Hello! I am a 19 year old girl. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years and I really love him. But in one moment, love became insufficient for us to continue to be together. We just have different views on our future. In no way will we be able to build a healthy family. In order not to be unfounded, I will give you printers. I want to have children in the future. He does not want. I want to get married (of course not now, but in 3-4 years, for example). He does not want. He is not used to taking on responsibilities. And by no means would he be willing to work in a place where he is not paid enough, even though he does not have enough money even now. While I was working in the summer, he said that working in a cafe was not for him because he was not paid enough and could not get along with people. Yes, but he doesn't try anything else, he just complains. Before you think that I give up too easily, I tell you that I have tried many times to talk to him on these topics. But it never had an effect. It's hard for me to give up this relationship, but on the other hand I can't go on like this. It hurts a lot and I don't even see how I'm going to break up with him. Give me some advice. Thanks in advance!
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I understand you, but keep in mind that you are still very young and your friend will change drastically when he has to face real life. And this will happen within one to four years. Most 19-year-olds think like him and have high expectations for the future. They do not imagine a wedding, children and a job whose salary is less than BGN 1,500. Now for him all this is only theoretical, but soon there will be a moment of practical development and then he will realize that it is better to work for 600 BGN than to live under the bridge and not have money for bread. In fact, usually everyone starts with low-paid and unsatisfactory work, the idea is to gain experience. First a person works for experience and name, and then for money and time. His ambitions, though a little naive, are exactly what should tell you that he will work hard, to go far and find a good job for himself. Someday he will wake up and have money, but he will be sick if he has nothing to spend it on. And this will happen if money is his priority for a long time. Yes, you have a nice car, a furnished apartment and cool clothes, but you have no one to go out with, you don't wake up to the same person and it's as if your money is piling up and you want to use it for excursions with someone close or for to buy chocolate for that cyclical woman who is currently facing a nervous breakdown, but otherwise you love each other. You're a girl, you get to some thoughts a little faster. At the age of 19 I was aware that up to the age of 10 I could be married with a child. I understood that 10 years sounds awful, but they will go down fast like rosary balls and I won't feel them at all. Then I blinked and woke up at 20 and a few, my life was radically different and I was evolving. My friend told me that at the age of 18 he never wanted to have children and never imagined that he would get married. When we met, he was 23 years old and already imagined these same things as so close that he could almost touch them. The passing of time forces people to change their views and goals. If you do not feel satisfied in this relationship and love is not enough for you to feel good with the boy, then sit down and talk to him seriously. Tell him everything that worries you and dump him, but at least give him a chance to understand your motives and not ask questions for months or years. Honesty is a great dignity, I advise you to use it whenever you are not quite sure how to act. that at the age of 18 he never wanted to have children and never imagined that he would get married. When we met, he was 23 years old and already imagined these same things as so close that he could almost touch them. The passing of time forces people to change their views and goals. If you do not feel satisfied in this relationship and love is not enough for you to feel good with the boy, then sit down and talk to him seriously. Tell him everything that worries you and dump him, but at least give him a chance to understand your motives and not ask questions for months or years. Honesty is a great dignity, I advise you to use it whenever you are not quite sure how to act. that at the age of 18 he never wanted to have children and never imagined that he would get married. When we met, he was 23 years old and already imagined these same things as so close that he could almost touch them. The passing of time forces people to change their views and goals. If you do not feel satisfied in this relationship and love is not enough for you to feel good with the boy, then sit down and talk to him seriously. Tell him everything that worries you and dump him, but at least give him a chance to understand your motives and not ask questions for months or years. Honesty is a great dignity, I advise you to use it whenever you are not quite sure how to act. that he could almost touch them. The passing of time forces people to change their views and goals. If you do not feel satisfied in this relationship and love is not enough for you to feel good with the boy, then sit down and talk to him seriously. Tell him everything that worries you and dump him, but at least give him a chance to understand your motives and not ask questions for months or years. Honesty is a great dignity, I advise you to use it whenever you are not quite sure how to act. that he could almost touch them. The passing of time forces people to change their views and goals. If you do not feel satisfied in this relationship and love is not enough for you to feel good with the boy, then sit down and talk to him seriously. Tell him everything that worries you and dump him, but at least give him a chance to understand your motives and not ask questions for months or years. Honesty is a great dignity, I advise you to use it whenever you are not quite sure how to act. but at least give him a chance to understand your motives and not ask questions for months or years. Honesty is a great dignity, I advise you to use it whenever you are not quite sure how to act. but at least give him a chance to understand your motives and not ask questions for months or years. Honesty is a great dignity, I advise you to use it whenever you are not quite sure how to act.
Just tell him you're leaving, that's what you've decided. You can also tell him that you are in love with someone else. Break up without much explanation, do not start long conversations, meetings, clarifications, etc., because it may be able to dissuade you. Remember that you and your future are most important to yourself, not him.
Thats my favourite. The vile, narcissistic and disloyal "princesses", when they fall in love and thrill, not much time passes and they start to complain that there was no "security" that is, a man to give them money in cash. And if they cling to security with someone, it doesn't take long and they start muttering that you can't live without love, that there is no thrill and they are not happy. Grumbling and ungrateful creatures who do not appreciate what they have but only watch what other duck has and compare themselves with it, but only with someone who has something more than them and of course they will not get caught to acquire it but will they grumble that their husband does not provide it to them as if he owed them anything. And that's when you get along great with them, imagine.
Hello! You think extremely maturely and sensibly about this early age. You have a clear vision for the future and what you want from life and from the partner next to you. Your friend is not like you. Probably a child was pampered at home. But he is still too young to think about such a difficult commitment as family and children. The boys mature later and in time will probably change their views. Now he thinks it's time for him to live, to have fun, he leaves the responsibilities for a later stage.
You're 19, that piss must be somewhere. Do you want someone in their 20s to want children and want to get married? !? !! Brother.
Towards 3: I am far from thinking that someone MUST support me and buy me expensive gifts and so on. I even wrote that I work all summer. Not that it's who knows what, but at least I try not to be a burden to my parents. And somehow I expect my partner to do the same. But alas, this is not the case. And if it's about living lately, I rather pay the bill when we go out with him somewhere or when we go to her store. So I don't think you can call me an ankle princess. To 5: Would you be surprised if I told you that my acquaintance received a marriage proposal from her 22-year-old friend. Or if I tell you that my best friend hears from her 19-year-old boyfriend every day how he wants to live with her. And I don't mean just having sex every night. I'm talking about real living together. Only the two. And not just in words. In the summer they were at sea. Then they found accommodation in Sofia (they are students) and now they live like a real family, with common money, common obligations to each other and so on. While my friend doesn't think about such things at all. I don't expect him to take down my stars, I don't expect him to offer me tomorrow. I expect him to just think about starting a family gradually. I just need an inner to start building my life with a person who thinks about in 5 years, not just for tomorrow. I want to live with someone who wants to live with me. And not with someone who still relies on mom and dad, given that there is a real opportunity to help themselves financially with some work. From the author I don't expect him to take down my stars, I don't expect him to offer me tomorrow. I expect him to just think about starting a family gradually. I just need an inner to start building my life with a person who thinks about in 5 years, not just for tomorrow. I want to live with someone who wants to live with me. And not with someone who still relies on mom and dad, given that there is a real opportunity to help themselves financially with some work. From the author I don't expect him to take down my stars, I don't expect him to offer me tomorrow. I expect him to just think about starting a family gradually. I just need an inner to start building my life with a person who thinks about in 5 years, not just for tomorrow. I want to live with someone who wants to live with me. And not with someone who still relies on mom and dad, given that there is a real opportunity to help themselves financially with some work. From the author that there is a real opportunity to help yourself financially with some work. From the author that there is a real opportunity to help yourself financially with some work. From the author