Hello, everyone ... give advice on how to find normal girlfriends, because I'm 20, and none of them are like that. My best friend is already far away, if she were a normal person ... but otherwise I always come across people with various deviations, who are very far from my views and ideals about life. I don't like going to bed with random people and being dragged with them to gatherings in the apartments of different men, I'm not a traffic jam, on the contrary, but I just don't like these things ... I don't like small people and small souls and I'm tired of some evil people. Most of my friends have always been men, and I'm tired of that because now I know they just want the same thing. :) I live separately in Burgas and here the people are more special ... whoever is from here will understand me (I am talking about women in particular). I will be happy for you to give me advice.
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author explain to us better why people in your town are more special .. and what exactly are you looking for in a girl .. do you stick to any specific things ...
Hello dear. Although I'm a little older than you (24 years old), I'm in the same situation. I always had a lot of girlfriends at school. There were only 2-3 in high school, but supposedly real. But after graduation, everyone went their separate ways and we don't even hear each other anymore. Now I have a few good acquaintances, if I may call them that, but they are definitely far from the definition of a "true friend." I always got along better with the boys and I preferred their company because it was more fun, more friendly with them (there is no hypocrisy and female malice, envy and gossip) but at some point you start to miss communication with a trusted person from your gender - to be able to share what bothers you, what makes you happy, etc. Men, as you wrote at one point begin to show a different interest in you and it spoils everything. No, that at 20 it is impossible to find a good friend to match and get along with, but it is quite difficult. Now everyone is more closed, most of them have a circle of friends in which they do not allow other people. I can't tell you exactly how to look for girlfriends, but I'll tell you how things are with me. I met two of the girls on the Internet. I had an account on a dating site and I was fed up with various drummers. I just went in to look at pictures. I remember these two girls complimenting me that one of them had beautiful hair and the other something with the clothes. So we started writing to each other and even saw each other a few times, because the cities are close to us. They are good girls and maybe if we were from the same city we would see each other more often, but ... By the way, I agree with what is written about the people from your city: