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How They Caught You In Adultery

By alanaroseandsofia August 30, 2020 50 answers Last updated August 30, 2020

No. in step and how you hide and do you manage to hide for long at all. Yesterday my wife and I were fooling around because after work I jumped to a gas station and she immediately worried that I would have an accident and called. And I call her "hey, you can't catch a mistress." Joke aside, but I'm 100% sure my wife would catch me right now. Come on, I'll tell her 2-3 times that they've held me back, but if I lie to her a few times, she'll definitely start warming up. I am a family man and after work I have family responsibilities such as picking up the child from school, swimming, shopping together, etc. n. A parallel connection would be immediately felt by both me and her. And I wonder how the infidels combine these things and the victims can't feel that much. My personal opinion is that usually either the victims deliberately pretend to be distracted or the infidels underestimate the situation and think that it will not be understood for a long time, but most often they are wrong. Unless one is abroad for example or is done only on business trips.

I don't know, you say. It's just weird how people believe that it won't affect their marriage, that they haven't actually "ruined your family, and that they're very" discreet. "For me, you have to be stupid not to guess after a while. At least in ours. a case where we spend a lot of time together and do everything together, that's the way it is. And I wonder how the infidels combine these things and the victims can't feel that much. My personal opinion is that usually either the victims deliberately pretend to be distracted or the infidels underestimate the situation and think that it will not be understood for a long time, but most often they are wrong. Unless one is abroad for example or is done only on business trips. I don't know, you say. It's just weird how people believe that it won't affect their marriage, that they haven't actually "ruined your family, and that they're very" discreet. "For me, you have to be stupid not to guess after a while. At least in ours. a case where we spend a lot of time together and do everything together, that's the way it is. And I wonder how the infidels combine these things and the victims can't feel that much. My personal opinion is that usually either the victims deliberately pretend to be distracted or the infidels underestimate the situation and think that it will not be understood for a long time, but most often they are wrong. Unless one is abroad for example or is done only on business trips. I don't know, you say. It's just weird how people believe that it won't affect their marriage, that they haven't actually "ruined your family, and that they're very" discreet. "For me, you have to be stupid not to guess after a while.

At least in ours. a case where we spend a lot of time together and do everything together, that's the way it is. that usually either the victims deliberately pretend to be distracted or the infidels underestimate the situation and think that it will not be understood for a long time, but most often they are wrong. Unless one is abroad for example or is done only on business trips. I don't know, you say. It's just weird how people believe that it won't affect their marriage, that they haven't actually "ruined your family, and that they're very" discreet. "For me, you have to be stupid not to guess after a while. At least in ours. a case where we spend a lot of time together and do everything together, that's the way it is. that usually either the victims deliberately pretend to be distracted or the infidels underestimate the situation and think that it will not be understood for a long time, but most often they are wrong. Unless one is abroad for example or is done only on business trips. I don't know, you say. It's just weird how people believe that it won't affect their marriage, that they haven't actually "ruined your family, and that they're very" discreet. "For me, you have to be stupid not to guess after a while. At least in ours. a case where we spend a lot of time together and do everything together, that's the way it is.

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manicpixiedreamgirl8 answered · August 30, 2020

   I was the same as you, from work at home and completely devoted to the family. The result is that we broke up because her lady is bored and wants new emotions and to meet a new man. I think you put yourself in such a way that you don't have free time. I know a colleague who lies that he has a job late, sometimes he sits at work just to create an alibi for a convenient occasion. You can cheat on team building, at lunch break, etc. It is a common practice for both sexes to quarrel with their partner on purpose and then do not go home as punishment. A friend might say he was with you. There are many ways.

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corriere answered · August 30, 2020

   The topic is interesting to me because I am in a similar situation to yours and I have asked myself this question. You are absolutely right that it is with the fixed everyday life that it is difficult to find a mistress. The only "window" is to do it during working hours or during real or imagined business trips. Separately, the problem is in the mistress herself. Single women are generally reluctant to do such things and consider your "meeting opportunities" because they feel humiliated and used. An acceptable option is for the mistress to also be married and not mind this type of dating just for sex. My humble experience is with a married woman, my colleague. It happened a few years ago. We saw each other several times during working hours, but it turned out that this is not an easy job, because it is complicated to organize a simultaneous absence from work, without being noticed and impressed. That's why we reluctantly ended our relationship and we only do it from time to time at various corporate events in other cities. I love my family, I don't want to divorce, but I've been married for a long time and I'm pretty tired of having sex with my wife. I guess it's the same with her, she's probably thinking about finding a lover. That's why I don't follow her ... if she finds one, it's for her :) Still, one needs a little variety, and I, thank God, am not jealous. she was probably thinking of finding a lover too. That's why I don't follow her .... if she finds one, it's for her :) Still, one needs a little variety, and I, thank God, am not jealous. she was probably thinking of finding a lover too. That's why I don't follow her .... if she finds one, it's for her :) Still, one needs a little variety, and I, thank God, am not jealous.

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dalidakhalilofficial answered · August 30, 2020

   I don't understand what a man's partner is for, since he doesn't want to be monogamous. Isn't it much more convenient for a non-monogamous person not to have a partner? It's as if a lot of people lack basic logic ... or commit to someone, just so people don't talk to them.

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baumanelise answered · August 30, 2020

   F at 27 I have cheated twice with the same person on my friend. I'm not sorry, because if it weren't for this infidelity, maybe we would have split up. Now that we have a child, things are much different. But women want to feel wanted, they want to feel like women, being exemplary men and taking care of children is wonderful, but not enough and has nothing to do with sex. If there is something that my swimmer does not give me or I feel that our sex life is getting boring, I would cheat again, because for me it is just sex. I only feel for the man I have chosen, but if he does not make me feel wanted, no matter how good a father he is, infidelity is inevitable. P. C-after the infidelity, he seemed to feel something and changed radically for the better. Everything is different, as if we have been in a relationship for several months, there is no routine,

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davina_dark answered · August 30, 2020

   Nowadays, with these Facebooks, social networks, mobile phones, it is very difficult to catch a mistress. Some of my colleagues and friends have suffered so. One of them caught his mistress, but then she or some villain found his wife's Facebook page and ruined it. I work abroad with my wife. But many of my colleagues are alone (their wives are in Bulgaria) and they think that thousands of kilometers save them from disclosure, but it is not. You catch your mistress, and again someone finds her face and writes her what you did to them. People in infidelity leave many traces. You chat with your mistress, but you forget to delete the chat, or your wife knows your account password, and hop, you're exposed again. A friend rightly says - No lovers, just prostitutes. You better have fun with a prostitute. You pay, you get the job done, and everyone leaves. And with these lovers the work becomes thick. You don't know when it will pike her to spoil you, feelings may appear on her or your part, to blackmail you that she will reveal everything, etc. In the end, I am convinced of the following. It's best to be either a prostitute or to be an "open couple" and to chase whoever you want without being jealous.

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neetu261 answered · August 31, 2020

   I caught my husband in infidelity years ago. You are right in one thing - you have to be stupid not to feel it. Although I was a very young and not very experienced woman. I read somewhere, I don't remember exactly where, that infidelity is like eating garlic - in whatever corner you stand - it smells. It all changes. Of course, it affects marriage - as I said, nothing is the same anymore. Let anyone who has decided to cheat rethink things. Because sometimes it is irreparable

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eatjag answered · August 31, 2020

   7, and how exactly did you catch it? In a mold or just felt and started begging?

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nikailcic answered · August 31, 2020

   I am currently having virtual sex and I intend to meet live, because at home without sex I just can't stand it anymore! Why didn't you leave !? Mainly because of PIN, and when you live without sex, what kind of infidelity is it ?! Just a kind of survival ... Because I'm fucked and I don't see two and everything that happens virtually will be experimented to the core and real ... I think that if they catch me, I will feel great relief, because it will wait, and do not cross out, a topic that has been absolutely taboo for a long time!

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bellamoon0 answered · September 01, 2020

   I didn't have a lover. When I was at the university, there were two family members who saw each other from time to time at the break, then it seemed strange to me, but now I understand that they were not the only ones .. h

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fackfellowat answered · September 01, 2020

   Qui lovers, qui prostitutes, the woman is at home, tighten up ... These prostitutes are so striking to me ...

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jazzy6285 answered · September 01, 2020

   At №8-I don't believe that anyone can catch someone in the mold-it still seems to me that this is folklore. These things are just felt. And what do you think of a 28-year-old man who doesn't touch you even once in a month? Strong and right at that. You add two and two and just ask here and there. In my case, it worked flawlessly — he and his mistress worked together. Their colleagues gladly dipped them. №7

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sarah_ssmith answered · September 02, 2020

   Why didn't you leave !? Mainly because of the PIN So what does the PIN have to do with being an adult citizen?

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xcummingxsoonx answered · September 02, 2020

   In a mold just as it ended in me. We were in the caravan.

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emmanuelle_jacques answered · September 02, 2020

   My ex almost caught him. So far I'm not 100% sure, but let's say 90%. The reason is that his mistress seems to have forgotten that he is married and started calling him on the phone in the evening. Well, when a colleague from the office called him "accidentally" 5 times at 11 o'clock in the evening ... there's no way you can't feel it. I never asked him for an explanation, but there was no need for it. A few months later, I filed for divorce. For another reason, but these midnight conversations also had an effect. So you think very well about a lot of roasts and that your partner will not feel ... but it is not known when the lover will spoil things.

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anal_hard_sex answered · September 03, 2020

   As number 7 says, suddenly everything changes and you have to be a big horse with caps to ignore the symptoms. Suddenly on the weekends he had to go out alone to spend time with his parents because they were not in good health and needed help. He wasn't picking up his phone when I called him at the time. Too bad for him that he obviously didn't pick up on his mother and she started calling me, asking why his phone was turned off. Separately, he started turning off his phone at home at night. Make a fake skype. He had never liked shopping before, and suddenly he spontaneously offered to go out to throw out the trash or pick up something from the store that he noticed was over. He did not realize that the store was nearby and from the balcony it could be seen that until he came out he started talking on the phone. When I asked who he was calling - either he had to talk to his mother or his father. Since the contract for his mobile phone was in my name, at one point I doubted and checked the online breakdown for the previous month - well, every second call turns out to be from the same unknown number, this is a pretty clear indication. The problem is not that there are no signs - the problem is that you don't want to believe until the end.

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lillianwilliam answered · September 03, 2020

   17, in your last sentence the whole truth is gathered, something I have been thinking for years, I just didn't know how to express it - there are signs, but until the last you don't want to believe ...

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batzninja answered · September 04, 2020

   I was not caught, my lover was caught. We are both married with 10-12 years of marriage and with children. He cheated regularly I was not before him. My marriage was not going well, my husband decided to go abroad to take a short break, as they say. My ex-lover and I have known each other since we were children, he learned that I was alone and he immediately looked for me on social networks. For a year we just wrote to each other, I wrote from a fake profile just in case, a few meetings followed and I decided to end everything before it was too late. We continued writing, but as friends, he started to get angry that I didn't call him or look for him, he was on the phone all day writing. His wife sensed something was happening, smashed his Facebook password, and saw chats he hadn't bothered to delete. I, for my part, did everything to protect myself and him. I tell all this so that all infidels can think about what kind of person they will take this step with, whether they will be able to trust him. Personally, I would not dare to cheat if my partner is next to me, somehow it seems very tiring to sleep with my lover and after an hour or two I have to go to bed with my husband. And all the options for girlfriends and friends to hide from you are not reliable, someone will always open his mouth. So smart of all future infidels, think again, what are the risks and whether it is worth it. In such a situation, you must be more confident in the person on the other side than in yourself, otherwise do not engage at all. somehow it seems very tiring for me to sleep with my lover and after an hour or two I have to go to bed with my husband. And all the options for girlfriends and friends to hide from you are not reliable, someone will always open his mouth. So smart of all future infidels, think again, what are the risks and whether it is worth it. In such a situation, you must be more confident in the person on the other side than in yourself, otherwise do not get involved at all. somehow it seems very tiring for me to sleep with my lover and after an hour or two I have to go to bed with my husband. And all the options for girlfriends and friends to hide from you are not reliable, someone will always open his mouth. So smart of all future infidels, think again, what are the risks and whether it is worth it. In such a situation, you must be more confident in the person on the other side than in yourself, otherwise do not get involved at all.

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kellybright answered · September 04, 2020

   As a woman, I feel my husbands cheating on my girlfriends, let alone cheating on me. I dare say we are dangerous hyenas. Men may feel like us, but we are somehow innate to feel everything, especially when we are unwanted and there is already another in a man's life. I'm talking about myself, I don't know if it's from the zodiac sign (I'm a lion), but I smell everything from afar. Infidelity, a lie (no matter what and for what), it is just felt. Specifically on the topic: Well, the unusual delays after work, hiding like a mouse or rather secretly writing with someone (it's still a living hiding, huh), if you're more obsessed with sniffing clothes, for example, and have an unfamiliar smell, etc. . But I think it's most common in the workplace. A little flirtation here, a little flirtation there and the job is done. But I'm certainly not of the opinion that from social networks it is difficult to cheat on someone, on the contrary, sometimes that's where the truth lies. The unusual likes of a woman / man in almost any photo or status, these things can be easily traced. And for a cover, if there is a benefactor to confirm you and you're done. So that's it.

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sundaylust23 answered · September 04, 2020

   I find the excuses of some here funny - you loved your family very much, but his sex was boring, the other one was fucked by someone, but that fixed her family life, and a third one would break if she didn't cheat ... And of course the blame is in the partner . Not that he broke them in a fight or didn't come out of the pub or the casino or drag himself around with some geeks (although there are some), very often these are quite decent, hard-working and devoted people. Their mistake is that they have trusted the liar / liar next to them more than they should. True, you can't hold anyone by force, nor is it normal to live with someone who has become a stranger to you. Well, leave it, finish it and do whatever you want. Why are you mumbling and hiding and you don't have the courage to tell your partner "I don't want to live with you anymore"? Because you lack dignity, honor and respect for yourself and for the one you met. To me, people who cheat are weak, cowards, traitors and garbage and should not be forgiven. It may seem very definite and extreme, but the truth must stand above everything. Nobody likes to be lied to and mocked. As for boring life and boring sex - it's because you are boring and unimaginative, because you do not know and you can make your life exciting and interesting without having to hesitate.

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xmilf4funx answered · September 04, 2020

   №14 Your story is very interesting tell us more.

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calisweetie12 answered · September 05, 2020

   By 23 The topic has been released to tell people what they have encountered. Moral tirades like yours are completely out of place in this case. In principle, you are right, but with such a condemnation you do not contribute anything to the issue under discussion. I personally congratulate you on your strong moral and personal qualities. Obviously, neither you are cheating, nor will anyone ever cheat on you, so you can easily focus on another topic. We cheating mice will write here to share experiences.

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charlymariehumor answered · September 05, 2020

   The topic is very interesting ... But it strikes me that apparently most of the writers have caught the very obvious infidelities or those that were still in the Facebook dump phase. From experience I can say (or at least in my case it is) that infidels can be extremely careful (not to say paranoid) when they already have a relationship. They don't like photos on Facebook, they don't even have a list of friends at all. They pass each other on the street like strangers, without even a greeting, but only a cursory glance. They rarely talk to each other when it is absolutely certain that no one will catch them, including fake profiles created entirely and only for communication with the lover, SIM cards unknown to others. Encounters are rare and for a short, thorough check for any traces left such as hair, etc. It seems to me that such infidelity is impossible to catch, no matter how jealous the wife / wife is and no matter how much she delves into her partner's personal life. These infidels who begin to feel them, in my opinion, are either reckless by nature, or they no longer care even to hide at the right level. And this for a permanent relationship with another person, as it is with me ... Moreover, a one-time infidelity in one night (or day), which takes 1 hour and is with someone with whom there is not even communication, is absolutely impossible to be felt or understood.

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lilk1tty answered · September 05, 2020

   to 23: How old are you, do you have children and how long has your longest relationship lasted? Otherwise, the topic is not about condemning infidelity, but about who caught him or who caught him in infidelity.

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vanderjames answered · September 05, 2020

   26, that's right, but if every time you erase traces for 1 hour and constantly think about what new SIM card to buy and how to inspect the place in advance, it seems to me that the taste of infidelity will be lost. You will think, rethink and erase more than you will do something pleasant with the person.

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danadearmond answered · September 06, 2020

   23 to 27 - Why do you ask? I'm not interested in you, don't be interested in me. Here's to the topic - they cheated on me once. It took me about a month to figure it out and ten minutes to throw the rag out of my life.

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receita_federal answered · September 06, 2020

   My ex caught him quite by accident, he had left his phone on the locker, otherwise it is non-stop in his pocket. It took me 6 months to figure out exactly what was going on, because he was lying like a rascal that there was nothing, and he was still a hookah. But in the end, everything shone in all its glory, and a powerful kick through the door followed. There had been many signs before, but I really didn't think he had delved so deeply with his mistress.

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donaldtusk answered · September 06, 2020

   From 26 to 28. Yes, you're right ... it's really emotionally draining all this obsessive hiding. Apparently the strong desire compensates, but most likely for a while. I guess at some point the desire for the lover prevails and you start to not care so much if you get caught, and the other scenario is - you stop doing it because you are more exhausted by hiding and the fear of being caught than the good feeling. PS - are you in the situation, in any of the possible roles?

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juanpablboy answered · September 06, 2020

   For a short time I was employed in a social institution, which is in the same building with a medical institution and a polyclinic. I inadvertently witnessed infidelity. All colleagues knew what was happening, stories were constantly whispered. There was even a "They make love, not war" joke. Naturally, everyone justifies his actions - how his wife became fat, how the colleague was alone at home did not receive attention from her husband .. You can always find an excuse. In my opinion, infidelity cannot be hidden. Signs abound as long as you look. Some marriages have failed, the spouses live as roommates and this suits them, they close their eyes to infidelity. Some spouses do not accept that this can happen to their spouse, just as they do not accept that their child is a tobacco / drug addict. Sometimes the Truth is cruel and painful, but it is the Truth.

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jerry_lyons answered · September 06, 2020

   I will not answer the topic, because it does not matter how, but what infidelity leads to. To date, I would not cheat on my new partner and I am proud of that, it is a pity that I learned it late. You live cool when you are a conscious person and you do not cheat. Not that I'm judging someone because I've been through cheating, but really a life without lies, hiding and nonsense, with a clear conscience is preferable.

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sarah_larson answered · September 07, 2020

   My husband and I started out as lovers. His first wife learned from friendly neighbors, because the action took place at my villa, and they lived in a nearby village. They were shocked and horrified. We decided to separate, but just then she also got a lover and their family finally fell apart. Today we are friends with her and we laugh at that commotion, because she is also happy with her new husband. We are a bit of a strange model. It is not uncommon to see your current and ex-wives lunch together. We call my husband "our" a joke. She claims that I have done her the greatest favor in life, and I wonder why she did not get along with such a decent person ... But, as divorce lawyers say, "dissimilarity in character." As for my husband at the time, he didn't understand at all. He found out I had a new relationship two years after our divorce. I was not so interested in him that I spent whole months alone at the villa in question. He rarely came for one night and returned to Sofia early in the morning.

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ehrensache_tv answered · September 07, 2020

   Up to 26. All these instructions are known, SIM card profiles, etc., but there is always one BUT. My husband caught me by the cigarette smell of my clothes. My lover smokes, and no one at home smokes from my colleagues and friends, except my father. And my meetings with my lover were on Tuesdays and Thursdays or Fridays. Always after work. My husband has noticed that I always go to the bathroom quickly these days and leave my clothes in the laundry basket and then wash them immediately. In the days when I was with my lover I could not have sex with my husband, in the rest there was no problem. So we followed and he caught us at the hotel. My married lover took the paint, just a pear ... I don't need to tell you more, but that's the situation. She had a headache. You have a thrill now, you have an emotion .. Abe, these things are not for everyone, but when late puberty hits you ....

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bbw_titwhore99 answered · September 07, 2020

   I cheated on my ex-boyfriend with whom I had a relationship for 3 years and I cheated on him in the first year, several times with the same man and so far he has not understood that things are very different for women, I would even say that they know a lot better to hide from men. We're more suspicious in general maybe that's why hahaha.

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sambina44 answered · September 07, 2020

   I have not cheated and I never would. Such base actions are neither my morals nor my level. If I am in a relationship with someone, then I have chosen and love him. And when I love someone, I just can't even think of being with someone else, I hate it. In short: I am true not only because it is right, but also because I want it. It doesn't bother me that I'm not cheating, I don't feel like a whore. On the contrary - I am proud of myself and my value system. I do not want to be part of the most numerous people - whores and prostitutes, among whom there are many men ... And a secret for a successful relationship: Your lover must be your best friend (of course, you on it) so that things can go smoothly. A proud, young moralist

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felipetitto answered · September 07, 2020

   a friend has been constantly cheating on his girlfriend of 9 years with a lot of whores and she doesn't know, isn't it simple tell me now ....

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jnewe531 answered · September 07, 2020

   №4, I follow similar topics and I've always wondered, how do you have sex without feeling? Only on a hormonal level? You write that you only feel when you are with your husband, and you just have sex with your lover - without feelings !? "Here it is -" If there is something that my swimmer does not give me or I feel that our sex life is getting boring, I would cheat again, because for me it's just sex. I only feel for the man I have chosen, but if he does not make me feel wanted, no matter how good a father he is, infidelity is inevitable. "I understand that you use your lover as a gigolo, your squirrel scratches you and you happily go home to your husband to give him your feelings !? Very cunning - and the lamb whole and the wolf full, well done! How does this happen?

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katharinemcphee answered · September 08, 2020

   My husband didn't catch me. I am 39, with two children and a husband who does not notice me. For him, I am a full-time housewife and babysitter. Why am I cheating? Because of the thrill, I feel alive. Because of good sex, and because I love my lover. Why didn't I get a divorce? Because I'm not sure the new one won't turn into an impersonal slug like my husband. But I'm considering the idea. One example: I ask my husband "since when have we not had sex". He replies angrily, "Oh, don't bother me with nonsense," and stares at the computer again. Then I tell him "I don't love you anymore". He lifts his head from the monitor, and with a distant look asks me "what are you talking about."

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yestheory answered · September 08, 2020

   I was divorced. She is married. We live abroad. She took classes at the local college (she often missed them). That's how she was caught - one night the man went to college and she was gone. Then he reviewed the transcript of her conversations. He called to ask me why I talked to his wife so often. Fortunately, my number was registered in another city. I told him that his wife was probably single and I had never seen her. She managed to convince him somehow that there was nothing. 3-4 years ago they were still together. Then we lost touch.

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cataagh answered · September 08, 2020

   39, the girlfriend is not simple at all. He can cheat from the age of 29, that's all. She's been his girlfriend for 9 years, not the whores. They can only breathe her dust and get angry. She knows, she doesn't know, these insignificant, unimportant women don't stop her from living her life. Thanks to such a smart woman!

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chintamiatmanagara answered · September 08, 2020

   41. Do not be foolish to divorce, because the new one will not take you with two children, do not hope, Bulgarian men are not ready for such feats. If you divorce because of him and you have expectations, he will leave with two hundred ... I do not approve of infidelity, but your husband deserves it completely ... can he behave like a complete drummer ?! I wouldn't be surprised if he broke too. You're a French family everywhere ...

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marilu64 answered · September 08, 2020

   I am 21, from the written comments, including mine, it is clear that in most cases the infidelity does not remain hidden. However, there is one fact and it is - if you manage to stop in time there is a great chance to keep the secret. I'm talking about my case, if we had stopped only with sex, my lover would not have caught him. Here is the thin line you have to comply with. Infidelity needs action, no explanations, if you start thinking about it a lot and explaining about the meetings, you are lost. People who have been through this are aware of how difficult it is. To be intimate with someone and then pretend you don't know him, to stop all contact with him at once or, as they say, to remain just friends. Personally, I would not risk a second time and even less with another, for the simple reason that I can not so easily trust. So, that before you throw yourself into this, think carefully about what your options are for you and your future lover. Ж32г

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iblowbiggerclouds69 answered · September 08, 2020

   41, unlike your husband, I know exactly what you're talking about. My ex-husband was the same, as if you had described a scene from our lives. In the end, my lover and I took the big step. We divorced and lived together. This man (I'm talking about the lover) was reborn, because his ex-wife is already something alien, she had just crushed him mentally. For 5 years we got back on our feet, he believed in his strength, he progressed at a terrible pace in the work, I also work harder and things are going well. We left everything material to our exes - to drag - we tidied up our house and looked ahead. We still don't have time to officially get married, but this summer we promised ourselves that sometime in June will be the event. The step turned out to be extremely useful for both of us - we just grew up as individuals. We have full synchronicity in our interpersonal relationships, in sex and in social life. We are just the same. The so-called "kindred spirits". We are very happy. We do not have any contact with my ex-husband. I am writing this, author, to encourage you. I know how you feel. I felt the same way. I know what emptiness you feel and how you think you have to come to terms with it and steal your happiness and keep it a secret. My advice is to just slam the door and follow your heart. You don't miss security, do you? Yes, but this is not security! You will only feel safe when you fall asleep in the arms of a truly beloved man. And the rest you will both achieve. We do not have any contact with my ex-husband. I am writing this, author, to encourage you. I know how you feel. I felt the same way. I know what emptiness you feel and how you think you have to come to terms with it and steal your happiness and keep it a secret. My advice is to just slam the door and follow your heart. You don't miss security, do you? Yes, but this is not security! You will only feel safe when you fall asleep in the arms of a truly beloved man. And the rest you will achieve it both. We do not have any contact with my ex-husband. I am writing this, author, to encourage you. I know how you feel. I felt the same way. I know what emptiness you feel and how you think you have to come to terms with it and steal your happiness and keep it a secret. My advice is to just slam the door and follow your heart. You don't miss security, do you? Yes, but this is not security! You will only feel safe when you fall asleep in the arms of a truly beloved man. And the rest you will both achieve. You don't miss security, do you? Yes, but this is not security! You will only feel safe when you fall asleep in the arms of a truly beloved man. And the rest you will both achieve. You don't miss security, do you? Yes, but this is not security! You will only feel safe when you fall asleep in the arms of a truly beloved man. And the rest you will both achieve.

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soapmanwun answered · September 09, 2020

   №46, be honest with her and say - do things happen every time in this scenario that you describe? Is every infidelity caused by feelings? But be honest ...

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thorbjornsson answered · September 09, 2020

   Hello, I'm dating a man who has been in a serious relationship for a year and a half. Some infidelities are easy to catch, as you say Facebook, Instagram, hair, late calls. However, there are cases in which things are not so simple. For example, the boyfriend of the one I'm dating seems to be an intelligent woman with a stable job, a teacher, a coach who loves children (I don't know her personally). And her boyfriend cheats on me once a week, sometimes twice. He only follows me on Instagram, he doesn't like photos, we don't have him as a friend on Facebook, he just reacts to the story. We do it in his car, and after each time, he carefully searches with a flashlight every inch of the car for my hair (because they are blond, in principle, they fall a lot), while he is with her, he doesn't write to me, we don't have our numbers to call. We are from different cities and he trains sports in my city and after the trainings he stays,

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sorelfootwear answered · September 09, 2020

   Doesn't it mean anything to you? It's the fact that he searches every inch of the car so that you don't leave traces that doesn't mean anything to you? Doesn't the fact that he's not your friend on Facebook and totally different from you really mean anything to you? I am also a woman, but I am ashamed of people like you - if they are boyfriends who have nowhere to have sex - it is understandable that she is in the car.

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milimix46 answered · September 09, 2020

   48 - so you're kind of like the backyard where they keep the trash cans. He wants to be with her and is afraid of realizing that he is cheating on her, and you are for variety. If you respect yourself so little. keep entertaining him like a free prostitute.

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valkyrja19 answered · September 09, 2020

   Up to 46. Yes, but the author has two children, and you do not have or at least write you. Things are not so simple when you are responsible for other lives.

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ichimatsustum answered · September 10, 2020

   Hello, number 49 and number 51. I am number 48. First of all, this is a topic about how you were caught in infidelity, not a topic to judge and pretend to be great moralists, because we are not. I do not know you personally, but I do not believe that you have never done anything wrong or that you have never made any mistakes. If you are not in the place of a person, you have no right to judge him, you do not know what is happening in his life and how it got here. Maybe you're right for yourself and for all the countries that watch history as if they were in a movie. However, you do not know what it is like to know that the person in question is complete rubbish, but you do not know what to pull you towards him. Maybe I really don't respect myself and I'm a free prostitute, but I really enjoy every wrong moment with this wrong person. No matter how hard I try to be moral, it doesn't work. And I had principles not to date engaged men. But it just happens, I can't explain it. You will hardly believe me that he is the first man in my life and with him I lost my virginity. I have no false hopes, nor do I believe in fairy tales, but I just want to enjoy the moments while I can. Better to regret my mistakes years later than missed opportunities. I hope you understand me (but hardly).

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suedebrooks answered · September 10, 2020

   Up to 53. There are many like you who claim that they are placed in special living conditions and their mistakes should be viewed with a different eye - not as a sin. Since you obviously have experience, if you can, explain to us how it happens that there are more and more adulterous halves with committed and young ladies like you who prefer to go to a committed? Do the engaged have some magnetic force that attracts ladies like you? And single men, who, you'll agree, are many or their numbers are significantly larger than single women, are somehow less attractive, I understand? Why do you prefer, in particular, to go to a bound person, even though you say that he is "complete rubbish", instead of finding yourself unbound, as there are many? Here is your explanation with the "pull" you formulated it is not enough to justify your behavior, which, if you don't mind, is extremely reprehensible. I am convinced that you can be attracted to many other men to whom you will have no reason to label even "garbage". I guess they would feel the same way about you. It is interesting to share, are there any material benefits behind your love affair that you can use? There are not enough things to justify you !!! You are not in Siberia or the Sahara, where you have no choice and you have to be with whom ... There are many free men who would gladly make their halves happy. I guess they would feel the same way about you. It is interesting to share, are there any material benefits behind your love affair that you can use? There are not enough things to justify you !!! You are not in Siberia or the Sahara, where you have no choice and you have to be with whom ... There are many free men who would gladly make their halves happy. I guess they would feel the same way about you. It is interesting to share, are there any material benefits behind your love affair that you can use? There are not enough things to justify you !!! You are not in Siberia or the Sahara, where you have no choice and you have to be with whom ... There are many free men who would gladly make their halves happy.

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lucashernandez5 answered · September 10, 2020

   Up to 53. When you give birth to a child-children you will think differently. You are young now and everything is up to your knees.

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omeditante answered · September 10, 2020

   To add my humble experience. Years ago, my current girlfriend and I went to a local restaurant (their sister was preparing for their son's baptism). We helped them and came home, then we didn't live together. During the day I worked as a sales representative and had met a saleswoman at a local mall. She jokingly invited me to a pub with her friends, but I refused. I told them jokingly, write to me when you get home from the pub. Yes. After my current girlfriend and I went home, I went to bed. After about an hour I received a text message, the girl had returned from the pub. I thought to myself, what am I doing? I fucked him, and I went out with her. We wandered around the city by car for about 20 minutes and I went home. After I parked I said to myself, this should not happen. Am I such garbage? An hour later I received a message from her again. It was clear to me what he was looking for and we went out again. We hung around a bit and I jokingly told them to fuck you and leave. I didn't realize what was happening and the next moment she took off my pants and the curtain to make me French. I was crazy with pleasure, we stopped in them, we fucked and I went home. In the morning I had to pick up my girlfriend and go to a birthday party. Before that I carefully checked the car for hairpins, rubber bands, hair, to make sure it didn't make me dirty. There was nothing. This is the only time I've cheated. It's not worth it just because you have sex. Appreciate your partners, love each other, but if you don't want to be with them, just tell them, don't wrap things up, you're not such rubbish. :) we fucked and I went home. In the morning I had to pick up my girlfriend and go to a birthday party. Before that, I carefully checked the car for hairpins, rubber bands, hair, to make sure it didn't make me dirty. There was nothing. This is the only time I've cheated. It's not worth it just because you have sex. Appreciate your partners, love each other, but if you don't want to be with them, just tell them, don't wrap things up, you're not such rubbish. :) we fucked and I went home. In the morning I had to pick up my girlfriend and go to a birthday party. Before that, I carefully checked the car for hairpins, rubber bands, hair, to make sure it didn't make me dirty. There was nothing. This is the only time I've cheated. It's not worth it just because you have sex. Appreciate your partners, love each other, but if you don't want to be with them, just tell them, don't wrap things up, you're not such rubbish. :)