Hello! I am an 18 year old girl. I have a friend for 11 months, but things have been stagnant with him for 1 month and he is not doing anything about it. We see each other extremely rarely, sometimes we don't. In my life recently appeared a boy who likes me for 2 years and has not stopped has always been on a date for me and my problems, always defended me in front of others does not give a bad word to say about me. At the same time, my friend doesn't even care who tells me what, if they insult me, he is silent and almost confirms what they said. I want to leave him because I'm dating this guy who's liked me for 2 years, but now he remembered that he loves me and doesn't want to end. Come to think of it, I don't want it to end. Because this Boy, who has been liking me for 2 years, is 27 years old and they will not accept him. You could say I like it too, but what's the point? if they do not accept it properly. They know I'm in touch with him, but they don't know I'm going out because I'm going out secretly. What to do who to choose they both have feelings, but the man who has been following me for a long time wants to be with me and leave his friend and I want him but when it comes to breaking up he goes crazy and does not want to break and can to say that I am dissuading myself. What to do....?
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Slightly muffin story, and you yourself do not know what you want but on the other hand you will get what you deserve. Supposedly, the other boy will get tired of chasing you and the current one, seeing that you refuse to leave him, will start the old song again. Good luck.
Why not accept it? It was seen that your current is not serious and now he remembered that he loves you because he feels that you are different and maybe that there is a competitor .... On the other hand, if you plan to study upstairs, this 27-year-old should understand and support ....