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How Love Totally Ruined Me ..

By fanclub_party August 08, 2020 8 answers Last updated August 08, 2020

This is not the first time I have written here. He is one of those concerned at first who then wants to poison your life. In the beginning, kind, caring, constantly making gestures, in a word - a dream. Some time passed and he showed his real face - obsessive, thinking only of himself, insults me constantly, hides his phone, wants my constant, lies to me that other people write from his phone, and at the same time these people tell me he what he does behind my back. He always rubs his hands with them. He keeps telling me you won't go there, you won't talk to this one, you will do that. He is neither my husband nor anything, but he treats me as if I were not a man, but a thing that is his and must ruin. He tries to quarrel with my parents and my girlfriends. I'm already at the edge of my strength ... what should I do ...? I love him very much, but he totally ruins me. He says that he is not hiding anything and after a minute he says I have another, you are not the only one and many girls are waiting for your place. What do you think I should do. Does it make sense to make any last effort, or are things completely lost? Thank you for taking the time to read my story.

Answers 8

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grace.wx answered · August 08, 2020

   What efforts will you make, don't you have self-esteem ?! As they waited a long time, to take it and endure it. But a narcissist!

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riva0913 answered · August 08, 2020

   It's not worth the effort! Listen to me and save your events. I gave birth to a child from such a person. I seemed to love him very much, they always endured ... well, my parting with him brought me only relief :)

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babyraa answered · August 08, 2020

   No, you have to leave now! If you stay, get ready to live in Hell!

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savrenee1 answered · August 08, 2020

   Не разбирам защо женоте сами си правят живота по-сложен събирайки се с хора, с които не са щастливи. И кога жените ще разберат, че живота им не се върти около това да угаждат и да се подчиняват на един мъж, а да слагат в центъра единствено и само СЕБЕ СИ. И така всеки който се опита да се доближи и навлезе в живота ти ще играе по твоите правила, ще те прави щастлива и ще те уважава. По начина по който ти искаш, защото ти си в центъра на своя живот. От тази позицоя е много по лесно да кажеш довиждане на всекигокойто не полрова твоите желаноя и стамдарти. Жена 23. г

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salutmentalcat answered · August 08, 2020

   Мисли! Това любов ли е и тази любов ще се засили ли, като имате деца и проблеми. Но каквото и да напишем, ти ще си останеш с него и след години ще си съсипана от този мъж.

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sarahsilval answered · August 08, 2020

   Събираш си куфара и му казваш успех със следващата. Ако не, търпи си го и не се оплаквай.

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aria_alex_hotcpl answered · August 09, 2020

   You wrote it to me yourself, you "fell in love" with a "dream", not with a real person ... "Things" have never been dear ...

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ensonhaber answered · August 09, 2020

   It doesn't make any sense. Don't bother unnecessarily.