Hi, I've been thinking of writing here for a while now, because I really want to change for this school year. I am 13 and this year I will be 7th grade. By change I mean that I want to completely change myself, such as how I look, how I behave, what I do, etc. 80% of my friends are the so-called "muffins". And the boys (including the boy I like) revolve around them, teasing them. I always wear my hair in a ponytail (not because I don't like it down, but because I'm not comfortable and it bothers me), I go out with "boys as a girl" mostly with boys because I'm not interested in tales about make-up, malls, etc. As I used to say, I don't wear skirts, dresses and short blouses, I wear T - shirts and trousers, tracksuits. I thought I'd start walking with my hair down, but I'm worried about how my friends and classmates will react - for 6 years I've only been in a queue and when they see me with their hair untied, they say oh god, look, let her hair go! And I feel kind of ashamed because everyone is staring at me. I also thought about starting to wear "women's clothes" and start training something. Please if you have advice to write under the post and thank you all in advance! PS please don't write me things like "you don't have to change just to be liked by others and the like I'm aware of that, but I just want to change for myself!" Thank you for reading the article and I am sorry that it is long and I am sorry if it is written very confusingly or with mistakes! I also thought about starting to wear "women's clothes" and start training something. Please if you have advice to write under the post and thank you all in advance! PS please don't write me things like "you don't have to change just to be liked by others and the like I'm aware of that, but I just want to change for myself!" Thank you for reading the article and I am sorry that it is long and I am sorry if it is written very confusingly or with mistakes! I also thought about starting to wear "women's clothes" and start training something. Please if you have advice to write under the post and thank you all in advance! PS please don't write me things like "you don't have to change just to be liked by others and the like I'm aware of that, but I just want to change for myself!" Thank you for reading the article and I am sorry that it is long and I am sorry if it is written very confusingly or with mistakes!
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Why do you have long hair, if it will be constantly tied? The easiest solution is to cut it and shape it in a new way so that it does not bother you. Every girl is more attractive with her hair down! They will watch you for 2-3, maximum 4 days and they will get used to it, it is not such a big drama.
Boy, 16 years old From the beginning - yes, you are right that someone will always say something about you, but achieve what you want to feel really good. As for the boyfriends - you will always find someone, but make sure he is not the first one you find, because you will have problems - but they will be fine too. However, the impossible is reduced to <2%. Be what you think you will like - if so, I hope you are beautiful with long hair :)