How To Become Impudent And Arrogant

   I'm just like you and I wanted to be arrogant at times, but then it passes. In general, the character is difficult to change, you have to put a lot of effort. I think it's best to gain more confidence, there's no way others won't notice. M20

   It is not possible by force. You are like that. You can't change so easily. Better think wisely and don't let them use you. You can do it without such a final change.

   I have a similar "problem". Fitness helps me. It raises testosterone. Today, by doing squats and deadlifts, tomorrow I am much more open and direct with everyone. And proper nutrition, of course.

   In my opinion, there is no such option. Man is what he is. The only thing I haven't tried, but I think it's appropriate to spend 2-3 years in martial arts. Thus, in theory, you will overcome some of the fear of physical self-mutilation, you will get used to being hit and retaliating with force.

   You have to earn respect, others are bad, be bad to them and you are bad. There is no other way, in my opinion, to gain respect by fighting and having power over other people. Not the right way, but there is no other. And don't help them, because they will use you again.

   Just look at how they perceive, to be polite and meek, according to the Bulgarian means to be a cowardly and insecure person.

   This is what happens to people like you. And you are a man, which makes things even worse, because women are looking for strength, support and support, and you can't even protect yourself. Thus, only a user would see a partner in you. Others tell you that you are like that and you can't change, but that's not true. This is a change in behavior, not in character. You have to start from there. In fact, this is not even your real character, but your repressed version. Therefore, here are some guidelines: 1. Learn to say no. If you don't do something, you don't have time for it, you prefer to do something else, you have something planned, you refuse.

. And you don't make excuses or give explanations. You come first. 2. People who still need you, but are never there when you have, out of your life. You stop practicing, you refuse services, you answer only if you benefit. You only care about people who reciprocate. 3. Express your opinion boldly and loudly, do not justify yourself, do not apologize. Even if you're wrong, don't bow your head. You are a man and you have to stand up. People need to consider you, not the other way around. Start with these three things. How fast it will happen depends on you and how successfully you have to implement them. You will probably meet resistance, but don't let that stop you. If you succeed, I think you will feel the difference pretty quickly. And one more thing. Take care of yourself. Pay attention to your appearance, buy nice clothes, make a hairstyle. Pamper yourself with something, do the things you like, try new things, look for a new hobby. Your attitude towards yourself is a reflection of how people see you and how they will treat you. If you act like a sole, you will be trampled. If you see yourself as a victim, you will be treated as such. If you value yourself, others will appreciate you. Act! And good luck.

   I'm just like you, only 10 years older. And I went to the barracks, and everything crushed me all day. I myself came to the conclusion that they take too much advantage of me and I am a scoundrel. I have tried over 15 relationships with women. Everything goes smoothly until the moment it boils over to me and I answer that I don't have the means for their whims and pampering. And again I am crushed and "good" on the street. I was patient and patient and at one point gave up looking for a connection. I guess you've heard and read stories in which bad and rude old men gain fame in life and among women. I didn't believe it until I decided to give it a try. That's so stubborn. In principle, I choose my words and speak quietly but clearly. I began to relax my voice in order to sound like a shout. / I reached an intermediate level / I stopped thinking! For example, ordering a bar. When the waitress came, I deliberately lingered and questioned in a high voice; how cold the car is or if I order coffee how long will I wait for it. Is it good or rare. Hey such nonsense. During my stay at the bar, the waitress makes jokes about the service herself. Every man sees a woman as a sexual object. I know you're doing it, it's normal. Stop! Stop thinking about it. This does not noticeably fill your mental activity and from the side you look like a rotten person with an unsolvable problem. Do not do it. Treat everyone with indifference. If your sneakers (for example) are very nice, turn around and shout "At least I'm not ugly". He shook something pointless. I pushed myself into a very ugly movie with this modest demeanor. In 2001 I started working in a company where a man worked with his wife and two workers. I became the third. A year later, the daughters of the bosses appeared in this company. She lived in a shop with another man. She dumped everything with a one-year-old child in her hometown. He showed up at the company and I was totally plastered! To say that she is some unearthly beauty or commodity, I understand. But I clicked on it. Fantasies, thoughts, scenarios and only she is in my head. He started coming to the company more often. I swallowed my tongue and sighed only at her. Years passed while she changed her boyfriends, and I continued to work for my parents with the idea of ​​seeing her and getting at least a little closer. As long as it wasn't for the long run, the more I wanted it. He started to relax and talk to me. She is currently my best friend. She told me in detail about her life. I must know a lot more than her parents. The moment came when she told me that he stopped dealing with men and caught a 13-year-old uncle whom I called a snail. I still can't figure out why I caught up with him. She roared in my arms. We went out as friends all night. And only the two of them. I didn't touch her with my finger. It had a bad reputation and to this day it does. At one point she jumps on my date cheerful, happy and serves me that she is pregnant with a snail! My world collapsed. I dreamed and I am still in love with her. He had no idea what was in my head and soul. I tried 1-2 connections to forget it. I was fully aware that she would never be mine. I dreamed of a child to have someone to give my love that was left only for me. Until my curtain fell and I caught the first one that caught my attention. A boy was born to me. I turned everything over for him. I continue to shower him with love and dedication. But then I realized that no one but him deserves a quiet and modest man. I began to speak loudly. I stopped being interested in the opinion of others about me. I turned everything into a joke and a joke. I was talking real nonsense. And my beloved, I hated! Yes exactly. I hated her as much as I didn't want to. I started messing with her. I also talked nonsense. She came with the attitude of sharing something or advice, but as soon as I saw her coming to me, I shouted goodbye. He wanted an explanation for why I was treating her like that. I answered as a 5 year old. "Because I want to". Visits also decreased. Normally, I was rude to her. He came from time to time and tried to get his "girlfriend back." I chased her or I left and told her not to bother with her nonsense. I stopped talking to her at one point. He started calling me on the phone. I had over 80 rejected. He finally stalked me in front of the house. I didn't want to make scenes of the neighbors, but she started screaming at me. I also told him to look at his life and forget about me. I turned my back and went home. After 2 hours it started ringing again. I did not lift. After the 5th non-lifting, he sent me a message that he was not feeling well and was very ill. It immediately crossed my mind that she hadn't done something simple. He lived 1 kilometer away from us and I went straight into them. I found her head buried under the pillow and she was roaring for the last time. She threw herself on my neck and barely explained to me that no one had ever worried about her like I did. He started kissing me on the face. He hugged me terribly tight. Until we woke up naked and hugged. I knew he was doing these feats even though he was with the snail. I knew she hadn't parted with her past. But I didn't expect that to happen at all. We didn't stop "seeing" each other all year. She admitted to me that she had feelings for me for a long time. She was just waiting for me to take the first step. I also told her about my feelings for her for years. I made her cry then. Every time I "saw" her and said I hated her! I'm still at the same job and I see her regularly. We stopped being intimate because I threatened to open my mouth. She comes to me regularly and asks me with a sneer if I still hate her. I'm sure she caught the beastly look I'm telling her. I hate her! I hate her because I can't be with her! I hate the good and quiet little man who put me in this movie. In order not to be the basis of the people around us, we must be rude to them. No one appreciates humanity anymore! Abstain from exposure or human opinion. Give free rein to simplicity and the child in you. And when you meet the man who deserves the good and the quiet, you will find out for yourself how you should treat her. And remember from me; From any tree, a whistle does not come. Those crazy ones

   Look, you just have to learn to stand up for yourself and your positions. And this is something completely different. It's one thing to be a character, it's quite another to be rude. I understand that you are disappointed, but in no case do not neglect the upbringing you have, because it is something extremely valuable. In addition, unfortunately nowadays it is less and less common. It is full of impudent peasants - do you want to be like them? When you learn to stand your ground, everything will fall into place. It may be difficult for you, but everything is learned. I wish you success! :)

   Hi, I'm 26 and I was, like you, still working on it, but I'm definitely far from the old character. There is no such thing as not being able to change. Don't listen to people who tell you you can't be like that. I have a way, if you decide you are different, it may take time, but you will change. I changed, I lost everyone around me who thought they could be disrespectful forever. Sit down, write on a piece of paper everything you think is a problem. Then think about what you need to do. If you have people who are not close to you and are toxic to you, but still communicate with them, write them off immediately and only if necessary. You will see how you will begin to see change. You only do what you feel is good about everything else you learn to say no. Changes in your appearance, it helps a lot. Start training, change clothes, if you have the opportunity, look and feel and behave as you come from within. If you can tell someone to get lost, you say so. Be super direct and the changes will begin. I just saw that the above comment is the same, read them again.

   You don't have to be a simpleton. Just respect yourself and set the limit. Say no and don't justify yourself. Read books on the subject.

   Number 8, I voted 5 stars for you, but it seems to me that you drove the bird off your shoulder with this boss's daughter. You know why, maybe for financial reasons, I know. Don't embarrass the bosses. Divorced with a child, yes, but no free lunch - right? It's not just black and white. Are you happier than your current wife?

   First a change in the mindset, the mental activity, your approach to people. The second is a change in body language and a change in the body itself. I am 27 years old and I was like you. I started saying no. I started looking people in the eye and telling them where they were wrong. I began to express my opinion and so on. Start reading literature related to body language. I had read 2 such books and started to apply what I had learned. The way you sit, you get up. How do you shake hands, where do your hands / feet point, look, etc. I used to be full of narrow shoulders and pear-shaped. I started going to boxing and fitness. Over the years, I developed my body, acquired a V-shape. When you have more masculine shapes, broad shoulders, muscular and athletic body, things get even better.

   Number 12. I'm number 8. I'm not happy with anyone. I just wasted my life running after someone I shouldn't. And I didn't drive the bird away. I could continue their family business. I'm doing it right now. I work alone, and I give it to them. This "garge" already has 3 children by three different men. I have been watching her for 18 years and I catch her at the 5th second trying to lie to me. Despite its situation, "it" has not stopped with the unbridled life so far. I don't want that in my house. And yes. My life is a failure. It's a failure because I couldn't get up early. To drop everything and set my priorities. I live for my child! I point the middle finger at everything else. That crazy one

   From 12 to 14 Thanks for the answer. I meant to take her with a child and continue the business without giving them the whole turnover, for example to be 50 to 50 four in the distribution of profits and work. Obviously you love this woman. You could change it with love. It's a pity you haven't been gamen before. After all, you were with her and you have a child, you are great. Life is life! Where people said, "If you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans." I do not support this idea. It's just that life is life.