Hello! I've been liking a boy for 5 years and I'm just ashamed of him, but at the same time I like him a lot. He is 2 years older than me and we play folk dances together. Sometimes our eyes meet and sometimes he looks at me. We never said hello or anything. The strange thing was that even when we weren't seeing each other, I still liked him. I started dreaming about it and probably more than 10 times. I dream that I want to tell him something, but I can't, I want to talk to him, but I can't. Some time ago we had a dance performance and he was standing alone, I was standing alone and we didn't say anything. We play next to each other and I'm ashamed to even look at him. We are quite similar. We are both often late, we are funny, worried, interesting, clean ... I can't talk to him because I'm ashamed and because I think he won't want to talk to me. He is in 10th grade and I know the girls in his class, they are quite nice and so much stronger and he will hardly want to deal with me. I would like advice and opinion on the matter and THANK YOU!
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I have been in a similar situation and I will tell you that it would be better to talk to him. It's possible that you're both attracted to each other, and if you don't want to miss your chance, talk to him. Start by saying hello. Say hello to him when you get caught somewhere. Ask him something. For example, something like "How are you?" or write to him if you have his facebook. Take small steps forward. Take an interest in him. I understand that you are ashamed, but it will not happen if you do not act. You need to gain confidence and have self-confidence. I wish you luck!
Just talk to him after the dance. Ask him if he can help you with something, even though it sounds pretty weird, come on, you're not losing anything. For example, when he goes to help you, you decide what, maybe some movement or for something completely different, ask him how they are, the conversation will start. Go boldly. Good luck! DefendSofia
I was in a similar situation. My advice to you is to take the step. Talk to him, greet him, ask him something about common acquaintances, for example, and then start a topic of conversation. The most important thing is to be yourself and not overplay, because it will be felt. Life is too short to wait and hope for vain hopes. When you want something you have to do everything possible to get it. And if it doesn't work out, then this person is not for you and you move on. Remember that time does not wait ... do not waste so much time on vain hopes and standing idly by. Girl, it's been 5 years. In time, you will regret wasting that time dreaming of a boy. You better do something to make sure you at least tried, because in time there will always be a "if I had done something, could something have happened".
Thank you very much. It's hard for me to talk about it because something is stopping me and it's just quite difficult, but I'll try.