How to forget the past and how to wash away the pain? How do you swallow the bitterness and all the pain they have caused you? How to forget lies and tears. How can I not pay attention to all the wasted nerves, sleepless nights, hysteria, crying ... How can the past not haunt me and start fresh? To give him a new chance and to believe in him. How do you look into the eyes that have lied to you and disappointed you, mocked you, without a drop of hatred? I'm not strong enough to forgive or forget ... I love him more than you can imagine and I've always been ready for anything for him, but how can it not hurt me after all he has done to me? I have also tried to give it back to him, but I am not relieved by the pain of his actions ...
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What has he done so much, why don't you forgive him?
Really, what did he do?
He probably cheated on you, he's neither the first nor the last to tell you. And yet life goes on. And know that there is a reason for everything, whatever it may be. If the person is worth it, sit down, talk and move on. If not - cut and continue.
He cheated and, she caught him (several times), he continued to lie (several times). And she's still a hookah (she doesn't know yet). And so it will be until she decides to do something (hopefully, but not at all). I think that exhausts the story. Something else?
He convinced me while we were together that his exes and everyone else were strangers to him and meant nothing. We parted, which he decided, and I cried and prayed to him for a long time, but he behaved disgustingly, arrogantly, swearing, insulting, turning off his phones. The moment I left him alone, he was gone. He was just playing with me and swearing to me that he had nothing to do with anyone else and that he just couldn't waste his nerves on nonsense anymore. After our separation, he looked for all his exes, even some he had seen, all the girls I had fought with and cursed and fought over because of him. After our great love, he ran away like a puppy to them and pushed himself on each one ... Expose me to everyone. And nai - the killer never admitted it first :)
He must have killed you in order to provoke the reaction you are writing about ... But if that were the case, who would have written these lines ?!
Hello, It is impossible to forget, and the pain only dulls and mutates. I do not know a method of counteracting the bitterness and nightmare of thoughts - and this is for me the pain of the soul, and it is incurable. Lies come back like a boomerang and remind you how naive and blind you were. Their meaning is only on you and your soul - it was your reality and you acted according to your understandings at that moment. From the past - there is no possibility - it is already part of your present and future. You have to suppress it. Clearly - if you can erase the pictures from your head. I don't know how to achieve this. I fail to achieve it. A new chance - but only if it would help you. When you look not in, but behind the eyes. Or when you also become a hypocrite. Yes - we are not all that strong and we suffer because of that, but the problem is only in us and in the exact way we perceive things. That's why it hurts so much - you let someone too close to your soul and the pain of the injury is terrible. Yes - it does not soften, because you know how you perceive his motives and his way of thinking. And they do not match yours. He. 45
Nobody is irreplaceable. And when the next one appears, then you will be blamed for what a fool you were to suffer for a person who does not deserve it ...
I don't know what to say about it, you seem to be hurt a lot, but you haven't described what he actually built for you anyway. But one piece of advice from me, once he has done so much to you, will do it again, once he lies to you, it will happen again, why don't you look for someone serious instead of tormenting yourself and thinking about the one who hurt you. Life is such a reconciliation, there are different ones, don't bother, don't forget that after winter comes spring and the sun will rise, which will warm your heart !!! Emmy :)
If you have decided to put an end to this, you must know that the past cannot and must not be forgotten. Accept it and learn from what happened to you.
You're 15, aren't you? You can't even write correctly. Tighten up and live your life. The fact that he is a whore and has no principles is his problem. Tighten up and live your life and don't give in to anyone you fall for. For beating other girls and swearing, just forget it. Learn to be a lady and know your price. You fell at his feet with this nonsense. How do you want him to appreciate and respect you when you yourself do not respect yourself?
The past does not return, it is only swallowed ...
I'm 19, no big difference, but still. I'm sorry for some mistakes, but I just don't have Cyrillic on my laptop and I'm translating the text into a site. On the subject, I have been living without my parents since I was a child, they are abroad and I never adapted there. I decided to spend a few more years here, then settle there. He appeared in my life (4 years ago) and became my family. I have never opened up to people and I have not allowed them so close, I did it with him and I regretted it several times, but I did not stop going back to him. I hurt him too, but not as much as he hurt me. He even allowed himself to touch me. He always took things very seriously, and his justification for everything is: You pushed me to this with your eternal reproaches. You pushed me away, but I can't live without you and I want everything between us to be fine. I've been on the pill for months because of him, and I don't know how to overcome his stupid actions and forgive him. That is why I am consulting with you. My sincere thanks to everyone who tried to help me.
Old wine is not poured into new skins !!! Therefore - as long as you are with him there will be a past, there will be all the slop he carries. Come on, please, there is no forgiveness for crushing you!