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How To Like Me?

By apoloandarislove August 02, 2020 3 answers Last updated August 02, 2020

Hi, I used to be super shy and crazy. Now I am too, but I am also starting to relax. I have a few things I can't fix. 1st: I went out on a date with a boy who was writing to me and he hasn't written to me since (when we saw each other we talked about common things - we didn't kiss, push or anything like that). Another boy liked me in general company, he wrote to me but he answered me after a very long time - and he wrote to me and I answered things he asked me. Not that I like them, I just want to be friends, but I also don't want people to run away from me. My question is why am I pushing the boys away? How do I find a friend without pushing him away? What can I do to meet a boy? 2nd : I want to support Instagram and Facebook. I rarely upload photos and I have few friends and likes. In order to have many friends, do I have to send an invitation to people I don't know and upload photos more often? How to maintain them? I know I sound vain and hollow, but I was a girl who was obsessed with textbooks, I'm super naive, trusting and I'm not intriguing. I want to grow up to be cool (so to speak), to meet new people, to make new friends, to find a boyfriend and to be loved and to love. Please don't judge me. I wrote the topic for advice, not a critique.

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lady_phephe answered · August 02, 2020

   Apparently you are still very naive that this is the way for someone to like you ... There is nothing wrong with reading, on the contrary, but it also depends on what ... Unfortunately, textbooks and school are not to teach you how to live, but just how to become a good and obedient worker. It is the job of the parents to introduce you to life, but unfortunately there are no real parents anymore and this is very evident in the topics / comments of the little ones here. One child please wonders if a dog can be looked after in the yard?!? Just what kind of life culture we are talking about ... And as for advice and criticism, even older people do not understand it, so I will give you a simple example. Some (even quite) ask how to harm themselves more successfully. What "advice" would you give them? Will you help them hurt themselves, or will you "criticize" them for doing so? You hardly "repel" the boys, and you sound so fragile to me that the boys haven't started to be interested in girls yet ... Watch your school and pay a little respect for real life. Out of a desire not to "miss" something, most people forcibly miss it ...

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canadianboi6969 answered · August 02, 2020

   I'll start back and forth. It's okay to want to have social media accounts, but don't get obsessed. Don't accept strangers, it's pointless, really. When I made Facebook, I accepted all the invitations and I sent them myself to see if I knew. I was little and I thought it was cool to have a lot of friends. A year later, I removed all the people I didn't know and stopped accepting invitations from strangers. While I was more closed, there was literally no point in having Facebook. In high school, I started to communicate more, found myself in a good environment and used the networks to write to friends. This is still the case today. My friends like the photos I upload, although I don't upload them often at all. But I have no problem with suspicious people writing to me about sex. I am a member of several interest groups, I only read, because most users seem vicious to me and I don't want to participate in discussions. In general, it is very stressful to be online if you do it just for fame. Facebook and Instagram are not the places to look for contacts. Sometimes networks help you find old acquaintances, help you get closer to new ones, but it is not an end in itself for gaining popularity and contacts. Emphasize real relationships, these face to face. Then your Facebook will be filled with acquaintances, they will like your photos, you will agree to go out and everything will be in order. Now to your first questions. You don't really repel boys. You sound like a girl who isn't very big. Maybe you're in puberty or you're just out of it. In those years, many people go out on dates just like that, for no particular reason. Everything may have gone great, but let them decide that they do not want to continue the relationship. He does not think that every young boy puts special thoughts into every meeting with a girl. You just haven't come across a person with whom you can really fit in well and he tells himself that he wants to be in his life at all costs. The fault is not in you. There are no mistakes in this regard at all. You have to be yourself, not try to fit in with other characters. Those who need to will notice you, will want to get to know you and will not worry that he is interested in cars and you are not. You will not worry that you do not wear high shoes, or vice versa, that you prefer them to sneakers. Don't think so deeply about things. Watch yourself. Wear clothes that you like, talk about your interests frankly, do not worry about your personality. There is no point in lying or hiding something in order to be liked. You hardly repel people. Think about your upbringing, show it. Think about your morals, don't run away from it. Be as natural as possible. If someone doesn't respond to your messages, leave them. Do not pursue every opportunity. Such things do not happen by force. How to meet a boy? Start with hello, for example. Talk to the people around you - strangers in the company, not so close at school / work / university. You can start different interest courses and talk to other people there. Joking aside, I was also talked to on the bus. I talked to people in the store because, for example, I needed advice from someone more experienced. At worst, someone will think you're crazy. This is not scary at all, because he is a stranger and in two days he will not remember you. If someone doesn't respond to your messages, leave them. Do not pursue every opportunity. Such things do not happen by force. How to meet a boy? Start with hello, for example. Talk to the people around you - strangers in the company, not so close at school / work / university. You can start different interest courses and talk to other people there. Joking aside, I was also talked to on the bus. I talked to people in the store because, for example, I needed advice from someone more experienced. At worst, someone will think you're crazy. This is not scary at all, because he is a stranger and in two days he will not remember you. If someone doesn't respond to your messages, leave them. Do not pursue every opportunity. Such things do not happen by force. How to meet a boy? Start with hello, for example. Talk to the people around you - strangers in the company, not so close at school / work / university. You can start different interest courses and talk to other people there. Joking aside, I was also talked to on the bus. I talked to people in the store because, for example, I needed advice from someone more experienced. At worst, someone will think you're crazy. This is not scary at all, because he is a stranger and in two days he will not remember you. Talk to the people around you - strangers in the company, not so close at school / work / university. You can start different interest courses and talk to other people there. Joking aside, I was also talked to on the bus. I talked to people in the store because, for example, I needed advice from someone more experienced. At worst, someone will think you're crazy. This is not scary at all, because he is a stranger and in two days he will not remember you. Talk to the people around you - strangers in the company, not so close at school / work / university. You can start different interest courses and talk to other people there. Joking aside, I was also talked to on the bus. I talked to people in the store because, for example, I needed advice from someone more experienced. At worst, someone will think you're crazy. This is not scary at all, because he is a stranger and in two days he will not remember you. someone will think you are crazy. This is not scary at all, because he is a stranger and in two days he will not remember you. someone will think you are crazy. This is not scary at all, because he is a stranger and in two days he will not remember you.

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keienby answered · August 02, 2020

   There is no way a girl (I guess a teenager) has not been given even a small opportunity to be with a man / boy! Even if it is very ugly and thick. The only reason some women don't have a relationship yet is because they think of some unearthly princesses who will only marry someone very beautiful and arrogant, cynical and rich. Instead, you see, they only offer them some stupid good-natured bastards killed by life. Some of today's women end up with the neighborhood drunk who "drinks and beats", while others die alone in an apartment full of cats hahahaha.