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How To Find A Girlfriend?

By outlettv.oficial September 07, 2020 10 answers Last updated September 07, 2020

I will tell my story briefly as a start. When I was little at school, they made fun of me because of my appearance and physique (I was very thin) and over time they started beating me. All this lasted until 7th grade when I couldn't stand it and reached for drugs and so I lost 10-12 kilograms, I stopped going out and 90% of my friends forgot me and didn't even greet me on the street. In 8th grade I stopped going to school because of all this and so the problems with my family started. On top of everything, I already had solid loans because my mother and father did not give me money. I began to feel lonely because my dearest person died, and with him and part of me. After I overdosed and my parents found out that I was thrown into a hospital (and I don't know what two hooks and bam just came to the district for questioning and then to the hospital) and I was there for almost 2 months. I came out clean and I am clean to this day. I started to play sports actively, developed my gift for painting and started playing. At the moment I have only 2 real friends with whom I go out once a week max. I dream of a person who will accept me with my story and my problems. I don't know what to do to find a decent girl because 98% of today's girls think a) money b) swag c) more money. When I tell my story I don't want attention, I want to create an opinion about myself so that you can give me advice. If you have any questions to me, write in the comments. Sorry if there are spelling mistakes. Thank you for reading part of my story! And please no heit. I dream of a person who will accept me with my story and my problems. I don't know what to do to find a decent girl because 98% of today's girls think a) money b) swag c) more money. When I tell my story, I don't want attention, I want to create an opinion about myself so that you can give me advice. If you have any questions to me, write in the comments. Sorry if there are spelling mistakes. Thank you for reading part of my story! And please no heit. I dream of a person who will accept me with my story and my problems. I don't know what to do to find a decent girl because 98% of today's girls think a) money b) swag c) more money. When I tell my story, I don't want attention, I want to create an opinion about myself so that you can give me advice. If you have any questions to me, write in the comments. Sorry if there are spelling mistakes. Thank you for reading part of my story! And please no heit. Thank you for reading part of my story! And please no heit. Thank you for reading part of my story! And please no heit.

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lisaleslaleona answered · September 07, 2020

   In my opinion, before looking for a girlfriend who will only burden you with problems (loans, unemployment, illiteracy), it is best to concentrate on acquiring professional qualifications, work and repaying your loans (you). Money is not the most important thing, but a person still has to live on something, eat, have health, insurance, normal things, and you with 8th grade education do not see what you can offer - ie with you a person he cannot start a family, and it is here that women make up their minds - can the ajeba man take care of a generation or not. Do not repeat the mistake of your parents and do not start a family without being able to take care of him. You will find a friend when you get your life in order - you have a job, a qualification of some kind, INDEPENDENT HOUSING (for rent, let's say, but not with yours), basic things like a book and some old car so one can be mobile and so on. Everyone, including women, has enough other problems than rescuing trapped men. Otherwise you will find a woman, but you have to lower the bar and I'm not sure you will be satisfied with the choice - would you go with a fat 100 kilos from the village, say, with 5th grade education, of minority origin, with loans? If not - well tighten up - normal girls want to go with NORMAL boys, and you are on your way to normal, but you are FAR from that. Fix your life before you connect it with another !!! Take RESPONSIBILITY for your life before you wait for someone else to make you happy. Love yourself before you wait for another to love you. Everyone carries his cross, no one will take yours, no NORMAL woman will take on your problems and it is pure self-delusion to judge women for this (they only looked at money and such nonsense). You are no longer in 7th grade for God's sake, tighten up - you are already a man! There are evening courses in vocational high schools, finish a high school part-time start a job (construction, driver if you have a license, salesman, porter, and so on) before looking for a wife or just go with one of the women I described above. No woman with a high school education (and above), a job, her own address, a car, dreams, a restraint (non-drug addict) would go with you at this stage and it is not a question of money, but of the whole package. finish a high school in absentia, start a job (construction, driver if you have a license, salesman, porter, and so on) before looking for a wife or just go with one of the women I described above. No woman with a high school education (and above), a job, her own address, a car, dreams, a restraint (non-drug addict) would go with you at this stage and it is not a question of money, but of the whole package. finish a high school in absentia start some work (construction, driver if you have a license, salesman, porter and so on) before looking for a wife or just go with one of the women I described above. No woman with a high school education (and above), a job, her own address, a car, dreams, a restraint (non-drug addict) would go with you at this stage and it is not a question of money, but of the whole package.

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ozandogulu answered · September 07, 2020

   Wait a minute number 1. In principle, you are right about what is written, but the boy does not mention now how old he is, or whether he still managed to finish high school. And I never read anywhere that he was unemployed. Author, contacts and friendships are formed in school / work / university ... I don't know if you work, but it's nice to do something. At this stage, whatever. And there you will meet other people. Be in touch. Don't wait for someone to tell you to drink beer, but take the initiative. I'm not just talking about women, I'm talking about friendships with men. This way you expand your social circle and you will meet a girl someday. But don't let it be a fixed idea. Try to fix your life, other things happen over time.

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verv answered · September 07, 2020

   Find a job. It works. Get married. Have children. Follow the fashion. Behave normally. Walk on the sidewalk. Watch TV. Obey the law. Save for your antiques. And now say "I'm free." This is an absolute irony of №1. It completely solidified his opinion of the women here. Probably his former classmates are real men, because they have a high school education and basic things like a car. By the way, they have to apologize to the author and help him, they are the main culprits for his situation. The laws do not tolerate self-mutilation, but I would find them one by one and shit them in front of their moldy friends. And there is definitely something elementary, but not the possession of driving documents, but the self-consciousness of the Bulgarian woman. He would have a girlfriend if he had a car and a high school education .. Haha, then write and talk about men, in which you fell in love. There have always been and will always be people with problems, this is not your priority №1. There were so many explanations for how money didn't matter, and now the opposite is being written. And although it is necessary, the secondary and higher education is not a solution to his problems. The various simple individuals, who can barely tie a sentence, but still have a boyfriend and a shiny cart, were they diligent students? And what do you tell him about elementary things? !? !! Low price for a driving course - BGN 300! minimum salary from January 1, 2014 - BGN 340! Do you assimilate at all? . Or "pure self-delusion to judge women for it (they only looked at money and such nonsense). You're not in 7th grade anymore for God's sake, tighten up - you're already a man!" That's exactly what makes him a real man, that he sees things, not to hang out with a coffee girl at a mall and be fooled, that she was not with him because of the daily squandering of money. I have heard from mature men that you only look at money. It is no coincidence that what is said about the Balkan gold diggers ..;) A Moldovan who has lived here for several years, told me that in BG everything is like bread - You eat it when you have money. You can also buy friends here. Author I advise you to target foreign women, they are favorable women. If you know English or another language, just look for a girl from the respective country. There are many sites where you can communicate. A friend of mine married at 22, a Belarusian. He did not appear at the prom, but I am convinced that he does not regret it. He now lives in the capital Minsk. I understood it - A foreigner is the right choice, and the items should sit next to the owners. I wish you success! I have heard from mature men that you only look at money. It is no coincidence that what is said about the Balkan gold diggers ..;) A Moldovan who has lived here for several years, told me that in BG everything is like bread - You eat it when you have money. You can also buy friends here. Author I advise you to target foreign women, they are favorable women. If you know English or another language, just look for a girl from the respective country. There are many sites where you can communicate. A friend of mine married at 22, a Belarusian. He did not appear at the prom, but I am convinced that he does not regret it. He now lives in the capital Minsk. I understood it - A foreigner is the right choice, and the items should sit next to the owners. I wish you success! I have heard from mature men that you only look at money. It is no coincidence that what is said about the Balkan gold diggers ..;) A Moldovan who has lived here for several years, told me that in BG everything is like bread - You eat it when you have money. You can also buy friends here. Author I advise you to focus on foreign women, they are favorable women. If you know English or another language, just look for a girl from the respective country. There are many sites where you can communicate. A friend of mine married at 22, a Belarusian. He did not appear at the prom, but I am convinced that he does not regret it. He now lives in the capital Minsk. I understood it - A foreigner is the right choice, and the items should sit next to the owners. I wish you success! ) A Moldovan who has lived here for several years told me that in BG everything is like bread - You eat it when you have money. You can also buy friends here. Author I advise you to focus on foreign women, they are favorable women. If you know English or another language, just look for a girl from the respective country. There are many sites where you can communicate. A friend of mine married at 22, a Belarusian. He did not appear at the prom, but I am convinced that he does not regret it. He now lives in the capital Minsk. I understood it - A foreigner is the right choice, and the items should sit next to the owners. I wish you success! ) A Moldovan who has lived here for several years told me that in BG everything is like bread - You eat it when you have money. You can also buy friends here. Author I advise you to target foreign women, they are favorable women. If you know English or another language, just look for a girl from the respective country. There are many sites where you can communicate. A friend of mine married at 22, a Belarusian. He did not appear at the prom, but I am convinced that he does not regret it. He now lives in the capital Minsk. I understood it - A foreigner is the right choice, and the items should sit next to the owners. I wish you success! If you know English or another language, just look for a girl from the respective country. There are many sites where you can communicate. A friend of mine married at 22, a Belarusian. He did not appear at the prom, but I am convinced that he does not regret it. He now lives in the capital Minsk. I understood it - A foreigner is the right choice, and the items should sit next to the owners. I wish you success! If you know English or another language, just look for a girl from the respective country. There are many sites where you can communicate. A friend of mine married at 22, a Belarusian. He did not appear at the prom, but I am convinced that he does not regret it. He now lives in the capital Minsk. I understood it - A foreigner is the right choice, and the items should sit next to the owners. I wish you success!

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progmansion answered · September 07, 2020

   I do not know. And I'm wondering how to find a decent friend..What should I do? Things just happen. Be patient. Success! M23

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vickibaybeee answered · September 08, 2020

   Number 4 - to be alive and healthy, friend ... Here is one who said things exactly as they are. One who had enough brains to look with his eyes and think with his head. he is most right about one thing: far from Bulgarian women, there are terribly few decent people among them. And this is said by a man who is neither poor, nor ugly, nor foolish

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gurk16 answered · September 08, 2020

   There are still decent women, though few. Don't give up and move on. Good luck. Eli.

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dblock_official answered · September 08, 2020

   Number 1 is materialistic, don't pay attention to her.

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andrythehitmaker answered · September 09, 2020

   Number 1, you're a very tactless person, honestly! We need strong propaganda against you, mercantile halflings!

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amy_quinn answered · September 09, 2020

   I am a man of 35, I say it so that there are no wrong conclusions. Wherever I look at it, number 1 is very, very straight. Every normal woman wants to have a man who is financially secure and can take care of their children. If a man can barely make ends meet, what kind of love can we talk about? To me, such a man is just a "worm". The fact that women in Bulgaria looked only at money and there were no decent ones is just an excuse for some men for their own failure.

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flora222 answered · September 10, 2020

   "The fact that women in Bulgaria looked only at money and there was no decent is just an excuse for some men for their own failure." Well, but they don't look at it, they spend it. We will already know that a handful of decent people are the majority. It turns out something like this: A man without money is a worm, a worm with money is a person. If this boy was doing nonsense that would bring him money and fame, he would have succeeded and deserved the woman next to him - By your distorted logic. There is someone to evaluate it, but he has to raise some money and learn a language. Miracles happen beyond Bulgaria, believe me. This means that everything is confused here. Here, many people with a fucking life have recovered abroad, and why not here? Because women are smarter and more beautiful than the rest of the world? It is pathological to talk about love, if every second one is oriented towards the rich, understand that. This is the picture in the eyes of people who are not from Bulgaria. Running away from any man with a regular salary is not normal. You have to be an absolute idiot to say that getting a car license is simple! Since the educated do not receive high salaries, how can those with the average pay. Do you feel the stupidity? Yes, we have recovered 100 times. Only a small percentage understand it. The author is harassed precisely by the children of families who collect on account. There are no values ​​in such families, and love is not oriented towards wealth. Isn't love a new synonym of interest? Look at how most children behave, how unpleasant they are with their behavior. He was a drug addict, but he understood what was wrong here. I will not go with the one I love, but with the one who will look after my children and feed me .. just disgust-hysterical simplicity / a friend dies slowly but surely because of such a girl. :( He's a smart student, but he comes from a modest family, that's why they played him for years until he got drunk. He fucked up his life. I talked to girls from Croatia and Ukraine, sets. Then they told a mutual friend that they I liked how I behaved and how I think, something I have not heard from a Bulgarian girl. It is not true that we need propaganda against the mercantile, we need reform !!! and a wave of slippers, judging by the last comment. :( Then they told a mutual friend that they liked the way I behaved and thought, something I had not heard from a Bulgarian girl. It is not true that we need propaganda against the mercantile, we need reform !!! The smart ones are not valued here, the rich are valued. The worst thing is that there is a wave of slippers, judging by the last comment. :( Then they told a mutual friend that they liked the way I behaved and thought, something I had not heard from a Bulgarian girl. It is not true that we need propaganda against the mercantile, we need reform !!! The smart ones are not valued here, the rich are valued. The worst thing is that there is a wave of slippers, judging by the last comment. :(