Hello, I want to say my pain for a friend and I hope someone will advise me. She is a 20-strong man, but at one point she turned out to be addicted to nasty drugs because of a man who didn't deserve it. She wanted to help him get rid of the drugs, but he "obsessed" her and now she's shaking even though she denies it. This has been going on for a long time and here comes the even worse that her mother has understood and begs me and my friends to stop scratching her because it could get the worst. But how do you stop a person who doesn't even listen to his mother She doesn't listen to anyone. I want to help her because a lot of people have left because of drugs and I won't beg for it if I lose her. If you are in the same situation-please-give me advice!
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And I have a girlfriend who's that age and she's shaking too, so what? How to help her? I'm sorry, but she's 20 years old and she should have learned to make her own decisions. And what kind of mother is hers who knows that her child is shaking and doing nothing, but makes her friends help her, huh? And I want to help my girlfriend, but I don't know how, there's no point in telling her parents.
First of all, for this problem, whether you are 20 or 30, it doesn't matter if you fall into the clutches, it is difficult to get rid of it and it is not as easy at all as someone thinks they even blame, I am referring to the opinion before me. Such a person does not listen to anyone, no mother no father no friends if you are shaken by addiction, whatever he promises is not true and it is not because he does not want to, but because he can not, understand it and do not allow relatives and friends to reach there, ao find out, at an early stage is much easier. First, this drug must be replaced with something, tell the mother not to get caught by various doctors who want money for pills that will replace the drug and help to give up, it is complete nonsense to lose money, The only salvation is the methadone program where, by the way, it is quite difficult to hurt a person and unfortunately it is paid again (we already owe this to our dear homeland which does not care for its young because it is a sin to take money for such treatment, this is my opinion). She will feel much better with methadone, but then this girl should be constantly busy with something and not think about the old things, work, a new company of people who have ambitions to do something with their lives, to she does sports, just being busy, you know, this is very important, friends can help a lot here, if with anmeri and some decent boy, even better, love has led her to it, it can still help her. So over time I will calm down, the problem with abstinence is the most terrible, I hope no one sees such a thing or experiences. This is where this program can help, over time the dose is reduced and life is looked at differently. This is salvation in my opinion. Luck and success of the girl, You have to fight darling, you have to be strong. She must be understood and loved
I completely agree with what No. 2 said. But remember that if she herself does not want to give up, nothing and no one can help her. Just do not give it up, because such people are in great need of love and support.
I am 21 years old I HAVE NOT TRIED anything (cigarettes and any other drugs) and I have no desire or curiosity about it => I have never been in such a company (I have for acquaintances who smoke cigarettes, but I stand up for my rights of a non-smoker). So I wonder when addicts experience abstinence (whether they really experience it or make it up, as an excuse to take the next dose) and whether someone close to them can intoxicate them with chloroform, ether or some other means, and when they wake up and want more to sting - sleep again? I'm not a doctor, but I think that over time the physical dependence will disappear and only the mental one will remain, there if they don't manage on their own - send them to a psychiatrist or beat them to fight so that they get scared and don't think about this. If they are women (and beautiful) and despite all efforts continue with drugs - sometimes, when they got drunk, call traffickers of white slaves and sell them, they are no longer mentally fit for anything, so at least the physical need for sex on other people to satisfy), and in this way you will earn money! :)
You are all drug addicts and I was shaking even more than normal .... But what does it mean he was addicted ..... not that it just happened to me, our people obviously taught me that way .... - you can't? do not you want ? ... a slap and locked all week and this becomes a question as I had 2 ki only .... now alone at 17 ... and I shook for about 5 months I tried everything I'm tired .... and I do not want ... Of course, I had such moments myself, but just in those moments I was on my own because I don't want to! .... AND IT DOESN'T GIVE YOU "STYLE OR TO BE COOLER ... It's just simplicity at least for me ...."
Number 6, you've been shaking for a while. It takes at least 5 years of experience to understand what it is about. You're obviously in the beginning;)
Definitely do not listen to Number 4 and 6 darling, listen to Number 1 and 2 Success!
Woman, don't listen to number 8 - she must be a "former" addict who can swear you haven't taken in months or years, how she's feeling well now, and how she's been feeling all sorts of chemistry and opium. well, but after the impact was over, she felt like a rag and how heroically she got rid of drug addiction at the cost of a lot of effort. Blast-blah - after an indefinite time something unpleasant will happen to her in life and she will become a vacuum cleaner again. I am the author of post number 4 and there I tell the truth - if you are in a country where there are houses, take it down to a basement that is soundproofed and leave it locked in the dark for 1-3 weeks, and see if it will not pass. abstinence and addiction, taking nothing for more than 20 days, and in order not to be shocked, "draw" it
Number 9 I see that you are a "specialist", but you would hardly listen to a colorblind person talk to you about the colors of the rainbow. Anyone who has not taken drugs does not know what it is about!
Not to be angry, but it is clear that number 2 has no concept of drugs and did not have any points of contact with the treatment. "The only salvation is the methadone program" Let your girlfriend be sure that methadone will destroy her body to its foundations, especially since she is 20, she did not give birth and the results are partial. Once it is in the beginning, it will be much easier if a former drug addict is found to tell her what happened to him, what he experienced, then he will be startled and stop in time. I know of such cases. And let him remember that methadone is a slow suicide.
номер 9, ти да не си луда??? Я, ходи се образовай малко, че само глупости ти твори мозъка. Аз съм майка на наркоман... и ако си мислиш, че така става лекуването, всичките до сега да са се излекували. Ако ти си дебела и искаш да отслабнеш, и ако те заключат за 3 седмици някъде без да се храниш, след това... я се замисли!!! Живеем в 21 век, хората вече какво ли не измислят за борбата срещу наркотиците, а тя ми тръгнала да го заключва и вързва докато му мине абстиненцията...
To the one who wrote number 12 - where did the woman get me from? Besides your son, didn't you start with the hallucinogens? Can't you see what I wrote and how I wrote it in comments 4 and 9? Or do you not differentiate between the genders in the Bulgarian language? Good - a month may not happen - but I bet that if you lock for a year a drug addict (woman, man, girl, boy - it does not matter) in a basement and apply all sorts of psycho-attacks, and impose various restrictions and finally break it both physically and mentally, the last thing after this year is to think about drugs. I repeat - I do not know, but I am 99% sure that if this is applied effectively - it will have an effect. Yes, he may have moved mentally afterwards (but even so, if he continues to shake, sooner or later it will happen again), but he will not be a drug addict. Another question is that the people in the cities have apartments and do not have basements far from the settlements (so that the people around them cannot hear the screams of the "captive"), and this also applies with great force to some of the people with houses. I repeat - a person with abstinence, I suppose, can go into shock, and an indescribable desire to obtain drugs only when he is conscious - keep him in an artificial coma for several months or years, and then tell me that when he wakes up there will be more physical dependence. But these methods of treatment are not applied to you. and an indescribable desire to obtain a drug only when he is conscious - keep him in an artificial coma for a few months or years, and then tell me that when he wakes up there will be more physical dependence. But these methods of treatment are not applied to you. and an indescribable desire to obtain a drug only when he is conscious - keep him in an artificial coma for a few months or years, and then tell me that when he wakes up there will be more physical dependence. But these methods of treatment are not applied to you.
It's me again - the guy with comments 4 and 9 (and if the moderator has ordered - and with post number 13) - I may be a radical, but that's the way it should be - they went to treat me a drug addict with ... ... methadone drug). What are you like? Tomorrow you will start convincing that the best addict is treated in Afghanistan and Iraq, and that it is best for him / her to deal with the native plants in those countries, to water them, to take care of them, and when the right time comes - to dry the fruits / seeds and diligently process them, then pack them for transport so that it can meet the needs of future workers in Europe. :))) Mani - in this country we are filled with gypsies, drug addicts, sectarians and all sorts of similar scum. Gypsies are born pregnant (most of them, but this is also because of the close kinship between them - maybe there is someone here (there more aware of it). But what about drug addicts and sectarians - he is "sung" that it is harmful, but it tries. As they began - to end. It must be painful to break up with such a person, but when he was born a nephew? I say again - and to be treated, even if it stops for a while, according to the logical law, it will either start again after a while, or it will enter some sect - as the psyche is weak, this is the situation.
14, you are quite far from the problem. This is the easiest way and many people have tried it, but practice shows that it does not work! It is! From now on you can scratch your tongue as much as you want and invent such "systems" for refusal, but there will be no practical use of it!
to 15 - I do not know how many "a lot of people" have tried it to claim that anesthesia will not eliminate physical dependence, because an artificial coma means continuous deep sleep, and not just for a few hours. As for her (artificial coma), I am 99% convinced (I repeat - I am not a doctor) that after prolonged use over time, the physical need for the drug will disappear. Because the body will slowly but gloriously begin to restore its bio-chemical processes and substances. But I'm not saying that this will help mental addiction - but I also think that there is no point in treating a person who does not want to stop using drugs. It's like rescuing a suicide - if he decides to end it, he'll still find a way to do it (unless they push him into a psychiatric clinic and push him with "cocktails"). from drugs so he can't think). And would you tell me how you know that "a lot of people" have tried it (this for the artificial coma) - because for its application I guess a lot of money is needed, and it's not like methadone, in which the individual accepts it, does not have to be unconscious 24/7 a week. And if you ask me, the state should not sponsor the treatment of drug addicts at all. If there is one thing to do, it is to exercise much more effective control over the distribution and prosecution of drug addicts and drug dealers. An example of such - is to make more frequent inspections of places where drugs are distributed - such as discos. To send secretly (but when I say secretly - means secretly) special units + doctors-specialists in the field of intoxicants and psychotropic substances and to check on the spot all visitors to a disco. If someone is accused of use - a fine of BGN 5,000. If the victim is a minor or a minor, the fine should be at the expense of his parents, and if he is a minor, one of the parents should be arrested on charges of failure to apply effective parental control (but for this purpose an improved law should be introduced / amended ). Let's see if the addict will get drunk once again, after his parents beat him up and explain to him how due to his dementia, the family budget has decreased by BGN 5,000. That someone tried out of curiosity and did not know what would happen - a bang, a bang. Nowadays, everyone knows what drugs lead to. The question of whether you will accept them is your personal choice. I've told myself I won't try - and so far I haven't. I'm even a non-smoker (and when I say non-smoker, I mean I've never been one before, I haven't even tried a cigarette) - you know! Both classmates and colleagues have offered me to smoke a cigarette at least once - but I refused. Now, if a lumpen is so influenced by the opinion of others - what is my problem? First - that he had a choice in which company to get, secondly, he once again had a choice whether to accept or not. After he has expressed his will to use drugs twice (once indirectly and another time directly) - go and treat him by force. Again, these are my opinions, and I do not succumb to the convictions here, whether I am right in my position or not. No one and nothing is my guarantor,
There is no salvation from communism, pederasty and drug addiction. Until a year ago, I was heterosexual. I am married and have two children. Once, after drinking a lot of alcohol, something happened to me that I can't get rid of ... In a drunken state, my husband gave me a blowjob and then I fucked him. From now on I am looking for men for sex. I try to give up, but my desire to penetrate one place deeply activates me to seek sexual contact with men. Sex with a man has a stimulating effect on me. So ... there is no giving up homosexuality, communism and drugs.
People, I can't understand why everyone pretends to be a teacher. There are doctors for this, but most of all the love given to you by your relatives can help as long as you really ask for it.
My advice is to ambush her with her mother and friends and take her to a drug hospital. I hope she gets better because she is only 20 and it will be a pity for her to leave before she has seen all the good things in this life.
I'll tell you something about drug addicts, you make your own judgment. These are people who don't know what they want and that's why they started with drugs. I am 31 years old and I am a former drug addict. I'll tell you one thing, darling, remember it well: "THERE IS A STOP, THERE IS NO REFUSAL." You may be 50 and start again. It is really difficult and very difficult. Now I don't know what your girlfriend's financial means are, but it's good for her to send her to a commune in Spain. I personally sat in a commune for 7 years while I was on my feet, and considering that I did not steam myself to the worst. I want your girlfriend to realize what she's doing to herself, because it could get worse later.
One thing you will regret, darling, be by her side, do not leave her, she certainly has problems and to solve them, take drugs, find out what they are and help solve them, but the most important thing is to be by her side and remember never call her a drug addict ...