Hello, I am a 22-year-old woman. I am about to have a relationship with a wonderful person, I have finally found what I am looking for, but I will not go into details. The truth is that a year and a half ago, so to speak, I came to my senses and changed radically towards men. Now I'm sorry that I've been with certain of them before, I've slept with men I can't even look at now, I'm just disgusted. There are no fatal things, nor have I been pregnant, nor a prostitute, nor married, and so on, nor have any of them harassed me. In general, all pages are closed, but I continue to harass. I say to myself, did you see what kind of man you met now, and you were with someone who you are ... and I am tormented by things that were 4-5 years ago. I want to be with my current mind all my life, I still think that someone can ever show up and expose me, even though no one has a tooth ....
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Dear girl, the fact that your past is harassing you shows that you are a valuable person, a person with a conscience. Although I don't see anything fatal in this past of yours, at least as you describe it. Believe me, we have all made mistakes, everyone has had sex with someone, about whom you then wonder "Where was my mind?" And when you meet the real you wish this past did not exist, but unfortunately nothing comes back. More important is the future - to appreciate the love you have found, to be true, not to repeat old mistakes. I am sure that you are a literate girl and you will succeed ....
Soul, how did you expect things to happen without your previous experience? Don't whip yourself, and when I go back in time for what I've done, I hate myself. But if it weren't for these things, I would never be who I am now. Each of us has been in relationships in which, over time, he wonders with what intelligence he has reunited with this man. But once you've met the right person, I don't understand why you don't want to be happy. I notice that a lot of people, even if they are lucky enough to have a casserole, will still find something to complain about and complain about and feel sorry for.
Honey, we all go a certain way, we make mistakes, we learn from them. Only in this way can we know ourselves and understand exactly what we want in this life. If you weren't with those men, you wouldn't know you were looking for this one. Do not blame yourself, but thank your destiny that you have gone through all this, you are alive and well and now you can enjoy life. Be happy :)