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How Long Have You Not Had Sex?

By daisiidivine August 04, 2020 22 answers Last updated August 04, 2020

G27 I haven't had sex in almost 3 years, I'm even embarrassed to admit it anonymously. Not that I don't want or lack attention, but rather my problem is emotional. I saw that there is such a topic, but I want to see new opinions and reasons. I need not to be alone in this, but for someone else to understand that he is not alone.

Answers 22

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devi_fox answered · August 04, 2020

   I haven't had sex for 15 years, but when I turned 16!

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milkywaygodd answered · August 04, 2020

   Big deal. No one died from it. Love and meaning are what you lack, otherwise going and "knocking" is the easiest thing to do, but think about whether this is what you really want.

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coffeemsk answered · August 04, 2020

   And I as number 1. In general, from 16 years old until today (25) I have sex, except when I change partners I have a break of 2-3 months

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roberttherabbit answered · August 04, 2020

   2 and a half years, but I think it will continue for a long time. Just after the man I was in a relationship with, I never met anyone else I liked. And accordingly to be free and to ask for a connection ... A complicated task. A relationship just for sex is not an option for me, because I haven't tried it and it's not for me, but a serious hate today ... it's a very difficult thing. As if no man wants a relationship, this is my impression, everyone - married, unmarried, etc. only want casual sex. And yes, the problem is emotional. Because we are still people, not animals. They like me, they take me down, but they only offer me the job that offends me.

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bigtymer9355 answered · August 04, 2020

   I am a man of 35. After I divorced my first wife for 1 year, I didn't have sex. You don't die without sex, but after I got divorced I was devastated and even though I dated a few women, I still couldn't relax and got drunk. I have been having regular sex for 18 years without interruption, if I do not count this period of 1 year.

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shaaronscott answered · August 04, 2020

   Hey, I've lived to see a woman like number 4 who doesn't want to just be "fucked". I would gladly go out with such a woman if I were not married. In addition to my comment from number 1, I will say that this was a joke, of course. Otherwise to the question - I broke up with my first girlfriend somewhere in early 2003, then I met my current wife in June 2005, and we had sex for the first time in October. So how much is coming - somewhere 2.5 years without sex for the same reason as number 4.

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nancy_777_dior answered · August 05, 2020

   I haven't had sex in 7 years haha. I'm 27 what to do. It cannot have isolated itself from the world and become something

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ululante answered · August 05, 2020

   Let's ask the question in another way: Since when have you not written a book? Since when have you not composed a song (or at least sung it, come on ...)? It is very sad and very animal to revolve around sex. It's as if your life depends on it.

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paisleyxx answered · August 05, 2020

   Maximum 7 months, after a separation in youth. I am now 50 years old, my husband is 53 years old. I still have a cycle, although with great fluctuations. We try to have sex once a week. And the last time I do it in the back is during the summer holidays. Really, it's good that we're anonymous here.

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thrwawayfox answered · August 06, 2020

   For the longest three months, it has happened to me twice since I had sex, after ending long relationships. But for me it's different, I'm crazy about sex and for me three months on dry land was like two years.

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madelinedarling answered · August 06, 2020

   We do it in front and behind, it's not a problem, I'm fine. The bad thing is that my husband is only 34 years old, and he has less and less sex.

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vicky_g21 answered · August 06, 2020

   They soon became 1g 4 m after I broke up with my girlfriend and since then without sex. I had two options with girls who wanted me a lot, but I didn't like them and I didn't get to bed. without touching it). I'm rather naughty that I want to love and be loved than that I stay without sex, but one day this will happen

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thewildwizard answered · August 07, 2020

   3d and 6m. after the divorce. I just couldn't find anyone to feel like I wanted to be with him. I don't have sex without commitments and it's not for me. I want something real.

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jess_peach_pie answered · August 07, 2020

   A man of 31. At 21 I made my own set. From 23 to 28 - ie. I haven't had any sex in 5 years. I haven't had sex in 6 months now. Nice, huh? Women start "ohhh I haven't had sex in 3 weeks, how am I still alive ?????". Not your author, 3 years is not a small amount, but in general it is very VERY easy for women to find sex, even if they are uglier. It is often impossible for an ugly man to find sex.

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topdocri answered · August 08, 2020

   2 years, for the same reason as number 4

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bounce_boobs answered · August 08, 2020

   I'm almost 40. Shortly after I turn them, it will be 10 years since I fell in love with a woman. :) I have had convenient occasions to "sleep" with several women in recent years, but if we do not have mutual feelings, I do not consider it reasonable to do so, just for the pleasure.

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bobb246 answered · August 09, 2020

   I had the longest periods without sex when my husband was a circulator. He was absent for about forty days, then came home for a few days - and again. I was very young and I really missed the intimacy with him. But yes, he's right №2 On the other hand, when he came back it was a holiday - we had exciting sex, like boyfriends, unforgettable. Thank you, author of the topic, it brought back many fond memories.

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sensualbarbies answered · August 09, 2020

   It will be 2 years since my wife won't let me in. It hasn't been pink before, but at least we did it from time to time. I don't know what to do, I love her and we have children, I don't know how to live without this closeness.

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anasbee answered · August 09, 2020

   I have been having sex since I was 23 years old. I am now 37. I am such that after the separation it is difficult for me to look at another woman. For me, sex is not paramount, although it is very important for maintaining intimacy. That is, my relationship was only "serious." After the first stagnation 3 years. After the second 2 years. With the last ... long story, but for myself I confirmed one thing, as someone said above - I miss sharing. Someone should be interested in me, and not just want and expect .... No matter how tanned I am, it passes, it is a cyclical process. While love ... over time is missing more and more ....

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red_rosee answered · August 10, 2020

   I am a man of 34, I have been without sex for 2 years at most, he doesn't die, but he's naughty.

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rabbit_rouse answered · August 10, 2020

   F 33 Two and a half years. During this time, I accumulated a lot of mental problems, which at one point escalated and even began to interfere with my normal lifestyle. Now I have periods from 2 months to seven months. The truth is, I don't care anymore, because it's still the same numbers from men. There have been cases and on the first date we had sex on 7-8. So it's not just me ... and then bye. Unfortunately, things end the same way. I want something a little more than just sex, but they don't. It's not like we're getting out of bed. I know my possibilities from. I'm just tired of nonsense. Not to mention that I myself don't want more than half of the men, because they just don't even have sex. I don't know how strong my libido is, but only until a man appears to turn me on and have chemistry. As some say, but how and why do you sit without sex. It's as if this great sex is food and water. Yes really if there is chemistry it is a great experience. But just to say that I'm having sex and they put something between my legs no matter who is super dumb. If so, money can be made (this is a joke, of course).

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yeli916 answered · August 10, 2020

   Ever since I broke up with my ex (we were together for 10 years), that is, for more than a year. I don't think it's as easy as it turns out to find a man for sex. I have to be mentally and emotionally connected, otherwise I can't and I don't want to. On the other hand, I give myself pleasure and I like it. It will be like this until I find my man.