Hi I want to share my story and if anyone can give me some advice. I am 17 years old and he is 32 years old. We had a relationship and lived together for 2 years. Whenever we fought, I left. We went through a lot of difficulties, we forgave each other for infidelity, the last time we quarreled, he begged me to come back to him, and I pretended to be interesting. Then he got tired and told me to stay friends. I then realized that I had lost him and I began to pray to him. It has become very difficult and complicated, we are already separated by 4 months, and we hear and write to each other every day. I want to be with him, but it's very difficult. I'm still not indifferent to him, but we're starting to talk. What to do? Give me some advice if you can
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Emmy, you better not get together. Here they will write to you about the difference in your age and blah blah, but I don't think that's the reason (I'm talking from my own experience). You just didn't fit in as a person, your relationship is over and you know it, but you're not the woman for him, and he's not the man for you. He is not old. At your age, I also had a relationship with a 33-year-old man and with us, at least in part, circumstances separated us (my studies far away), I felt that he was cheating on me with my best friend, but he denied .... and because he was very faithful Luff for my ex-girlfriends "Read newspaper is not re-read" I did the same with him - he chases me and even falls to his knees in a pastry shop, but I never looked back and it was very good. (I was already almost 20 years old then and for almost 4 years with him) Only two weeks later I met the love of my life, with whom we have been together for more than 10 years, have a family and go through all sorts of difficulties. But if I hadn't gotten rid of the wrong partner then, how would all this have happened to me? ... and I know he's not that old, because my husband was 40 when we met (or about 7 years older than my first friend!) I just know what I want - I don't like young people, I do not tolerate and do not tolerate lies and deception (infidelity is not in itself for me, but to look you in the eye and deny ...), AND MOSTLY I CAN'T BEAR I AM UNHAPPY. I can also be happy on my own. Why ruin my life with a man? Tip - do not do nonsense. Your relationship is over, and pay attention to yourself and the important things in life - education, for example. This man will not make you happy, simply because he has not made you until now. You will just waste more years, vital energy for nonsense, and you will waste his time. .... what happened to my first friend? Well, he quickly took pity on me and married my girlfriend (and his mistress all the time). They divorced two years later. The whole town knows that she had abortions from him as a student and could not have children. He also has no children and no one will be attached to him because he took his first bride to live with his despotic mother (we are from a rural, small town), and he got a pretty bad name because of other things because he is getting old ( over 40 is already), and his taste for 16 -17 year olds remained, but they have no taste for him, because he always looked awful, but at least he was younger before. What would my life be like, if I hadn't broken up with this person then - JUST ONE AD. He never allowed his wife to study in Sofia and she still does not know what she does, but she is in town and lives the same boring and stupid life.
Pedophilia is a bad thing.
To number 2: you are extremely right. The author should not go out with such adults, because she is young and she needs someone her age to have fun with, not some grandfather.