! In your eyes - a few kind words and a gesture and you are already impressed ... In your case, because of a strong attraction, you will ruin other people's relationships (because "separation" for you can simply mean "bad period" for a relationship) , but in the end you risk being thrown away. And I don't want to sound like a villain against you, but just doing that would be really stupid. Have a little self-esteem, don't be a doormat. F, 20
Number one, although a little rude in his speech, has a certain amount of truth ... Apart from the part with the children and the man ... There are a lot of women who take good care of their family and still get along. MOM, I'll tell you that now is really the time to have fun ... This doesn't necessarily mean with everyone, but go with someone else as you see fit.
Sex should be done because it gives you pleasure, not to keep a man in your life. If you like someone, if he likes you too, if you have no commitments to other people ... Well, have sex and enjoy. Just beware of moralists that they are totally screaming, especially starting with the sermons, what bad people are those who have regular sex and how, almost, they are "animals". Your life, your freedom and your vagina are yours, and if you don't use them properly, you just waste them.
Author: Thank you all for the comments! To number 1: Maybe you have the right to do this with the Bulgarian woman. Only the part with each month, I hope, is not expressed literally. To number 2: I have no intention of becoming a woman who changes partners every month. Indeed, both extremes are dangerous, and youth is no excuse if you overdo it. To number 3: Apparently you missed the part where I write that while they are together I do not intend to do anything, so for me he is a taboo while a stranger. And for a few kind words and a gesture, things are far from that, but the whole story is too long, complicated and I do not intend to go into such details, because in this particular part I am concerned about the opinion of readers. Needless to explain so much, but by careful I mean treats with respect, and you have obviously interpreted it differently. Again, while he's with her, he's a stranger, but when you break up with someone, he's practically free. It is not a thing and it is not someone's property, so unbound also means that it is not "hers". I appreciate your advice and effort to write the comment, but you get too goosebumps. To number 4: Thanks, of course not with everyone! To number 5: You have the right to everything. For me, sex is not a means to keep him, I just feel such attraction to the person in question, of course, as I mentioned in the topic, attraction is not only of this nature. Thanks, of course not with everyone! To number 5: You have the right to everything. For me, sex is not a means to keep him, I just feel such attraction to the person in question, of course, as I mentioned in the topic, attraction is not only of this nature. Thanks, of course not with everyone! To number 5: You have the right to everything. For me, sex is not a means to keep him, I just feel such attraction to the person in question, of course, as I mentioned in the topic, attraction is not only of this nature.
Author, I know very well what a drought is, and on top of that, to be in a serious relationship. My friend has been with me for 3 years, we are 23 years old, but he hates sex because of the emotional trauma and illness I later learned as a child. I am a beautiful girl and I have always been wanted by many fans, but I have always kept the person next to me, but in the end I decided to try something new. On the idea of my friends, who have a positive experience from Tinder, I registered there and soon met him. I was impressed by his athletic appearance, his strong directness, of course he did not spare me that he is gifted and very potent. I got scared and almost went to them and one short hour of sex with him was 10 times more passionate than 100 painful sex with my friend. I'm not sorry I did it, I even had to do it earlier.
Girls in search of the "big one" are blind to many things. You're downright funny. Remember, while thinking about "minji" you will never meet a decent boy. As you look at what's in your pants and not in your head, you'll be hurt forever, remember that.
Number 7, so you claim how much you love your boyfriend and hold on to him at the same time. You cheat on him, and call his problems "foreign." So people like you deserve to be buried in the ground and only their heads are visible and I guess you know the sequel ..
Number 7 is absolutely right. It is in a woman's instincts to conceive from an alpha male. Notice how 1 hour with the alpha equals almost a lifetime with the weaker one. And so it should be. F, 24