Hello. Some time ago our company met another, where there was a great blonde chick. But she was terribly sexy. Literally all the boys liked it and we all tried to take it off, but it was not given to anyone. She also had a boy with our company who was always shy and pretended not to like her, he was fat, about 100 kg. And don't you believe a few days ago I saw them KISS? How is it possible for such a chick to go with such a loser who must have never had a boyfriend and never kissed a girl? He doesn't train anything, he doesn't go to discos (we barely got him with us then), he doesn't drink or smoke ... he's a boring guy. We all had strong bodies, and this chick could go out with anyone, but she decided on the simplest one. We all hated him after that and we don't call him anywhere with us anymore. It makes no sense for someone who does nothing but just stand in them and play games to win such a girl. 100% is nowhere else. Do you think this is normal?
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Hahaha! Well, not writing or drinking makes him better than you! You may hate him, but he's with the chick, not you!
Of course it is normal. Sometimes, less and less, the cool chicks have a mind and go with the right guys, and not with another drunk and intoxicated countman, who when going to the gym thinks he is very busy only with his tiles ... get used to it!
Manny, manny manny ... is the rich man's world;)
Hahaha, your story made me very happy ... Well, that's what happens. Put yourself in the place of the chick, where you line up the whole pile of "guys" to take it off. And if she's really that pretty, it's not just you. That is why women do not like people like you, who openly show them how much they like them and are not served a pan. The "fat man" was obviously the only one who stood out from the crowd, did not constantly follow her with his tongue out and greasy, flattering behavior ... and thus aroused her interest. He was a challenge for her. Beautiful women do not like easy victories! Your herd of dudes is an "easy win." The real man does not merge with the crowd with his similar behavior, but tries to be a challenge for women.
Haha very familiar. And my ex, after we broke up, went with some kid with a beer belly, who not only has nothing to give her, but is much below her level in every respect. I just can't believe moving with him is absurd. And I wonder what's happening to these boys, as if they've lost their minds. Then they roar that they are alone, but let them roar
Grab me and beat him up! ;) Just kidding. Women have such a perverse logic to do in defiance of cool men and deliberately not to go out with them, but with the idiots to show something and pretend to be interesting. Somehow, when they get too good at once, they suddenly drill and choose exactly the most stupid. I do not know how to explain it to you, but do not expect to know - These women no one can understand them. ;) Up to 3: Oluys sleigh. :;)
Here, those who are angry with the author should keep the anger to themselves. It really is a distortion of the girl's choice. As a child, I also fell in love with a jerk (he wasn't fat, but he was super anxious, he had a hard time communicating with people, there were even guys who basked him quite seriously), and at the same time I was probably taken down by 8 people. cool all, if not even more .. But I was true to the craziness and I never went out alone with any of them, although with that we had not even become boyfriends, and just went out - with other people or alone. The reason was that he had managed to touch me and won (I would even say biased) on an emotional level. And in the end it turned out that in addition to me, he had become close with 2 other girls in this way - he had won us all over on an emotional level and left with the ugliest of us,
The body is up to a point ... you need a mind. ;))
"There is no logic" bro, welcome to the real world .. For women, there is no logic, bro, they themselves do not even know what they are doing ... congratulations to the fat man looking for another :)
Are you angry ??
The author of this article has not yet learned to compose fictional stories on behalf of a man that look credible. :))) The topic is for the "Fictional Stories" section and I wonder how they approved it to be here.
I will add that the author of her article has no idea what the issue of weight is for men and thinks that writing "100 kilograms" will sound a hell of a lot, just because it is based on her ideas about the female figure, when she is with it. weight. Nothing of the kind! I myself am 171 cm with a weight of 88 kg at the moment and I wear pants with number 48. I reached 93 kg and then I wore pants with size 50. If the author of the topic bothered to check in a men's clothing store, she will be convinced that these pants are perfectly normal.
It's very rotten, isn't it? :) The girl obviously has a mind - of course she will choose a decent boy. Have a body, but it is up to a point. Then you will have to win it with something else, but you have no mind, my boy. The fact that you have such thinking is a sufficient answer why it will not be with you.
There is money man. With money, everything happens in this world
He must be a programmer, he writes his java or c # -pa and collects 5-8000 per month, and you fitness enthusiasts buy community and drivers for 1000;) If Buck is a blockchain developer, they don't move 15,000 per month, I know one such and dude is over things: D pp. yes, I'm a programmer too, but I'm a partner in the company and it's pouring money into me, to see who goes out with cool chicks without doing anything. If they find out that I am also a co-owner, they just take off their pants. Learn, children.
Your company is full of jokers and artificial types. Funny village thugs like you have taken her down hundreds of times. She wanted something different. You are a bit of a growing wreck. It makes sense that she didn't choose you. Egati complex to hate the boy ...
I choose the nice and impudent for sex, and the smart and modest for serious relationships :)
The body is getting better, the character is not!
from number 7:15, if you have a friend who earns 15k per month and is 'above things', as you put it, and at the same time you seem to be ahead of him, because you say that you are also a co-owner ... so my question is how does a person like you even notice a topic with such a title? And after you noticed it, what motivation did you have to click on it, since obviously you should be 'above things' even above your friend's things;) pp: in my opinion the author is a boy somewhere under 20 years old. - in this regard, some of the critical comments are irrelevant
You do well not to bother the person with yourself. Better alone in the company of a blond chick than in the company of sluts like you who yawn instead of rejoicing for their friends.
You only describe me as not being 100 kg, but 80. So there is still hope for me.
15. he explained it to you perfectly. Prepare to change the guard. Those where the apogee of their life is in high school and are very open and inflated, at 18-25 give way to the bison, who then peel off with money and a career, and have a lot to catch up :)
Starting with these bodies, etc., you're gossiping while the fat one is trampling! There are many spoiled children who are pleased and expect the same outside! The reality is painful, this is how haters are born!
17, Smart and modest do not choose women who chose impudent only for sex.
Right in the tenth, number 12. I thought the text was written by some fat boy who had never kissed a girl and fantasized about some blonde beauty choosing him over the others. But your version is more convincing. It's the woman's tone, you're right. Men do not write this way. And that history is fiction is clear from first reading.
I want to ask the men why they decided that the crazy fat man is a toothpick? That you are like that and you recognize yourself is your problem. You are very bad, even though you have grown up. The author told himself that he was not actually doing anything, but just sitting at them and playing games.
Dude, I don't know if the story is true, but in the end, a girl is not authoritative for the whole female sex. There is another thing that everyone is lucky. I am not given examples, personal or observed, but appearance is not always a guarantee.
Number 12, being 93 kg at 171 means ready fat. If you are 191 then you can pass for weak, but 171/93 definitely cannot be normal. Unless your head weighs 40 kg :) And the author is a student, I don't know what programmers and thousands of levs you give him.
Go to number 12 Just don't start bothering us again with your diets and sports, that if I start, you will understand how far behind you are with the materials on healthy eating and sports. In addition - 171 cm. and 90kg. means that you are fat, regardless of muscle mass, I'm sure you have an extra 15 kg. 8-10, of which are fats. Every person has a personality (soul) in himself and is not just a vision. It's a pity for people who judge only by their appearance and envy the beautiful, but make fun of the ugly (I don't say 'ugly' because there are no ugly people, there are people with a well-groomed appearance, with a bad appearance and good-looking bums - well, guess what with whom I will communicate), so ... sorry for people with prejudices. We have complex consciousnesses (even those unconscious of you). Observe yourself and you will see that you are much more than a body, a profession, money, when. properties ..., and how transient these things are, so the 'love' relying on them is temporary.
to 17: The problem is that you will go to the nice and impudent until the age of 30, when you will suddenly feel that it is time for a serious relationship and you will want to find a smart and modest person with whom to grow old, but you will it is almost impossible to compromise after you have been with the nice and the impudent, and even the more adequate smart and modest ones will not want you, because they know that you have a lot of mileage. That is, you will give your youth to the tramplers and then you will wonder why there is no joy.
You still don't have enough life experience. Appearance cannot be judged by character. I'm not talking about a fat woman, I'm talking about a chick. You think that since it's super shiny, they should definitely like the same things as you - to go to discos with noisy companies, because you think that's cool, and people who don't like it are congested. And it does not matter how such a beautiful girl can be congested. The fact that haimans like you are the majority does not mean that your interests are an absolute criterion for humanity. The girl has a different character, which means other interests than yours. In that case, maybe the fat man is more suitable. You look for one in your mind.
And what about the fact that he doesn't like to go to these fox shops and get poisoned by people like you? Am I going to go and get poisoned for someone? Very clearly not! And I'm like this person - I stay at home, I watch my interactive TV, I use the Internet, I also listen to the radio, and I don't care where people like you go! I don't have a job where you and everyone else go to waste my time and money! The girl knows very well who to choose! She chose the right person! And you and the others put together did not impress the girl, so do not be angry! She liked the big man who presses his rags, unlike you and the others, and he is smart and has an approach to the ladies!
Be careful not to burst with malice guys hahaha ... well done to the chick!
You guys are typical idiots who judge by your looks. "He probably didn't have a boyfriend", and you're probably typical players who become the boyfriend of probably half the girls at school and when you get bored you dump her. Shame ...
Yes, the author is completely normal. Accept that not everything is appearance or imagine that there are women who like fat men. Probably the woman, apart from the "cool chick", is exceptionally intelligent and decent and looks for the different from the herd that hangs at the discos, raises bars, drunks, number, etc ... But you can't understand this, because you are from the table . I hope you and your little ones are 15-16 years old, because if you are more sorry for you really. And you are doing well, having stopped communicating with the boy, definitely not worth your false friendship.
By 15, I can give you quite categorical examples that you are under a great illusion. If it reassures you that you work desk work for thousands and are not athletic, ok. But, I have 15 years of experience with young and more settled women and I know that they chase the steam and do not look at all at the bedside of the giver, but at the one who pushes hard in the yards of schools and halls. No, I haven't had 15 boyfriends and I don't count, but don't underestimate the opinion. I don't want to write a hundred lines with examples, I don't care. I recently advised a friend who earns well and lives alone, he didn't listen to me. I was dumped like that too. I am somewhere around 25 years old. I took the form that before that I was 93 kg with a belly and a round face, and now I am the same weight in a tight body. And I know from personal experience that this is what gave me bonuses. Obviously you don't have much idea. And I was rocking a girl tied to a wealthy boy.
Apparently you just don't know women. Yes, they may be staring at a muscular guy with tiles, but when it comes to a serious relationship, they will choose the one who makes them laugh and makes them feel loved and happy. Apparently you have been so busy flaunting your muscles that you have forgotten that she is a human being and, apart from the physical data, is also interested in the character of the man. Well, surprise! This "crazy" friend of yours understood it and because he knows that he is not a bodybuilder, he emphasized other qualities with which to win women. Next time, instead of banging like crazy in the gym or pouring alcohol in another disco, take a book, work on your intellectual development and just see a valuable chick pay attention to you. Only with muscles and a minimum of general culture to attract a muffin at most, but cool girls want a lot more than that and will normally choose a boy who may not look like Uncle Arnie when he is young, but makes them feel good. So instead of vomiting fire and brimstone, work on yourself intellectually to start taking down cool babes.
24 to 30 That's exactly what I hinted at 17, but you said it much better and directly. Not that he will understand.
I'm number 11/12. Number 28, 10 years ago I was 93 kg and I actually weighed visibly on top, but I didn't pass for very fat, because the structure of my figure is such that everything is evenly "poured" all over my body, not for example to climb only in the abdomen. Number 29, I will repeat some of what I wrote in opinion 12: There is no way to compare male and female bodies at the same weight. I look thinner than many women who are 20 kg less than me at the same height. The difference is that obese women have a fairly large volume of fat, while I have very little fat and more muscle mass accumulated over the years (which, incidentally, is about 2, 5 times heavier than fat at the same volume). In the heat of summer I was 84 kg, but since then I run 2 km every other day, while walking 7-15 km and riding a bike twice as much. During this time I gained 4 kg (now up to 88 kg) of muscle mass with a relatively unchanged figure in the abdomen, but with stronger legs and shoulders, so do not rush to draw wrong conclusions about who is fat and who is not. :) Quote: "Just don't start bothering us again with your diets and sports, that if I start, you will understand how far behind you are with the materials on healthy eating and sports." Start and tell yourself everything when you are so arrogant. !! Show how far you are! You will be useful / know with your opinion to those who need shared valuable experience. You are on the move! As for me, I do not compete with anyone, but I enjoy playing sports and eating something meaningful for my health. I'm not at all attracted to the usual harmful semi-finished products,
I can not understand you. If we like a bad boy who drinks, smokes, goes to discos, pretends to be interesting and respects us, you say we like junk, and when we like a normal, modest and well-mannered boy, you wonder how we can like them. "cool" instead of you? Lastly, what should we like?
Well done to the girl! Good choice. Should a man drink, smoke and go to discos to impress a girl. The author is very angry that the girl did not choose one of the scoundrels who pretend to be clowns and walk like puppies after beautiful women, and some "traffic jam" won her over without much effort. When I see a man walking like a puppy after a beautiful woman and she proudly walks in front of him and I find it funny how pathetic this man is.
The curves of unnatural selection are the result of globalism, which irradiates us so fiercely. But it does not matter. The apprentice knows the work. This parody union of those in your story will be short.
I can't believe she was attracted to the boy in question. There is some other reason or interest. She may have deliberately chosen him, to annoy him. But many girls also make an inadequate choice for a partner. You should not regret it. And the fact that one writes here that you are discussing bodies and the fat boy is trampling on her can only provoke a storm of laughter. He doesn't step on anything, divorces her and takes on the role of a sharing friend. She will be trampled by people like the author and the cool ones who liked her. The laws of nature are like that.
She must have chosen him because he is intelligent and polite, and you are empty-headed and superficial, "elementary": = Obviously, besides being beautiful, the girl is also smart. Sorry dude, try one at your level :)
bahti fictional nonsense :)
If the topic is not fake, it is very stupid. Author, did you write it yourself or did your friends from the gym and the pub help you?
It is ugly for a young person to be overweight. This also shows what a stagnant life it leads. It may be fair and smart, but I do not tolerate laziness. He may be overweight due to some disease, but for every round person there is another round person. If a person has a choice to do better, why should he choose the worse? I have twice refused girls with a weight of more than 10 kg, because I am the radical opposite of them and keep fit three times a week for two hours of sports. Everyone stretches according to their rug. And if you have any complexes here, you better do something for yourself and not fight in the chest that you are fat and get a big salary and you can be who you want to be. Women may be looking for security, but above all they like really attractive men. And very often they make him on two fronts to catch a man to support them and a lover to cry for them. I've had enough experience of life and I've seen this thing. I myself went with a girl who dumped her boyfriend because he doesn't do anything all day, sitting in his car, a 22-year-old boy 100 kg one and 85 high with a belly. M26.
This is the so-called Dunning-Krueger effect. It is expressed in the fact that the individual manifests a subjective and especially ILLUSOR feeling of superiority over others in the group. The study concerned the work environment, ie. a certain person thinks that he is smarter, more knowledgeable and more powerful, which is far from the truth and this is only in his head, but the effect is manifested in a number of other spheres of public life - including gender communication. You / you and your friends think that the fat one, however, can escape a number of other qualities that you do not have. When I was younger, I often heard remarks like: "look at her and what she's up to." And from such - ordinary boys, from ordinary families - I want to emphasize that they go to push in the hall, they give it to openers, uh, uh, but they don't think about it, that in relation to this person they may have no education, no money, no status, no intellect, no origin, no profession, etc. etc. It also depends on the woman - muffins are usually liked by such hunters and fitness enthusiasts, but if she is a valuable and serious woman, pushers in the gym with tattoos are their last chance. I don't know exactly what the case is, it may have been made up, but what I say is often in reality. It's usually important for women to create emotion for them, and I don't know if this man created it for her, but if a not-so-cool-looking man gets under her skin, creates emotion and sexual tension, it's no wonder she wins the valuable chick . Also, as I said, it depends on the woman - if she is just looking for sex, she will prefer one, but if she is looking for a more serious relationship, such neighborhood gyms have no chance. Of course I'm not saying that there are no men among them who deserve it. I train myself, and I trained as a young man. I explain in principle how things are. Bassi, probably the fat and cool babe is bursting with sex ......... just when you think about it and you want to kill him ;-) Advice from me - shake off such things, don't think about them, work more on yourself and as they say, move on. Male 46 years old
I've always been full, I've never loved sports, but I'm wearing glasses and not very handsome. But when I found myself in a community - first class, then a student group (there were 3), then different work teams, in no more than 2 months, for example, about 60% of women start to like me. A circle of admirers is formed from which I can choose. Because masculinity is in the character, in the soul, not in the plates of the abdomen. And women feel it.
I have not come across impressed women by fat men and vice versa. We are talking about sexual attraction. And besides, those inflated by the gym are not among the most desirable, because their muscles are very expressive and look like a sham. Most like men with a slender body or athletic. For example, I am 181 cm. And 98 kg and I'm not so full, but enough that I do not tie. In my opinion, most of the comments are written by people like me with complexes and want to convince the opposite. Even the story is made up, because there is no way such a person can be chosen by a beauty.