Hello. What cues and tactics do you use when trying to arrange sex with a boy or a girl, for one night, through Tinder? I myself have not been in such a relationship, but always in a long-term relationship, but I would try once. So, "How do they take me down to Tinder?"
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"Hi dear, are you very nice if you want us to start?" I'm not very romantic: D
Tinder is a rotten site. You can't even talk to a girl if you don't fit, and the fit is according to the site.
This is exactly Tinder's cool thing, that not everyone can spam me with messages, but we must have liked each other. They usually start with "Hello, how are you" or a question / comment about the photos I uploaded, but if you don't feel like coming up with a message, where did you go looking for quick sex: D
Should there be chat dumps? Settlement meeting and how it ended. This is Tinder, for God's sake!
How do you develop the conversation? I am interested in specific remarks. It's easy to start and I can always be original, but the problem comes later. I don't know how to develop the conversation, whether to invite directly, to make a joke of our own, or ... In general, I start well, but then I continue to share personal things and those from everyday life and everything falls apart. I just have no experience. :) Author.
These things are not thought of very much, especially in advance. It's always been weird for me how men think before they "let go" of the message. Quite unnatural. How can you ask such things? It's like wondering what to say to a girl who's your girlfriend and you've just seen each other: "Hello or Hello or Good afternoon." Much depends on the photo and the situation. If you like the girl, she has beautiful eyes, a smile, she was photographed more unusually on a beautiful background or somewhere abroad or with friends, in a swimsuit, in the mountains ... You can always say something about it. It depends on the person on the other side whether he will like you and therefore whether he will respond to your comment: "I also took pictures in this park" or "You have very big and beautiful eyes :)" But comments like "Zdr asl mn me kefish" straight grind. I would never answer such a miracle. I used to go out in a big company with a lot of male-only programmers. Beautiful, smart and intelligent people, when they open the topic about Tinder and how to "take down" a chick, there is no such simplification. The drama is that they have never had a match, or if they miraculously have one, how to strike up a meaningful and long conversation, whether to write immediately or not to write ... These things are not thought of much. The more you think, the more you tend to play that "Zdr asl" that no, NO ONE woman loves;) Good luck to me! Mira 28g. how to strike up a meaningful and long conversation, whether to write immediately or not to write ... These things are not thought of much. The more you think, the more you tend to play that "Zdr asl" that no, NO ONE woman loves;) Good luck to me! Mira 28g. how to strike up a meaningful and long conversation, whether to write immediately or not to write ... These things are not thought of much. The more you think, the more you tend to play that "Zdr asl" that no, NO ONE woman loves;) Good luck to me! Mira 28g.
Don't share anything personally unless it raises your rating. For example, DO NOT share if you were beaten in the 11th grade because you took down a classmate (I did), but if you went to Rome last month and saw the Pope passing by with the Pope's car - share it. Also a lot of teasing to have emotions. Most women don't care what you look like as a person, the important thing is to have emotions.
7, why men think before they say anything. You want it to be smart, not to think, but to be natural. Well, it has no pleasure. And what are you for in the whole picture - just sitting as a bystander and clicking your tongue like an important person - no, this one is not natural, no, this one is too smart, this one is boring, this one is dumb, they don't get up, the third one there is no class, the fourth has no charm and is a mold. If you're Naomi Campbell, fine, but most of them don't have class, and they choose a large selection, just to scratch their ego a bit and fix their complexes. Maybe it's time for you to make at least a little effort, huh? Men can "think", but at least they show some effort, initiative and diligence, and not just click their tongues indifferently. Men are at least trying to do something in some way, and a lot of women (not to sum it all up) think
I'm not a man, I don't register on such sites, but I think a medium-length letter is good for a start, in which you say a little about yourself, not as a resume or an advertisement, but your name, what made you write exactly on it (not the vision or boredom or the desire for sex, because sooner or later the real motives come to light), in the first letter, share some of your interests that are real, but also somehow present them so as to arouse interest to the girl to write to you, asking you a question about you, your interests and in the meantime she herself, will say something about herself. Don't start with specific questions about her, especially - do you have a friend, what do you do, what do you study, where are you from ... they are too mundane and, for me personally, they are a manifestation of materialism. These prosaic things are then understood,
to 8 Has the teasing approach worked for serious and already engaged girls? I guess she works flawlessly in communicating with inexperienced girls. Exactly these jokes I want to learn or more precisely to remember, because I last had a girlfriend 8 years ago, with whom I was together 4, that is, the "game" of making a girl like me, I played it a long time ago and with inexperienced girls. I am now almost 30 and I have the most contacts with 22-30 year olds and I have a hard time with "teasing". up to 10 Can you give specific examples to "touch a person's personality / character / soul"? Thank you very much for the comments, I write them in a separate file, because I get something like a manual.
10, it is clear that you have no experience with such sites. The "medium-long letter" in question no woman will waste time reading it if you don't look good in the picture. This is a dating site after all and there almost the only thing that determines the first impression is your photo, which of course should not be from the net or at least not visible. It doesn't matter how rich, smart, what you do, what you say. If you have a vision, you will get the first answer, if you don't, you can take down all these stars. I was watching something like a documentary and there were experiments like that. A handsome man presents himself as a mold with no income, he even asked them for a loan, he had significantly more phone numbers collected than a man who presents himself as smart, funny, rich, but has no vision. The sites are not exactly like in real life, although in some respects they are similar especially in certain situations. The most important thing is to be aware of your situation. And more precisely which of your qualities according to the situation you should rely on. For example, if you are ugly, it is pointless to search on a dating site. If you are bored, it is pointless to look in discos. If you're dumb, it's pointless to look in a library. If you are fat, it is pointless to look in the gym against the background of well-built athletic boys. Just be aware of which qualities it makes sense to rely on, in what setting, in what situation and in front of what girls. Proper judgment is at least 50% of success. I have a fellow fisherman who says that choosing the right place to fish is 50% of success. If you choose the wrong place without fish, no matter how good you are, you will not catch anything, and if you choose a place with a lot of fish, even if you are a mediocre fisherman, you will still catch 1-2 fish. It is similar with landfills. If you do not choose the right "place", you are doomed to failure.
To 12 out of 10 I would read it, if it is cleverly written, without the everyday things I mentioned and without memorized phrases and compliments for my appearance. Compliments have to come at a stage - real acquaintance, because they are somehow insincere, at least that's how I feel if they are made in the chat (I have experience with Facebook), I immediately think - 'this one looks only at the appearance, it's superficial, so he speaks to everyone is looking for sex '. With such men - I stop communicating, no matter what they look like, but also about appearance - first, I look at the radiation, not the physical features, first I see, even in a photo - look and whether the radiation is smart, insidious to a womanizer, nice as a man without self-confidence or is arrogant. Everyone has their preferences, I do not deal with inflatables and women, but it seems to them that they are, everyone sees if there is a predominant character trait. That's why I said about a medium-long letter in which you show upbringing by introducing yourself, but I emphasize - without emphasizing your income, work, height and weight ... it's very common and you are not a commodity to show the material of yourself which, anyway, will be seen if you present yourself as a person, first. You strike up a conversation with your personality so that you can keep and develop that conversation, because if you rely on the vision, well, it's visible, and if you rely on boasting and prominence - it can't go on forever, you'll run out until your personality , it is vast. Even if you live with someone, if that person develops, he will surprise you with something new every day and you will not wonder what to say to yourself. Communicate as if you are friends with women, someone will say - absurd, we will only remain friends, but it is not so, if she is like you, you have a much better chance of having a real relationship than if you are different and be careful not to show your true self because she may not like it. And to find out if the girl is like you, you have to involve her in your interests and thoughts about life, there is no other way to find out what this girl is, do you have anything in common, is she just beautiful and stupid or is she someone you will you can communicate.
To number 12: Interesting considerations that sound plausible and convincing at first reading. However, I can refute them quite easily. Such stereotypes are invalid in many situations and do not guarantee the slightest success.
13, keep in mind that if you are a woman on such a site, they will write you literally a few letters per minute. I have personally experimented with a fake female profile and I can tell you that literally at the 10th minute you are already engrossed in letters. There will be short, long, dull, smart, vulgar and all sorts. If, in the meantime, you start writing to one or two, it will simply become impossible to answer physically. Separately, after the 30th "medium length" letter, you will simply not care. It is only a matter of time before you start selecting them only by appearance and appearance, because it will simply be impossible for you to spend more than a few seconds per person to decide whether to answer them.
14, I don't know if you can refute them, but the reality on these sites (I'm not talking about real life) is exactly as I described it. Or at least in 90% of cases. I do not express an opinion, but observations from real and large enough experience in such sites, both successful and unsuccessful. My opinion and yours are irrelevant, reality always has the last word.
It seems very silly to me to create a "technique" for taking down women. In the end, you will take it down with two or three sentences told to you by a downloader, and then when it comes to a meeting and take out the stupid questions, what are you going to do? People have said it - there are passengers for every train. You have matches in Tinder - write to those who write back to you. Whatever you write, as well as turn it over - if it comes to a meeting, you will not have help from a friend there. You have to show yourself again and rely on yourself. And the other thing is - it's not just Tinder (I'm referring to all sites - Diamonds, Papazi, etc.). . For example - it's not just the gym (I've been going to the gym for 4 years and none of those "guys" who took me down, he couldn't take my number and FB just because they're not my type). It's not just the disco, it's not just the cafe. Gather with people who are "key". When I say key, I mean those who are very contactable and there are always a lot of people around them. There is such a key person everywhere. They are always surrounded by different people, always organize parties, parties, visit all kinds of places and are not ashamed to contact. When you meet such people, the chance to find a person who has similar features to yours is many times greater than going to a disco and hoping to catch a literate girl for a serious relationship. I give you an example with myself. I started a relationship when I signed up to dance - I had never been in such a super social environment. This happened 1 year ago. My coach did not stop doing parties with the dances in question (salsa dances) and organize festivals and even outings with all of us (here is an example of a key person). We were always 100-150 people at the parties in question and there I started a very good relationship with a man we got along with because of similar interests - dancing. Honestly, I prefer face-to-face contact than those sites where everything is just words and quite often - fake. Otherwise, I'm not a man and I can't tell you the exact line and phase for removing women. It's all about the photos and what you look like. If you have a vision - you will succeed. Don't you, the chance is small ... I had a tinder for 2 days and I went crazy. There were many nice men among the people who wrote to me, but it was not mine to write back to them, since it is more than clear that 70% of the people there are only looking for sex. Now I remember that after my relationship with the boy from the dances, I went out with a former colleague (that is, our work was a common point) and with a boy from a rock bar, who had found me by my name on FB and had impressed me. But I had no thrill for either of them, although they were both extremely cultured and polite, at about 27 years old. and good-looking normal people. My current relationship gathered a mutual friend and started on Facebook. This is from me :) I hope you do not accept my comment as an insult or an occasion for conflict. I'm just expressing an opinion;) and good-looking normal people. My current relationship gathered a mutual friend and started on Facebook. This is from me :) I hope you do not accept my comment as an insult or an occasion for conflict. I'm just expressing an opinion;) and good-looking normal people. My current relationship brought us together and started on Facebook. This is from me :) I hope you do not accept my comment as an insult or an occasion for conflict. I'm just expressing an opinion;)
To 15 of 10/13 Well, well, then - why do you register in such a place, where it is obvious that no one respects the person and looks at the person as if from a product catalog? So, the probability of finding someone similar to you is ... none or if you find yourself you will be lucky, and at the same time you waste time browsing profiles and writing messages. And such a feeling of, as you said, indifference arises. Don't you think that you are unnecessarily upset in these sites and in general with these virtual dating, in which you are not aware if the person opposite is not lying to you, and most likely, does not care about you at all ... It's kind of sad. Sure, these sites are perfect if you have no emotions and want sex ... with a stranger. I don't understand it.
18, well how can I tell you. It depends on what you are looking for. In principle, such sites also make sense, but in order to benefit from them, you need to know what you are looking for and whether you can find it there. If you are looking for a serious link on such a site these days, you will find it difficult. I say these days because it depends on the times. I found my first serious boyfriend on just such a site. But that was 16 years ago, and then these sites were very different from now. The internet in general was different. At that time, only the most intelligent people were there, because it was not so accessible to Suljo and Puglio. Now it has become widely available and every second complex has moved there, respectively. many of the decent and intelligent people fled. It became a lot as a quantity, but nothing as a quality. There is something else - to understand that something is meaningless, you have to try it.
Disappointment after live meetings accumulates, communication is idiotic, everything is of the type of buy - sell. Such sites can cause you serious depression. I don't deal anymore. Better alone than hurt again. If it is written, I will meet my husband. If not - alive and well.
About 19 of 10/13/18 Okay, I'll register on a site if I figure out how to create my profile, because I've read from the people here that there are some complications, even though I'm 28 years old and I'm literate. with a computer, I use work programs, but I will try, in the name of the experiment, and I will write here for impressions.
It doesn't matter what you say, the most important thing is how you look 8)
Let me tell you how I got a charming, attractive and unique colleague, surrounded by many suitors, money, cars, and whatever you can think of, flowers are always coming to the office, inviting offers and so on. But she had rolled and cut everyone. Because, my wife is a child, and at 100 to get up, and we have lunch in the audio and the same restaurant, and we met our eyes several times, and I pretend to be crazy and she, but we do not separate our eyes, so before noon, I went in the first store, I bought a chocolate egg, some chilled candies, and a liquid chocolate nutella, before noon I took them to the bartender and just asked her to give them to her when she ordered lunch, well, she got up, the woman at 100 stays again child and enjoys small things more than shiny gifts;)
Up to 23 - if I had your spelling downloader :) I'm wondering what your speech is :) Tinder and all the chat stories are about people who can't really communicate or about women / men with low self-esteem who are there to explain to them how much he wants them or to self-validate what a downloader he is. No one with a normal and interesting life will sit down and waste their time with meetings from chats and the Internet. Good luck to those who think otherwise :)
Since 21 Tinder does not accept my e-mail, Facebook and phone number, respectively, I can not register. Fate :-D It must be for good.
Tinder as mentioned is not an offer for not so good looking men, I personally used it from time to time when I think about it. Another point is that unlike women, we men don't take such good pictures and in most cases we look ... a donkey took a picture, a donkey came out, especially if we are not so nice, I judge for myself. With his modest experience from there no more than 10-12 matches in 5-6 months. For me, things have to happen as quickly as possible, that is, no clichéd questions about what you do, hobbies, music, you study, these questions are better perceived face to face, otherwise it's like a job interview. You need to do the following things as quickly as possible: 1. To get an answer - there is a case that just whatever you write to them do not answer. You play something funny if it doesn't answer you within a week you remove it. 2. In case item 1 is fulfilled, you should gain her trust that you are friendly and you are not an outcast - How is it going? Always start the conversation with humor and do not mention anything about her, do not pump her ego because you will be another, as a bonus you self-ironize so she does not feel pressured by the fact that the topic is focused on her so she knows you indirectly. Let's be realistic no one wants to talk about themselves in front of a stranger at the very beginning the conversation is boring and engaging. 3. When item 2 is completed, to exchange social networks - Just do not waste time in Tinder, switch to a platform that you use more often. 4. Sad but not impossible direct meeting after you have reached items 1, 2, 3: Non-committal invitation to a meeting without expectations: "Hey, I'll be glad to meet you live, I offer you coffee, a walk, a drink on a donkey" Our conversation go see me at least to understand whether we will not kill each other "" Let's imagine a bank robbery, to see each other to discuss the plan, as well as our honeymoon in Bora Bora, but this one in Separeva Banya not to think about something. "Tomorrow I'm going to collect sunshine and count the leaves in the park, I'm looking for a friend" Be non-committal, cheerful, self-ironic, you can have a long conversation without revealing anything about yourself. Use photos, voice messages, video calls. This way the person will be more relaxed when you see each other, because the voice, the expression, the behavior will be familiar to him and he will only enjoy the moment. First encounter no sexual innuendos if he / she doesn't initiate them, friendly behavior, humor, and teasing, hug for goodbye. Second meeting deeper topics get to know each other, third meeting start the topic sex and experience intimacy: Hugging, kisses on the cheeks, arms, forehead, lips, kidneys. If you can't get feedback on these things or the person needs more time or just has no interest, consider the situation. And here you will not like some people, never focus on just one person. Communicate / see different people, not cling to one because you are subconsciously obsessing over it. These steps for people who are not free enough to sleep with you on a first date, if you come across one it is clear the outcome of the first meeting. Taken from a textbook in Biology / Psychology for 4th grade. Success! And here you will not like some people, never focus on just one person. Communicate / see different people, not cling to one because you are subconsciously obsessing over it. These steps for people who are not free enough to sleep with you on a first date, if you come across one it is clear the outcome of the first meeting. Taken from a textbook in Biology / Psychology for 4th grade. Success! And here you will not like some people, never focus on just one person. Communicate / see different people, not cling to one because you are subconsciously obsessing over it. These steps for people who are not free enough to sleep with you on a first date, if you come across one it is clear the outcome of the first meeting. Taken from a textbook in Biology / Psychology for 4th grade. Success!
Number 15 said it all. If you are a man and you make crooked calculations, just make a female profile, see the chamber of all sorts of crazy people who pretend to be monkeys and smear themselves and you will pass any desire to join the stream. From all the work, women forget themselves and in general become interested in receiving a new dose of collective attention, rather than deepening with someone in particular. Do not waste your time!
In conclusion, based on what was written by 15, what was written by 27 should be applied, but not on Tinder, but on Facebook.
Full of laughter :) Many stories and gimmicks in chat and online lead to an inability to really communicate. Besides, most photos have nothing to do with reality, but once you are drawn you waste your time to win some virtual beauty, which you really won't even notice on the street :) But long live Photoshop filters and tanned men who can't communicate except behind some screens :) Make your life interesting, communicate with people and things will get better. You talk to women live - everything else is a waste of time. If you are brave and direct enough - you will easily find interesting people. For those who are not brave and do not have a hard time, chats, photos, tinders and companions have been invented. Speaking of escorts, most online are just that. Sacrifice your comfort zone and you will be rewarded. Play it safe and then don't grumble that you don't get what you want :)