How To Forget First Love

   It is very difficult, my dear! I experienced my great love at 19, it was very strong and very romantic, but ... I wanted to return to Bulgaria, nostalgia was suffocating me. He stayed there, on the other side of the ocean, and we never saw each other again. I'm already 42, I have a 16-year-old daughter, but he doesn't come out of my head, I'm still wondering how she would be with him at one time or another. I compare every next man with him and to this day I have not met a man like him. After so many years I am still alone, nothing happened to my daughter's father, we broke up when she was 3, and this very first love of mine remained the only one and still strong, and it never happened again, never ... I can't give advice, I myself ran away from my love and to this day I am alone ... Would I come back? I don't know, I still think it won't be the same anymore, because it's just a memory from the past,

   First love is not forgotten, once you want him and he is looking for you, maybe you should be together. Find it and be as happy as you once were. If you accept your current boyfriend as your future husband, you will hardly stop thinking about your previous love. Follow your heart ... and it will give you a lot of joy ... don't stay with someone just because you feel obliged to be with him and look in every love - always your first. Success!

   Listen to your heart - it will never lie to you! It is true that first love always reminds of itself.

   Hello from me! I do not know if I will be useful to you in any way, but I will share my position on the matter. I was 26 years old, happily married, madly and unreservedly in love with my husband. We also have a wonderful little boy who fills our lives with serenity and even more love. Like everyone else, I have my first (and only) love before my husband. I was 17, I was young, romantic and adventurous. He was also an adventurer and although he was 7 years older than me, we had a stormy, real and extremely eventful relationship. I was in love to the point of self-forgetfulness and I was devoted to my love. But ... (there is always one but) everything and everyone was against us as a general concept, and this sooner or later gives results. The two of us parted almost without understanding exactly how it happened and perhaps without being able to hurt each other. Everyone went their own way, but we both kept love in our hearts - unspoiled by ugly scandals and sad, tearful and endless divisions. Yes, that was my student love. And it is this love that I still carry in my heart, and it is precisely this man that I sometimes think of when I am left alone with my thoughts. And I thank this man and this man from the bottom of my heart that they have been in my life, because thanks to them I understood what it is to love, what I am looking for in a relationship and what I want to happen to me when I am in love. Thanks to my first love, when I met true love, I recognized it and gave myself to it, and thanks to it, I now have a home, family and happiness. What I am convinced of is that there is nothing more wonderful than first love. And yes - the first love is never forgotten. This is the love that everyone should experience and whose place is there - in the romantic teenage years, when everything is rosy and when separation makes you stronger, when you think you will "die" without it and when you actually start living. Yes, first love is eternal. Because he lives in the memories, flavored with a drop of nostalgia and a great deal of idealism. And no - the first love can not be experienced a second time, even with the same person ...

   Thanks to everyone who responded to my story - it's easier when you see that other people have experienced something similar, and yet, have moved on! After thinking so much, I decided to see my "first" love! I told him that I wanted to continue my life, to have a family and that the person next to me did not deserve to be hurt by infidelity, etc. (because he shared that he was ready to even see me from time to time). I even asked him the right question if he was ready for a family, just to try what he would answer me. His answer was that he would probably never get married in his life, even though he wanted to have children. This calmed me down, more or less, because I, like most women, have often dreamed of a beautiful wedding, wedding dress, etc. At this stage of my life, this is important to me, because due to health gynecological problems I have to hurry with trying to get pregnant. The person next to me is ready for anything to be happy, and for me everything means to realize the dreams of the one you love, even though they don't matter so much to you. Maybe I have a little fear that once a relationship has been severed in some way, it will never be the same after that!

   I also have serious gynecological problems - cyst, kidney stone, white flow, arthritis for 5 years. I have known about these problems for 15 years. My first love did not want a child, he found a wife with a ready child. My second love dumped me 6 weeks before the wedding because of a younger woman. Between my two loves I was alone for 3 years. I am now 26 and the pain is very strong. According to the doctors, I had to give birth within 24 years. I am now unemployed and neglecting my second love. The white flow is already unbearable - I'm constantly wet and I'm tired of itching. They say that there are passengers for each train, and the years fly by and my health deteriorates. So far I have had 2 surgeries and I have to do 3 more. How can I do them when I haven't given birth yet. I understand what you went through. My first friend was with many women, but he was always honest.

   Hello Sweetie. Your story touched me, I will be short and clear! Let your heart guide you. It whispers so listen carefully! It never makes a mistake. !! Good luck

   My story is exactly the same as on №4. The first love is not forgotten, but it is very important what kind of person you want to live with. For me, first love cannot be my life partner. Windy and irresponsible, he could not beat the man who would be the father of our children and the husband of his wife. My husband is a truly responsible person, and for our son he is ready for anything. He changed his diapers, got up every night to rock him and sleep over, and I won't list how much he helps me. And how much I love him I have no words !!! The wife of my first love always drags their two children to see doctors alone. He doesn't work anywhere. They live on his father's alms. He himself walks all day who knows where. I hope it is different for you! Believe me, it is very possible that he will dump you again. If he did it once, why do you think he will be with you forever. I'm sorry that I speak to you like that, but think !!! GOOD LUCK!!!

   Hello. Your story moved me to tears. I just want to tell you that the heart cannot be commanded, but you have certainly already understood that. Like you, I will never be able to forget my first and only love. She's the kind of guy who shakes and burns you to the point that when she's done, you don't have the strength or desire to move on. It so happened to me that two years later I still can't recover, he's in my mind every day, every hour, every minute and every second. My day begins with the thought of him and ends with the thought of him. We were together for nine years - all my school and student years and beyond. There were many beautiful moments, moments of tears, of anger, of laughter. Nevertheless, the human psyche is built to remember only the good moments. We broke up. But not because we do not love each other, but on the contrary - we died for each other. I gave my life to save his. I'm sure it was the same on his part. We broke up because he had to choose between his parents and the ultimatum that his parents had given him. And he chose them. Maybe his love wasn't enough, maybe it wasn't as great as mine was to him. He is married now, and I still hope that one day he will call me and ask to see me. It is unlikely to happen, but I will never give up hope. I will never stop loving him and remembering all the wonderful moments we had together. So, darling, believe me - you will never be able to forget your first love and sooner or later your paths will meet again - I wish you with all my heart. Good luck. I gave my life to save his. I'm sure it was the same on his part. We broke up because he had to choose between his parents and the ultimatum that his parents had given him. And he chose them. Maybe his love wasn't enough, maybe it wasn't as great as mine was to him. He is married now, and I still hope that one day he will call me and ask to see me. It is unlikely to happen, but I will never give up hope. I will never stop loving him and remembering all the wonderful moments we had together. So, darling, believe me - you will never be able to forget your first love and sooner or later your paths will meet again - I wish you with all my heart. Good luck. I gave my life to save his. I'm sure it was the same on his part. We broke up because he had to choose between his parents and the ultimatum that his parents had given him. And he chose them. Maybe his love wasn't enough, maybe it wasn't as great as mine was to him. He is married now, and I still hope that one day he will call me and ask to see me. It is unlikely to happen, but I will never give up hope. I will never stop loving him and remembering all the wonderful moments we had together. So, darling, believe me - you will never be able to forget your first love and sooner or later your paths will come together again - I wish you with all my heart. Good luck. because he had to choose between his parents and the ultimatum his parents had given him. And he chose them. Maybe his love wasn't enough, maybe it wasn't as great as mine was to him. He is married now, and I still hope that one day he will call me and ask to see me. It is unlikely to happen, but I will never give up hope. I will never stop loving him and remembering all the wonderful moments we had together. So, darling, believe me - you will never be able to forget your first love and sooner or later your paths will meet again - I wish you with all my heart. Good luck. because he had to choose between his parents and the ultimatum his parents had given him. And he chose them. Maybe his love wasn't enough, maybe it wasn't as great as mine was to him. He is married now, and I still hope that one day he will call me and ask to see me. It is unlikely to happen, but I will never give up hope. I will never stop loving him and remembering all the wonderful moments we had together. So, darling, believe me - you will never be able to forget your first love and sooner or later your paths will meet again - I wish you with all my heart. Good luck. and I still hope that one day he will call me and ask to see me. It is unlikely to happen, but I will never give up hope. I will never stop loving him and remembering all the wonderful moments we had together. So, darling, believe me - you will never be able to forget your first love and sooner or later your paths will come together again - I wish you with all my heart. Good luck. and I still hope that one day he will call me and ask to see me. It is unlikely to happen, but I will never give up hope. I will never stop loving him and remembering all the wonderful moments we had together. So, darling, believe me - you will never be able to forget your first love and sooner or later your paths will come together again - I wish you with all my heart. Good luck.

   My story is such that madly in love at the age of 18 and first love lasted 7 years of torment, thousands of sections of compromises on my part and finally nothing sick unhappy and misunderstood. Again, alone in front of life with kidney disease, tumors gave me a period of 2-3 years to get pregnant, but he did not stop drinking and then began to shake and I went crazy. No father died, his mother and grandmother and I struggled with treatment and whatnot, but he deserves nothing. He took various women home, slept with them and I was treated badly, and when he became obsessed he begged me to forgive him. Everything was nasty brutal and abnormal, but I loved him and forgave him, now I decided not to listen to my heart and this man has nothing to offer my mind, he doesn't know what a job is and while his mother is there, he won't be okay.

   My first love was Rosenchno, now he is very nasty and I don't like him anymore

   Hello, as we talked about 'first love', I will share my experiences and confused thoughts. I was very young - at 14, when I first fell in love for real and decided that this was obviously my first love. But it turned out that my first love came 2 years later: the feeling was different, more mature ... The first thing I should note is that we never went with him ... From the very beginning when we met we were interesting, but then I gave it to the hormones and decided it was like the hobbies that come and go in 2 weeks. I had no idea how wrong I was. A month after we met, he found a girlfriend, but he didn't stop looking for me ... not often, but in a week or two he called so as not to lose touch. I remember what he said to me on my 17th birthday about some stupid and joking statement on my part: "It's true, my coals are still smoldering ..." That was the moment I realized that he REALLY cared about him. . A few months later, completely imperceptibly, we started talking more often, seeing each other more often ... getting closer. One night we wrote to each other late, because I was extremely sad - I didn't understand this behavior - to show that he wanted me, but to continue to be with another ... Another memorable statement: "It may be good now, but there is something that I tried it once, a long time ago, and I can't forget it. " When we saw each other, she was incredibly nice, she did everything to make me feel special and unique. If we happened to pull over, he would send the nicest conciliatory text messages possible. However, 2-3 months have passed, in which we remained in the phase of explanations in love. I decided that there was no point in continuing like this and we just cut off contact. My biggest mistake was that I didn't tell him how much I loved him, and he never understood. He was going to live abroad and we last saw each other a few months before - no one had looked at me with so much love, I can't even describe him - maybe it was as if he was looking at a favorite porcelain doll that he feared might it broke. I, meanwhile, had started a relationship with a mutual acquaintance who ... well, he was aware. I did not have the courage to tell him and so far I am sorry. I guess when he found out about my relationship, he felt betrayed. I talked to him a few months after he left, and then all I got was, "I have unfounded reasons not to talk to you, but know that if you ever need help, that he loves me (it has happened 3 times, and he is not one of those people who say it just like that) and is honest in his actions, is it possible that he doesn't remember my name now? I would do anything to know what he thinks. One thing is for sure - he was very injured, me too - what is the point? After every relationship, I wonder why I should start at all when I know that it will end, even if I'm not really attached, it still hurts, because I have to eradicate the habit. And I won't find another until I AT LEAST tell him what it was then and what it is now, with no hope of anything happening. Maybe the truth is that I just need this love. I love her. I can't let her go. It's been so long and things are the same for me. First love is not forgotten, and according to my observations, most people are inclined to compromise as far as it is concerned. and he is not one of those people who say it just like that) and sincere in his actions, is it possible that he does not remember my name now? I would do anything to know what he thinks. One thing is for sure - he was very injured, me too - what is the point? After every relationship, I wonder why I should start at all when I know that it will end, even if I'm not really attached, it still hurts, because I have to eradicate the habit. And I won't find another until I AT LEAST tell him what it was then and what it is now, with no hope of anything happening. Maybe the truth is that I just need this love. I love her. I can't let her go. It's been so long and things are the same for me. First love is not forgotten, and according to my observations, most people are inclined to compromise as far as it is concerned. and he is not one of those people who say it just like that) and sincere in his actions, is it possible that he does not remember my name now? I would do anything to know what he thinks. One thing is for sure - he was very injured, me too - what is the point? After every relationship, I wonder why I should start at all when I know that it will end, even if I'm not really attached, it still hurts, because I have to eradicate the habit. And I won't find another until I AT LEAST tell him what it was then and what it is now, with no hope of anything happening. Maybe the truth is that I just need this love. I love her. I can't let her go. It's been so long and things are the same for me. First love is not forgotten, and according to my observations, most people are inclined to compromise as far as it is concerned. is it possible that he doesn't remember my name now? I would do anything to know what he thinks. One thing is for sure - he was very injured, me too - what is the point? After every relationship, I wonder why I should start at all when I know that it will end, even if I'm not really attached, it still hurts, because I have to eradicate the habit. And I won't find another until I AT LEAST tell him what it was then and what it is now, with no hope of anything happening. Maybe the truth is that I just need this love. I love her. I can't let her go. It's been so long and things are the same for me. First love is not forgotten, and according to my observations, most people are inclined to compromise as far as it is concerned. is it possible that he doesn't remember my name now? I would do anything to know what he thinks. One thing is for sure - he was very injured, me too - what is the point? After every relationship, I wonder why I should start at all when I know that it will end, even if I'm not really attached, it still hurts, because I have to eradicate the habit. And I won't find another until I AT LEAST tell him what it was then and what it is now, with no hope of anything happening. Maybe the truth is that I just need this love. I love her. I can't let her go. It's been so long and things are the same for me. First love is not forgotten, and according to my observations, most people are inclined to compromise as far as it is concerned. me too - so what's the point? After every relationship, I wonder why I should start at all when I know that it will end, even if I'm not really attached, it still hurts, because I have to eradicate the habit. And I won't find another until I AT LEAST tell him what it was then and what it is now, with no hope of anything happening. Maybe the truth is that I just need this love. I love her. I can't let her go. It's been so long and things are the same for me. First love is not forgotten, and according to my observations, most people are inclined to compromise as far as it is concerned. me too - so what's the point? After every relationship, I wonder why I should start at all when I know that it will end, even if I'm not really attached, it still hurts, because I have to eradicate the habit. And I won't find another until I AT LEAST tell him what it was then and what it is now, with no hope of anything happening. Maybe the truth is that I just need this love. I love her. I can't let her go. It's been so long and things are the same for me. First love is not forgotten, and according to my observations, most people are inclined to compromise as far as it is concerned. until I AT LEAST told him what it was then and what it is now, with no hope of anything happening. Maybe the truth is that I just need this love. I love her. I can't let her go. It's been so long and things are the same for me. First love is not forgotten, and according to my observations, most people are inclined to compromise as far as it is concerned. until I AT LEAST told him what it was then and what it is now, with no hope of anything happening. Maybe the truth is that I just need this love. I love her. I can't let her go. It's been so long and things are the same for me. First love is not forgotten, and according to my observations, most people are inclined to compromise as far as it is concerned.

   Number 12 - go to him and tell him everything! You have a chance and you should NOT miss it! You will always love him, be sure of that ... So just do it, you have nothing to lose, and you can gain something real and priceless. He will forgive you whatever you have done, and you will be together when you both want it! So just do it before it's too late !!!

   I decided to dig a little tonight in the vast internet space and came across this not accidentally I was overwhelmed by a feeling unusual for a cheerful person, this feeling is sadness. Sadness, because I remembered past moments of my life I want to help this girl by writing my personal story some time ago I fell in love with a girl then we broke up for reasons beyond our control after a while fate or life as you want to call us met again I talked to me we were both already engaged with other people but we decided and I risked we dumped everything and everyone and got together again no matter how funny it sounds to you it was so difficult for us but in the end as we put aside the separations we left now we are very happy and we will stay forever believe me.

   Yes, the first love is not forgotten - this is a fact and we almost always compare the next relationships with the first thrill of love. We can never forget the boy who is waiting for us in the school yard with a flower in his hand for no reason, makes us laugh and shows us what it means to give and receive. This is the boy whose picture we will always keep - somewhere hidden in a secret place. In our next relationships, things just repeat themselves - love, arguments, quarrels and the END, but this will be a repetition. We have to overcome this cutie, stop thinking about what would happen if we were with him now. Few people have stayed with their first love forever and started a family, even they have had periods in which they have been separated and have been with others and as if they were not happy they have reunited, but they tried and realized that no one could love them like the boy in the school yard. You will never know if a person is right for you if you have no one to compare him to. First, second, third ... and so you can already say - YES he loves me the most. Don't think about who the man in your life is - think about who loves you the most and who makes you happy. RISK TO WIN !!!

   REALLY THE FIRST LOVE IS NOT FORGOTTEN EASILY IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO FORGET TO FORGET A PERSON WHO LOVED YOU SO MUCH, YOU HAD HIS TRUST BUT LIKE THAT !!

   This also happens to me, but I hope I don't regret my choice, so go ahead and don't regret anything.

   Strength, beauty and ... no regrets! The world is pain, sorrow and destruction. It is up to us whether we will change it, because we have made it so, and for this we must move forward!

   It is very important to consider how you would live with a man in everyday life. If you clearly consider that your current partner does not give you everything and that you suffer from his coldness, it is better to radically resolve the issue now. It is unlikely to change in the future. After all, since you have not lived under one roof with your first fiery love, you can hardly be absolutely sure that with him everything would be perfect in life. Do not bet too much on it, be careful, reasonable. I had to choose between two. I wandered to both extremes, lying to both of them for a while. And what made me decide the way in which each of them made me feel. Each person is unique - even if they tell you the same thing, behave in the same way, inside something tells you that one of them is more special, more real, there is no falsehood, no hidden thoughts. Here's what you need to consider. Which of the two affects you? With whom you have no reservations, with whom you feel more yourself. Otherwise, you are right about one thing - do not start your life in a lie, you will hurt not only the other, but also yourself. You will not be happy. Maybe you really need to listen to your heart. Only it makes us happy.

   I think that once you have the opportunity to be together and he loves you, you should still be together, if you get married, these doubts will haunt you. What is important is what is in the soul, and your soul is not dead and your heart and thoughts are elsewhere. I have experienced something similar and I understand you, at the moment I am alone and I feel very calm, I make sense and outlive things. It's different with you, you can be with this person and you love each other for me, this is true love and let it go. This is my opinion, and your destiny is in your hands.

   Hello from me! I am now 27 years old. married for 5 years but we still don't have children. My first love is far crazier. We met by chance, I was 18, he was 17 and everything caught fire. Coincidentally, everyone went their separate ways without even saying goodbye. Do you believe me that during these 8 years in which we haven't even seen each other, there hasn't been a day in which I haven't even thought about him. But it so happened that I got married thinking that maybe my husband would make me forget everything. In the days when I was left alone with my thoughts, I always wanted to write him something "how are you?" or whatever kept stopping me, and after much thought I erased what was written and tried to forget. And so after 8 years. I wrote two lines and as every time I wanted to delete it, but this time I unwittingly clicked "send" and started saying "what did you do" and so on. And won't you in a minute I receive a letter I look with my mouth open and I do not believe. Then a writing started and now I don't know what to do like you. To choose the zoom or where the heart leads. Although my husband is very kind to me and may not deserve such a thing, I don't think it's a coincidence. Tell me what to do I'm very confused. Greetings to all who have the courage to admit!

   Hello, after two years of relationship and plans for living together, my friend dumped me because of his first love :( I want to ask if this seems normal to you and only I think it is very low and crazy? For me, this love is so long ago experienced and you should not always look back to look for it, but to move forward

   Ah, how it reminds me of my story. I'm only 19 and I can't say if you'll forget your first love, but although separated by a year and a half or more, I haven't stopped thinking about him for a day. We had incredible, all-consuming love, we did everything for each other and I can never imagine that it is possible for someone else to treat me the same way and love someone else like that. But people change, he becomes soulless to me and just so I don't bother him with remarks about how hard it is for me and I love him, he told me how he doesn't care how I feel and doesn't want to bother him with my feelings so that he can to move forward. It taught me that people change, you don't have to regret breaking up, because you never know how things will turn out and the best, what you can do is make your relationship with him clear, because my ex-boyfriend kept calling me just when I stopped thinking about him for at least a little bit, and so on for more than a year. I wish you success, but whatever is written will happen. Everything is for the better.

   I'm a boy. To start with, they may have drunk it. You may all be ladies here. Taaaaa and with us mom4etata is so there is a first love. of course when you are kids everything is carefree. There are no restrictions and worries. But with us men, things are different. Anyway, I will talk about myself personally. I'm a nice boy. At the age of 23 I have an education, I have been playing foam since I was 4 years old, I work as a steward and I study to be a pilot. Yeah, I'm busy. The point is that I meet all the criteria .... I tried very hard for that. Do you know what is the worst thing you can do to a man ... To tell him that someone else is better at something or for him to see that you are thinking about another. We all feel it. But we are warriors by nature and we swallow. I will tell you. My friend is pregnant, she is 19. We made the baby on purpose. Don't stop talking to me about her first one. There's nothing duller than that. Anyway, I love you. Stoically endured humiliations and abuses. I have surrounded her with all the love and care of the world. I actually overdid it. But I know exactly what I want and I'm fighting for it. But alas ... Another day we go for an abortion. I cover everything and the sin and guilt for this murder I don't want. The reason is that she was not in love with me ... In a sense, she is not in love with someone else, which irritates me even more. She was looking to fall in love. Well ladies let me tell you something. This is lovingly only in childhood and should stay there. Beauty house does not hurt the same if you have heard. It's easy for you women. You just need some to love you and scratch your vanity. It must support you and be well received in society. All that is required of you is to be faithful, to hold on to the person, to support him and, above all, to take care of his health and not to burden him with undue stress, which is enough for his work. I am referring with the latter to any old love and so on. A man must hear that he is the best and there has been no one better than him. Hell sometimes the past tries to catch up with us, yes. But don't forget we live in the here and now. And the idea is to strive tomorrow to still be with the person we are with today, not yesterday to try to happen today. This is impossible. Appreciate what you have and never lose. And enjoy what you had. Some did not have that either. Don't forget today so you don't shit tomorrow. Cheers to all :) And the idea is to strive tomorrow to still be with the person we are with today, not yesterday to try to happen today. This is impossible. Appreciate what you have and never lose. And enjoy what you had. Some did not have that either. Don't forget today so you don't shit tomorrow. Cheers to all :) And the idea is to strive tomorrow to still be with the person we are with today, not yesterday to try to happen today. This is impossible. Appreciate what you have and never lose. And enjoy what you had. Some did not have that either. Don't forget today so you don't shit tomorrow. Cheers to all :)

   What can I tell you boy, I was dumped by a man after 3 years of relationship, because of my first love, so do not turn only to women :) Turn to people in general, whether you are a man or a woman if you can not move forward, the past always It will pull you back. Everyone remembers their first love, but it is the past and must remain there in the past. As for the fact that everyone should feel unique and irreplaceable, I agree with you :) there are no two opinions on this issue, so dear boy, if someone compares you with another, better alone than in bad company :))) Do not be angry , every evil for good people have said, you will meet a man for whom you will be the only one. :)

   I would also like to share a sacred story about the first and only love! I was also his first love. Our relationship was very beautiful, we loved each other very much, we died for each other. We were together for 3 years and then he went to specialize abroad for a year, just before he left his family had a tragedy. We talked and wrote for a whole year, but somehow I felt that he had changed! At the end of the year, I learned that he had decided to stay in the country where he specialized (Argentina). He wanted to take me there, but he didn't have a job, he hadn't settled, etc. or so he told me. We wrote each other a few letters afterwards, his were very kind, very much in love! But in the end I couldn't stand it, he didn't call me at all and his letters were few. All this turned into a nightmare for me, which continues today 20 years later. I just couldn't forget him, I dated other men, I had a lot of relationships, I was loved, but I thought about him every day. I was so desperate that I didn't know what to do to forget it. 4 years later I met my future husband. It was then that I realized that my first love was marrying an Argentine and having a child. At the same time, my husband and I were getting married. I cried the night before the wedding because I kept thinking about my first love. My husband is a very good man, he has flaws (who doesn't), but he is good. I love him very much, but I kept thinking about my first one. So one day I decided to find him. He behaved very kindly until he realized that I had a son and a husband. And I told him directly that I just wanted to be friends because I had a hard time separating. From that moment on, he began to behave strangely. We chatted, but I sensed a contradiction in him. When I shared things about my husband (I only said good things about him), he seemed to pull away and stop writing to me. This lasted a year. I kept thinking about him, about how I can't forget him, but I didn't tell him, I just told him how much I had suffered for him. At one point, I realized that I had to demonstrate that I had experienced it, that I had stopped thinking about these things, and the man I could not forget began to behave quite coldly and stopped writing to me. Then my husband and I decided to have a second child, many months passed, and I wanted to continue my life. And my husband insisted that we have a child, and I was already old. Just when I got pregnant we met again with my first love and I told him. He disappeared for about a year and then contacted me to tell me that she had a second child! And so to this day we write to each other once or twice a year. I am very confused because I cannot forget this person for so many years. He doesn't say anything about these things, he is silent, but as if he is looking for contact with me! I know that we will not have a second chance, I will not leave my children and my husband for anything in the world, nor will he leave his family. But the fact that I can't forget it for 20 years is very, very confusing for me! Is it possible to succeed and how? nor did he his family. But the fact that I can't forget it for 20 years is very, very confusing for me! Is it possible to succeed and how? nor did he his family. But the fact that I can't forget it for 20 years is very, very confusing for me! Is it possible to succeed and how?

   How to forget the first love Just find your second and forget the first

   Hi, I'm a girl and I want to share. My first love was burning. We were together for only 6 months, after which we parted, burned by our love, each in his own way. This was the girl I loved very much, I fell in love for the first time. I suffered a lot for her and I will never forget her, even though she is younger now. After this love - the first I met my true love. We met her when the ground was frozen, we gradually became very close. I sent her to them, she came to us. I allowed her to myself a lot until I forgot, I really loved her. We were making plans for a family of children, I forgot to mention when I met her I was 19. And so we had a lot of beautiful moments, I gave a lot of love, she loved me a lot, I got along with theirs, but we were often in us. We made a lot of compromises with each other and we both made mistakes. Exactly 2 years later we broke up, a year has passed since then and I still remember her, we happen to meet on the street, I passed her I have no reason to talk to her. I left her because she cheated on me. And so soon I met another girl with whom we were in love for an period of 1 year, just a habit there was nothing new and I decided it didn't make sense. Do not be angry, your destiny is destiny, it meets us and separates us from people, at certain moments. We must enjoy the thought of the unknown of what lies ahead, destiny must meet us with this person. And so I soon met another girl with whom we were in love for a period of 1 year, just a habit there was nothing new and I decided it didn't make sense. Do not be angry, your destiny is destiny, it meets us and separates us from people, at certain moments. We must enjoy the thought of the unknown of what lies ahead, destiny must meet us with this person. Believe there is destiny. And so soon I met another girl with whom we were in love for an period of 1 year, just a habit there was nothing new and I decided it didn't make sense. Do not be angry, destiny is destiny, it meets us and divides us with people, at certain moments. We must enjoy the thought of the unknown of what lies ahead, destiny must meet us with this person. Believe there is destiny.

   I met a man about 8 months ago. At first I didn't feel anything for him when I met him and fell in love and realized that he loved me too. It was too late to experience our love. He lives in France and I live in Bulgaria. Please give me advice on how to act and forget it or at least stop the pain.

   ......All the lonely people, where do they all belong?........

   Hello ! I'm a 19-year-old girl. Now I will share with you my identity. I have known the boy in question for almost 4 years. My best friend was in his class. So 4 years ago I did a favor to this man, but I never imagined that one day fate would bring us together. I do not know how many of you believe in God and I am not one of the many believers, but this year shortly before the summer I went to church in St. Mina there is an icon, which when you touch it and wish something it comes true. Then I wanted to find someone who understood me, who would make me feel special ... Well, won't things happen in the last way. The boy I had known for 4 years happened to be a guest of my best friend, and a few days before he started to take an interest in me, he had broken up with his longtime girlfriend. When I first saw him, I do not deny that he is really beautiful and a good boy. I had a wonderful summer with him .. and the day before I had a wonderful birthday .. I don't know, for me this is my first love, but since we broke up with him I don't stop thinking about the net .. After 2 months he has a wonderful relationship returned to his ex-girlfriend, with the crowning excuse: You're not for me, such a good man .. you don't deserve me..Everything reminds me of him .. I haven't been with him for about 2 months, but he made me feel special..I passed time and I don't stop thinking about him .. everything reminds me of him..really the feeling is unique .. I had a relationship for a year and a half with a boy I didn't cry alone and I didn't suffer so much for him, as I now suffer and grieve for this boy .. I do not know what to do really alone very confused .. He's looking for me even though he's still with his ... he's doing some ambiguous things I can't understand. please someone if you can help me let him write to my e-mail .. Is this my first love or is it just the first person who made me feel special..the story is very long I said a small part of it ..

   I feel the same and I'm super sick because I LOVE my current boyfriend and I'm dumb that I think of someone else I want to forget him but I can't ....

   Good evening, I can't say that this boy was your first love, but the fact is that he left a lasting mark on your life, therefore, he impressed you in some unusual way, which made you remember this! I can hardly help you with advice, but when a pain is shared, it becomes half the pain. I had told myself that I would not write more stories on this topic on this page, but this story that you told is very close to mine and that made me comment on what happened! Somehow it's not like a man silent to give you advice, because I'm 18, I'll still tell him, call him and fight for this boy, even as friends, just stay that way, don't break up, don't break the relationship that there was between you !!! Turn your back on all the views and opinions of others !!! I don't know, it's up to you, but this is my opinion! I commented on this message of yours, because I realized that you are aware and you are a great person .. Success in the endeavors, God forbid, things do not develop the way you want, raise your head and move on !!! And know that always in life the clever gives way and is always ready to compromise for his coexistence !! I will be happy to find out the outcome of the events around you, even in the mail or somewhere on a page like Facebook or Skype !!! I hope I was a little helpful !!! Good evening and success in the endeavors !!! Happy Holidays!! I will be happy to find out the outcome of the events around you, even in the mail or somewhere on a page like Facebook or Skype !!! I hope I was a little helpful !!! Good evening and success in the endeavors !!! Happy Holidays!! I will be happy to find out the outcome of the events around you, even in the mail or somewhere on a page like Facebook or Skype !!! I hope I was a little helpful !!! Good evening and success in the endeavors !!! Happy Holidays!!

   First love cannot be completely forgotten. However, if there was only the first, but not the last, then there was a reason. As far as I understand, you have not come across an insensitive person, but only one who does not have a good command of "demonstrating feelings". Therefore, I advise you to continue with the man to himself, and from the first love keep only the good things. by The Free

   Thanks sincerely for the advice .. really, these days happened fosta strange things, I will hope the little boy will give me some coordinates to maintain a relationship .. :) I will be very happy :) Happy holidays, although when you are alone on such days it is not very fun :)

   It is true that the first love cannot be completely forgotten, but it is also true that if it is not the last, there are reasons for it. I had a three-year relationship after I was told, just like you, that I was too good for him, that he wasn't for me, and a bunch of other nonsense to go back to my ex-girlfriend, "big love." It wasn't long before they broke up again, he immediately tried to get together, but I didn't see the point in that, although I still loved him very much. I had no guarantee that he wouldn't want to go back to her tomorrow. It can happen to you in the same way, the moment will come when they will realize that they really are not for each other and will immediately ask to be with you again. Whether to fight for it or to fight with yourself is up to you, but I don't think you deserve a man who gets away with such ridiculous excuses. It will hurt you, it will hurt you, and just when you least expect it, you will meet a person with whom you will be much better and you will wonder why all these tears were. Time will pass and you will remember it without feeling pain, I wish you this soon.

   The saddest thing is dear people, when you have to choose between your great love and everything else..Then when in order to have the person next to you you have to give up everything else..and the most wonderful parents (who live in difficult conditions) and in poor health ..) .. to be far from friends ... or if you do not give up on them, then at least to be far from all of them, 99% of which it turns out that they do not support or understand you ... it's sad when you're in the middle ... it's sad that they reject your love..because it was wrong and abnormal (because of the age difference) ... It's sad to know that whichever way you choose you will feel unhappy. I guess time heals ... I didn't choose love..and now I'm enjoying the sun ... That't the life

   I am divorced with 2 children. 5 years ago I went abroad. there I met a person with whom I lived for 4 years. he adored my children and me. our relationship was amazing. but worse circumstances I had to go home. he promised that after the New Year holidays will come to live together, but after the holidays he told me he can't. many times I say to myself the end of life goes on, but he calls me twice a week and tells me how much he loves me. it may not be my first love, but maybe is my true love. I don't know what to do? I realize that I may not see him again, but I can't forget him. I stopped going out, to communicate with acquaintances. I don't have the mood for anything. to continue as I want it, and he does not let me forget it. people it is easy to give advice-forget it life goes on, but when you love it falls apart.

   If your relationship had lasted more than two years, if you had married and started a family ... you wouldn't think that way now. All the thrills would be gone for a long time and your first love would be just a fleeting memory. Only this unrealized love remains eternal, because time has not had the opportunity to suppress it, to take it away from you and turn it into something else, as it happened with your current relationship. The nostalgia for love will haunt you because you miss you what you don't have at the moment. However, such a moment always occurs, it is simply inevitable. If this feeling is still alive in you, do not oppose it, give it a chance and do not miss the moment, because you will never know if you did the right thing and if fate will give you another chance. There is no eternal love, but we can experience it and enjoy it when it is with us.

   Great love is really not forgotten ... But it does not stay forever.

   On the contrary, the first love is forgotten. After each subsequent love is like the first as long as you find the person you like and you are cool with him. My 100 of Love is like the first because mature is the best love dear she has mind and heart. So think!

   I'm 15 years old and I want advice about a boy my age. This love is a children's story, but it's a problem for me. I think about this boy all the time and this has been happening for many months. It bothers me a lot that we don't write to each other at all and we rarely say hello. He is already living another life, he has changed a lot, nothing interests him anymore. I know I'm small but it's really a problem for me. How to forget? :)

   Never, but never trust another as you do not trust your heart! Try first love, because first or not, when you still have feelings for him, do not be deceived into turning your back on the person you are constantly thinking about. There are no sinless people in this world, even if you make a mistake, and I don't believe so, at least you won't wonder all your life what would have happened .................. .................... experience love, otherwise you will regret remember ...

   First love is NEVER FORGOTTEN, but simply never, but only if it was really true love. I'm 40 years old now, a settled man, when I saw her after more than 25 years ... we only needed one look ... and it all started where it had stopped. We walked for 3 years as students .. we were inseparable, we were a whole two beings in one E ... we separated we didn't want to ... but as if we had to .. and everyone went on their harassed life path ... but I never forgot her as she me ... The heart deserves every exam ... don't forget ah god forbid

   "I'm confused, I want a child and a family with a lot of love, but I can't shake my memories. The man I'm living with right now is quite different. He's not as spontaneous as I am, he's more pragmatic, than romantic, and still can't get used to showing my love in a way that makes me feel happy without thinking of someone else.I love him very much and hold on to him, but the memories of who I am experienced before I was tortured, I have the feeling that no one can make me feel this way again.I don't want to regret my choice one day and my boyfriend wants me to marry him.Is it true that first love is not forgotten never and comparing it to every next one, people live a lifetime! ”And I feel exactly the same way. My friend wants children and marriage, we're even trying already, and I don't stop thinking about this man. We broke up with him 2 years ago, he even has another one and he doesn't remember me, but I never found another like him. I thought I forgot it, and I live in London - another world, another life! Recently, however, more and more memories flood me, especially since I came to Bulgaria for 2 months! I haven't seen him since our separation, because he's from another city. I had forgotten somehow, but a few months ago his father had died and he had told our mutual acquaintances to let me know. And somehow all of a sudden everything came up in front of me again and since then I can't get that thought out of my head - how could I allow myself to break up !!!! ??? I don't know how I will ever be happy? that I forgot it, and I live in London - another world, another life! Lately, however, I am more and more flooded with memories, especially since I came to Bulgaria for 2 months! I haven't seen him since our separation, because he's from another city. I had forgotten somehow, but a few months ago his father had died and he had told our mutual acquaintances to let me know. And somehow all of a sudden everything came up in front of me again and since then I can't get that thought out of my head - how could I allow myself to break up !!!! ??? I don't know how I will ever be happy? that I forgot it, and I live in London - another world, another life! Lately, however, I am more and more flooded with memories, especially since I came to Bulgaria for 2 months! I haven't seen him since our separation, because he's from another city. I had forgotten somehow, but a few months ago his father had died and he had told our mutual acquaintances to let me know. And somehow all of a sudden everything came up in front of me again and since then I can't get that thought out of my head - how could I allow myself to break up !!!! ??? I don't know how I will ever be happy? but a few months ago his father died, and he had told our common acquaintances to inform me. And somehow all of a sudden everything came up in front of me again and since then I can't get that thought out of my head - how could I allow myself to separate !!!! ??? I don't know how happy I will ever be? but a few months ago his father died, and he had told our common acquaintances to inform me. And somehow all of a sudden everything came up in front of me again and since then I can't get that thought out of my head - how could I allow myself to break up !!!! ??? I don't know how I will ever be happy?

   I don't know why, but I decided to share my story here. I have a wonderful family - 2 great children and a loving husband, I'm not complaining about anything, this is the man I want to be with and we love each other a lot, although of course we don't always agree. I wouldn't even think about parting - not a word! But there was a man in my life a long time ago (maybe 10 years) that I can't forget to this day. I feel something very special that I don't know if it's love, but this man affects me so much that when I see him (after our separation we talk), I tremble like a sheet of paper. It's hard to explain, and I don't think it's necessary, it can't be explained - my body just reacts. I saw him today - I define myself as a very calm and balanced person, but after seeing him, I fell into a state that is not inherent in me. I was shaking all over, I was with friends, they decided that something was wrong with me. They had never seen me like that, I myself was surprised that this man could still bring me to a similar state in 10 years. I'm very sad, I don't want to go back in time, I don't want to be with him - I really like my current life, but it's like I want to talk someday. Let's say a few words, but I can't. I'm scared. I don't even know why. It was a very ugly separation, not like normal adults are separated, we said a lot of ugly things to each other, we talked a lot of nonsense, we behaved terribly obscenely. I must miss that - something remained unfinished, unspoken, silent. He was left with the wrong impressions, I was left with a bad memory of the horrible separation. Things went so fast between us, there was a lot of love, a lot of passion, a lot of hatred at times, a lot of dynamism, a restless relationship filled with tension, insecurity and ... something else I can't explain. The thing that probably shook me today and will shake me every time I see him again or think of him. I don't want advice because I don't want to change anything, I just want to know why this is happening? !!

   hello, i decided to share my story too. I was only 15 years old when I met my great love. We were together for 7 years. I experienced the most wonderful and horrible moments with him. I forgave thousands of infidelities, and I did nonsense to get back. Over time, jealousy began to eat at me from within. I constantly harassed him, even when there was no reason. I realized that this relationship was hurting me, but I didn't have the strength to end it. I loved him more than myself. Until one day I decided I couldn't keep fighting for something that would never happen. I ended the relationship and with the idea that a wedge was killing a wedge, I embarked on a new relationship. Everything was magical, but after 3 months I started to lose interest, to such an extent that I hated the boy. So the scenario was repeated over and over again. And my first love never faded in my heart. We often tried to glue the broken but the traces remained. Now, 2 years after our separation and after another loss of interest, I am alone and tormented. I don't want to try again because I know it doesn't make sense. I don't want to start a new relationship either, but it's not a solution on my own. well now where ... The fear that I will never stop loving him eats me. The memories burn me and everything reminds me of him. Even separated, I was still ready to give my life for him, and that would hardly ever change. I'm sick ... I'm sick of love! If anyone knows a cure, let me know :) In love sopolanka: * .. The fear that I will never stop loving him eats me up. The memories burn me and everything reminds me of him. Even separated, I was still ready to give my life for him, and that would hardly ever change. I'm sick ... I'm sick of love! If anyone knows a cure, let me know :) In love sopolanka: * .. The fear that I will never stop loving him eats me up. The memories burn me and everything reminds me of him. Even separated, I was still ready to give my life for him, and that would hardly ever change. I'm sick ... I'm sick of love! If anyone knows a cure, let me know :) In love sopolanka: *

   If you believe in love, listen to your heart. If you are looking for security, stay where you are. B.K.

   At least you have experienced your first love, even a little. Mine is unshared and will probably stay that way. I have not experienced a drop of my first love. He doesn't look at me. I have been experiencing these feelings for 4 years. Its terrible.

   Unrequited love hurts the most. I know it from personal experience. My first and current love are like that. Between them I have a few more crazy loves and still married with children. I have two wonderful boys conceived by a husband I have never loved and soon after the wedding was a divorce. Now I seem to be chasing the wind. Is God sinless? Shouldn't there have been mutual attraction? Why does a dog always chase a cat and a cat chases a mouse? In my 36 years, out of about 20 falls in love, only once did I feel that love is mutual, and with a boy 14 years younger than me. Again inappropriate !!!