Hello. I do not have friends. There is no one person to talk to and ask each other, who is how, say during the day. Just a person who is interested in me. I have many acquaintances with whom I have a very good relationship, but I do not know how to deepen a relationship. I am about 30 years old. On the one hand, I owe it to the fact that I am good and helpful. On the other hand, I am constantly changing and this probably speaks of insecurity. I don't know anymore. I know it's time for me to get married, but as I wrote above, I don't know how to deepen a relationship ... So, how can I be a friend?
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Amy first finds company, environment, people with your interests and then thinks about how to become a "friend" and a groom. ;)
I understand what you're talking about ... the others somehow get closer after the second or third chance meeting ... I'm talking about friends, not boyfriends. I think we need to show more emotions and weaknesses. Somehow this escapes me ... I look cold and inaccessible, and obviously our communication is lame. Now an acquaintance is always accepted super fast in different social groups. I've analyzed her behavior ... she just laughs a lot ... she's jealous. I guess it looks friendly just. Unfortunately, I also noticed that beauty interferes. Amazing but true! I will not brag, but instead of an invitation for coffee or a joint outing, I hear only compliments. I may be wrong ... but I'm left with that impression. It is as if others have too low self-esteem and prefer ordinary girls. I really want to find friends like you, but somehow I don't know what is the mistake that repulses people. I will follow the topic with interest.
Hi, I posted the same topics as you some time ago. Share.net allowed us to share our emails (we were two girls) and now we are friends and we write to each other all the time. I really hope for a good cause "Share and find a friend", in this topic people like us can leave their emails voluntarily and communicate with each other and we loners. This would be a nice gift for Christmas for us singles :)) Again I want to thank you for sharing that I already have a girlfriend with whom we constantly hear ^^
What is the probability that this is so, because all my life I change the environment or I just have to correct something in my character ... After school there were good acquaintances, but without friendships. Then I worked, but I didn't make friends. After university - I see three or four people from time to time. I went out in the neighborhood and I was left with two acquaintances who I can't call friends, because the only thing we do is drink something every week. I wish we could rely on each other for different things, but neither the professions nor the places where we live are close. Or do I have a problem with my idea of the word "friend"? Some people accept friendship as a benefit, ie "I have free time on Saturday from 4 to 6 and I will offer to drink coffee" or "to maintain a good relationship,