My problem is this: I am a 17-year-old boy and I am a virgin. But I'm not ugly, I even think I'm attractive ... I just don't know how to approach a girl I like and want sex from her, etc. and maybe I'm worried because it will be my first time And I want to ask you, for the first time, how long it is normal for me to finish, because that also worries me not to finish too fast and for her to remain dissatisfied and to throw me away, for example. Shake please :) Thanks in advance
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I guess when it's your first time you'll finish very quickly. Don't worry, usually when men have a great desire to finish very quickly, but you can repeat later if your partner wants it. At this age you have no experience and it is normal to make mistakes because you are studying, and there are no textbooks for this school, it is all a matter of experience. In addition, if your partner has no experience, it will be difficult to satisfy her because she will not know exactly what she wants and how to ask for it. We have all been on this path so that if you wish, you will get to know each other over time and you will have fun. Just talk and discuss everything you want to do.
On the occasion of your confession, I remembered my miserable first fucking. Until then, I thought I would finish in no time, but I didn't even finish. At first I couldn't lift it for a while. After all, for once I will put it on some and ... some tension, so that the lever does not rise, and then it does not end. Abe is a misery once, but then you get used to it and leave. Come on, good health :-)
Well, the problem is that she has experience and I don't know if I should tell her if I'm a virgin :)
If she has experience, she will understand without telling her, but you can also tell her to guide you. If she is much older than you, she will take over and wait for you and adjust to you because she will know what it is about. There are times when, out of great desire, you may feel down and have to wait a while to continue. It depends on how big it is and what experience it has. Ask me now that I'm almost 40 and everything is clear to me, but when I was 20 and ..... and I was burning for good and bad. So act and don't worry about anything. Everything that can happen to you will be normal for your situation and experience.
Tell her ! No one is born a scientist! She will help you as soon as she has experience.
Thanks! Give more comments who has something to say :)
Well, I personally think it would be good to tell her ... it may even excite her more! Don't get burned and don't think "what if it doesn't get up" or "if I can't finish"! Calm down and enjoy your first time, and if she is more experienced she will guide you, there is nothing scary !! Success - y0pche