Skip to content
Teen problems

How To Find A Serious Girlfriend

By anastasia522 October 06, 2020 50 answers Last updated October 06, 2020

So I want to ask for advice on how to find a girlfriend because I'm 16 and then every girl is pretentious, whore, or all those who just by writing 1 hour in skype are already in love and I want a serious girlfriend and I think my problem is that I look very good and dress well and alone in good and fun companies and no one has thought that I can want a serious relationship with a girl and every girl thinks that it's just about sex in today's everyday life and no one remembers that a boy can just ask for a companion with whom I can share absolutely everything and someone who will always support you ..... so how can I find a real girl who doesn't want to fuck her and how to I know ? THANKS IN ADVANCE.

Answers 50

1
igorsaringer answered · October 06, 2020

   My friend is in a difficult situation! For a serious relationship, it's not just about finding, you want love. If you fall in love with a chick and she is free, don't hide it! Share now! Here, look, she responded to your feelings and .. You're ready, but it's easy to talk! .. It took me 3 years to find this secret ... To find your soul mate is such a valuable and difficult thing, however. To find someone you will love ... It's all up to you! Fate, irreversibility and a little good karma and you will have someone next to you. Come on SUCCESS.

2
rowhousenest answered · October 06, 2020

   I have the same problem :) I'm 16 (almost 17), I look good, I'm smart and an excellent student, but I want a serious friend, even if it's just for coffee, to have a boyfriend to share with ... But alas, or they just want to sleep with me or not even dare to talk to me, because I would not let them: D: D: D It is very clear to me, as you are light ... You have time, you will find one: p

3
iamreginaking answered · October 06, 2020

   What type of girl do you like ... thin .. very thin ... plump .. more plump .. any ...? What .. :)

4
jaw.tafrik.tma93ir answered · October 06, 2020

   Look now friend ... the answer is in your question ... you yourself say that you are always in fun companies, probably in discos, probably always surrounded by many people ..... it will be difficult to find the real thing in such an environment. .. You're really right that at the moment it's full of brainless scoundrels, heavily made-up babes with artificial hair .... Well, where to find a real woman ... Well, there are and not so few serious girls .. just have to you look better .. and beyond your environment only ... Maybe you will find that not so open and aggressive, but at first submissive quiet water is the girl for you ... Believe me there are many girls who can have fun without to get drunk, to be beautiful without dressing like k ** vi ... and to be able to really say something to them because they have a corner ..... Look around more ... Good luck ...

5
ab_ambra answered · October 06, 2020

   You know what I think: №3 hints at something (sorry, but I couldn't help myself). So let's assume that there are 100 girls. 15 of them are very small 15 are very big 15 are in prison others 15 are whores 15 pretend to be Emo (terribly funny and ugly to watch some depressed pickles with naughty hairstyles, high heels, etc.) and others 15 no are to your liking. And so there are 10 girls left, only 10! Amy looked for one of them, got rid of this company of yours for a while. Sit on a park bench and look around. If you are constantly with some guys who are the complete opposite of you, it is very clear that no one will notice you!

6
neetu314 answered · October 06, 2020

   I'm in a much worse position ... I thought I had found the girl, I just wanted to give her a little more time to get to know me ... It all seemed to work out, but some of her "friends" brainwashed her and made her a muffin. She was going to become a person out of her, and now she's: X It is unlikely that the one who goes with him will now tell her or write such things .... On top of everything, he took me and blocked me -.- "..... And I was terribly glad that I had found the MAN .... I'm not looking the girl has some super gifted I want more earthy and quieter ... hey this ...

7
lularandoko answered · October 06, 2020

   Lelleelee these women will finish us straight and I'm tired of people, I just vomit when I feel a stinking perfume from 20 meters and I immediately remember that some whore is approaching !!! Horror at 22 I'm not from bg but I grew up here I had a lot of girlfriends but never CONSCIOUS !!! UNFORTUNATELY IT IS SO AND I AM WORKING ABOUT ME I WORK I TRAIN AND JET THINGS MULTIPLIED BY TWO !!!! IF ANY "decent TVARDYAT AND THAT LET ME WRITE THIS Skype zorr_87 we'll see Dalis OR NOT SUCH !!!! VSICHKOI BEST OF ALL THAT searches did not give COUNCIL having no SUCH A because I AMI simple reason THAT THIS DOES NOT HAPPEN, IT JUST HAPPENS THAT WAY AND THERE IS NO WAY TO FIX IT EVEN AND TAKE THE TIME BACK !!!!

8
losangelesking_ answered · October 06, 2020

   9, who hurt you, did it badly. even such general conclusions are excessive. I will not explain how wonderful I am, but I can safely say that I know many CONSCIOUS girls. The problem is that no one notices them - they are still greeted by the clothes. All men complain about how disgusting, cheap girls they come across - well, that's what you're looking for, gentlemen. if she's not 1.70 terribly thin with an awfully big bust and terribly long hair, heavily made up with claws like a predator, then she's not a woman .. there's nothing to say, you didn't deserve anything better ...

9
the_eagl88 answered · October 06, 2020

   I have the following problem: I am 17 years old and so far I have met women who only use you for money for other things ..... I recently found a girl who told me that she loves me for 5 months., At the same time one day she told me that she had cheated on me, I was very sick. She started telling me every day that she didn't want me. In the evening he told me "I was joking" and so for 2 months and finally he told me to get lost .. I just have no words. The most painful thing for me is that she told me that she was a virgin and that she had recently been to a party, got drunk and some people raped her .... Give me some advice, I don't know what to do ... Is it normal to suffer for her that some opened it and second: is it fatal for a relationship?

10
jhondoe answered · October 06, 2020

   Emmy, I didn't know until now that there are guys who don't just want sex, but something more .... so spox ... you find a good girl, but to know that I'm like that too and we're more anxious in the beginning .... I'm 12, but I have a lot of experience .... too much. Just know that you are the perfect boy, and they are disappearing.

11
GoGoGadgetGrl answered · October 06, 2020

   How to find a serious girlfriend ago: 2 years, 1 month, read 2074 times So I want to ask for advice on how to find a girlfriend because I'm 16 and here in Stara Zagora sweat every girl is a jerk, whore, or any such who just by writing 1 hour in skype are already in love and I want a serious girlfriend and I think my problem is that I look very good and dress well and alone in good and fun companies and no one thought I could want a serious relationship with a girl and every girl thinks that it's just about sex in today's everyday life and no one remembers that a boy can just want a companion with whom I can share absolutely everything and someone who will always support you ..... so how can I find a real girl who doesn't fuck you and how can I recognize her ?? THANKS IN ADVANCE.

12
luv4sxp answered · October 06, 2020

   It is best to pay attention to spelling before you pay attention to serious girls.

13
mamasita32 answered · October 07, 2020

   how to find a serious boy as they are all the same want only sex and then they swear if you can help me write please.

14
clubgeneraldiaz answered · October 07, 2020

   I like a girl and she likes me, but I cheated on something. I offered to become boyfriends once, but she refused. Now she is constantly laughing and joking with me, but I don't know if I should try again. PLEASE GIVE ADVICE !!! Thank you in advance.

15
nikhilchinapa answered · October 07, 2020

   Well, try it, I was so drawn to a girl, but I started to go home with her after a teacher to send her to them to joke, I offered her a second time and ..... VOIL !!! Everything got up.

16
nhb2230 answered · October 07, 2020

   I am also from Stara Zagora and really most of the girls from here are quite bloated and many know their mouths because they are supposedly very desirable. I am 14 years old. I'm also looking for a serious relationship but I can't find the right boy because most of them look like girls and those who know how to understand me are afraid of commitment ...

17
bammyboy29 answered · October 08, 2020

   People, I can't help you, but I'm 14 I'm fucking, I loved my best friend, it turned out that she loved me too, we had sex and the feelings passed

18
thekittycatatonic answered · October 08, 2020

   Look, I recently had this problem finding a girlfriend. I made the huge mistake of telling her in plain text that I love her. Then I talked to one of her many. a close friend and she shared something with me that I will share with you "Never tell a girl in plain text that you love her, unless you are already going out. If you had asked me I would have helped you" So my advice is if they have many good friends and get along with them at least to some extent, ask them before you do anything stupid.

19
baby2baby answered · October 09, 2020

   I can't believe that there is such a boy, everyone uses me for this purpose .. Oh, if I knew such a boy ... Only in my dreams in my city all the girls are hired ... not even abandoned. I am ridiculed for not letting go but I'm afraid I don't want to use it first show my feelings and if she wants only then do it

20
lovelydesh answered · October 09, 2020

   Abe people at the age of 16 for what your girlfriend (serious) can turn your heart 360 degrees. Let's fuck now and we'll see later :) If they're fucking giving, well, if they weren't there, the whore will somehow tell you for 5 months that she's not ready, fuck her this job and go to the bastards! There is the power: D

21
themaan78900 answered · October 09, 2020

   People ... at the age of 11 I want to find the right girl for myself. I want her to be a nice person, for example, to share with me not to know the rest not to drool ... Look, maybe I'm small for a girlfriend, but I want to have a boyfriend, I don't like snobs at all, it makes me seem to stop her I like people during these 11 years. I haven't found the right one, everyone's pissed! help: S Thanks a lot. in advance! :)

22
hot__sophia answered · October 09, 2020

   Maleeee, horror! You are developing very fast :) I am so old already and I haven't had a long and serious relationship yet, only short ones, but I haven't despaired. Keep looking, it's not easy, women are whores, that's right, be ready to break your heart at least 2-3 times and then you won't care much and you will break their hearts, obviously this is how people are beaten. Forget about love, it does not exist! Maybe 1 in 1 million to have someone to meet and fall in love with, the other is just sex and use, get used to it, this is waiting for you for the rest of your life!

23
adamsquared answered · October 09, 2020

   I agree with 30 (comment). Well, I'm not alone, I'm very young. They broke it twice and I stopped looking. There are no decent girls anymore

24
xxbadbunniexxx answered · October 10, 2020

   I'm a girl and I want a serious friend in the same way, but all the boys around me just want whores

25
TexasGirlxxx answered · October 10, 2020

   Hi, I'm Gabby, I'm 13 ... ... I totally agree with number 33! boys are no longer looking for smart girls, or at least to do something. They are only looking for blood and brainless cooks!

26
SandraRuby answered · October 10, 2020

   I am a boy almost 16 years old and I have not had a girlfriend yet, I liked girls but I have always lost my temper. Give some advice because I think I'm doomed forever. :(

27
joshuadun answered · October 10, 2020

   Honestly, when I read that there were some who are looking for a serious relationship and at 16 ... Well, if it's true, THANK YOU. I'm a girl and I'm older than you, but so far I have not come across those who are looking for serious relationships and only sex and whores, so it's really good that at such an age you're ready for a serious relationship. But don't you remember that it's not just like that, when in a competition you look for-choose and you're done. That love is not an easy job. And you're not very big, how many more girls will you meet. Let me tell you a little but decent connections, than to move from branch to branch like a monkey, to change boyfriends, then on the one hand this is the right person, but on the other if you change them like handkerchiefs and you start to be famous, so only girls who are only looking for sex, but not a serious commitment, stick together.Emmy I wish you to find your girl and not despair, life goes on;)

28
Ixabella answered · October 10, 2020

   I am from Stara Zagora and I can tell you that there are many girls here who are not "pretentious" or "whores", but to find such a girl you have to look outside these circles.

29
Blondpussy answered · October 10, 2020

   Thanks a lot to 39 and 40 and I hope the same :))

30
passiekoppel answered · October 11, 2020

   Yes, I have your problems! Fuck them and enjoy life, the rest will only waste your nerves and money!

31
HotPinayBody69 answered · October 11, 2020

   And you are my fellow citizen, I am a girl and I am younger than you, but I have a lot of observations about friends and classmates. First, one half are whores, bitches, muffins ... yes, but the other half are used to the fact that most boys like the other group and plus or minus a few terrible relationships they have lost trust in the boys. How to find her - well, look at those girls who, even if they are crazy and just kidding, follow their principles and do not put pressure on everyone. And as for how to take it off, just be yourself and don't worry about failure ... get a little closer, however, without lying to her, otherwise you will immediately lose confidence.

32
Pamisquirt answered · October 11, 2020

   Hello, I am a 14-year-old boy from Sofia. There are a lot of girls here who aren't whores and I've noticed them, but I've always been embarrassed to talk to them because I'm too fat. I would like to ask if a 1.86, 95 kg man like me has a chance with a girl and a serious relationship. I caught up with 2-3 girls. I haven't had sex and I intend not to have sex for a long time. A lot of people have told me that I'm sensitive and I don't know what to do. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP! THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!

33
rysko77 answered · October 11, 2020

   I am a girl from Stara Zagora, not all of them are ... you ... but it is difficult to find the girl for a serious relationship ... I tried and I succeeded, I hope you succeed too!

34
crystaltexas answered · October 11, 2020

   Well, I'm 14 years old and I'm also looking for a girl with whom I have a serious relationship, alas, all my classmates are frivolous and k *** i ... .. But I'm still not desperate for me, life is only now beginning: D And hope dies last :)

35
nlve12 answered · October 11, 2020

   Emmy, so dude, I'm smaller than you, but I have experience. First, try to look good in your clothes and especially the shape of your body. If you do not train, I will give you advice, go to the levers with straight buckets, everything you have, because the chicks stick to men with muscles and not with bellies;). And I'm looking hard for my partner, but I'm in no hurry, because I'll find her someday.

36
kissssulya answered · October 11, 2020

   First of all, why are you surprised that there are such guys looking for a serious relationship, and not mostly sex? It needs to look a little better and you will find these decent guys. And this 28th number, if you can't stand 5 months, if you want a girl to give herself to you in the first week, and if she doesn't give herself to you for that 1 week, or even 3-4 to 5 months, how will you be If you find a decent girl, I think they should wait half a year, get to know the lovers and see if they really love each other and if it's worth the relationship, and since then they become more intimate. I don't know what you're all in a hurry for. You're in a hurry, then you're sorry, and I just don't see the point of rushing. If you have a lot of sex, order a prostitute, it will be much cheaper, than dating a girl for months and she finally won't let you go and despair and dump her. And the prostitute will make fun of you, and you have nothing to be careful with her, not to hurt her or anything like that. Think, don't you think that's true? So run after prostitutes, not to lie to girls and break their hearts.

37
elderson_echiejile answered · October 11, 2020

   My problem is similar, I'm constantly with girls every day, but we're just friends, but I don't like them either, I like them, but I want love, I want to be loved, I'm in love with a girl but I don't have the courage to admit it, I had a chance with her but I missed it, but I want a second chance because now I really love her but I'm afraid to admit it because I don't know how she will react and whether we will remain friends after that .. ??? HELP

38
jmow0723 answered · October 12, 2020

   As 28 (and many of my friends) say "chalgars", I can't understand what role music plays in all this work. For example, I like heavier music and I just don't like chalga, is there any problem, and I know that there are probably no nice and conscious (so to speak) girls who listen to say metal and hardrock and rock (just for example), should I change my taste just because of her ??? And is it possible to make the girl take the first step, (because many times when I fuck 1 girl and another hates me, whether out of "tolerance" or harass me but cuts me) I am very shy and I'm afraid of how she will accept it> that is, what she will say and I experience it a lot when she cuts me off. 13 M

39
kaillowry answered · October 12, 2020

   Guys, it's your own fault. Even when I was in 5th grade, the boys started making fun of me for not straightening my hair, not putting on make-up, not dressing like a bitch and not smoking like the other girls. I'm neither ugly nor fat. I was so sick, I cried every day. I started straightening my hair and putting on make-up. It's good that my parents immediately took action and now I understand that they were right. I became a 7th grader and nothing has changed. The boys still like these muffins, where they carry their presses to school every day, to stand up. There is a boy from my class who, when we are alone, tells me that I am a very decent girl, but when we are in front of people, he insults me. I know another girl who was ridiculed like that and she became a bitch. I have remained natural and I no longer take to heart what they tell me. I hope that in the new class next year, things will be better. Well, guys, it's your fault.

40
robizparawawa answered · October 12, 2020

   Are you number 51 from Sofia because I'm just like you;))

41
getterdone68 answered · October 12, 2020

   I wish most were like you, but alas ..

42
esty answered · October 12, 2020

   Don't look for her, she will come to you on her own. I also don't freak out like my girlfriends, I don't straighten my hair, I don't wear short dresses, etc. I mean, even natural, I've had more boys than those pretentious whores, not because I'm light, but natural. And they call them only for some shit.

43
tililou90 answered · October 12, 2020

   38. You are not ruined. I'm also a girl of 16 and I haven't met a suitable boy yet, although boys and girls my age have already changed 5-6. Sometimes I despair like you, but I do not lose hope and I know that I will still meet love someday. So my advice is be patient and don't despair. There are passengers for each train :)

44
francy_3 answered · October 12, 2020

   I'm interested in your story ... and I was like that even though I'm 15 and I still haven't met the right one ... Sometimes boys and girls don't know what they want anymore .. it's not an example of starting to tease a girl in to annoy her all the time ... Like you, I often wonder why girls pretend to be the ones you described above in your story ...

45
hugomartinezsv answered · October 12, 2020

   I'm a 17-year-old girl and I'm glad that there are guys like you. And I'm looking for someone who doesn't just think about sex but to have a serious and healthy relationship.

46
2bkings answered · October 12, 2020

   And I'm looking for a guy who doesn't just want sex, who, if he lives at a distance from me, won't cheat on me, but there's no way everyone is made only and they are some users :( there are a lot of whores, I know now you'll say you can I should be like that and introduce myself on the net ... so my advice to you is to get to know the girl, I know those who are pushing you attract you, but choose them!;]

47
queennatasha69 answered · October 12, 2020

   only 1 word: GOOD LUCK

48
redhippie answered · October 12, 2020

   I'm in 5th grade and I dumped a girl and I saw two girls talking about me, one I like and I know she likes me too. I don't know how to say it to her, so I decided to make her say it to herself. That's why I need a fake boyfriend to get her to tell me.

49
senjackyrosen answered · October 12, 2020

   I am 17 from Sofia. Like most boys, I haven't found my soul mate here yet. And I have an idea: who is looking for a serious relationship just do not go with every k ** va that he lets go, because in this way they feel kind of wanted and will become more and more .... and do not forget Success to all who prefer a serious and healthy relationship to sex for 1 night;)

50
athenasexyg answered · October 12, 2020

   I'm a girl of 16 and I also don't have a boyfriend and the problem is not only in the girls but also in the boys :)