Hello, I'm 22, but I've probably been drinking for almost 2 years now almost constantly. The quantities were not large before, but they have been increasing a lot lately. I go to bars, I drink in us, I started drinking everywhere, it's mostly beer, but it's already in large quantities. I did a lot of nonsense under the influence of alcohol - scandals, fights, and once I lost a lot of money in a casino. I always feel terrible the next morning about the things I've done. I feel like not getting out of bed and sleeping all my life. I drink mostly to make it easier for me to communicate with people and it's more fun, but things get a little out of control now. Sometimes I totally forget what happened, for example I remember drinking, but after a while I remember horrible things I did last night. I drink a lot, I've even vomited on several occasions so I can sleep more peacefully. Many people tell me that I should not drink and that although I am good, I become very bad by drinking sometimes. I want to stop drinking, but I can't imagine sitting down and talking to someone and not shaking my cup. The other thing is that I don't usually smoke - I've quit, but when I get drunk lately - I start smoking, and there I've put a lot of effort into quitting, and that makes me even more ashamed of myself. So I accept all kinds of advice and guidelines, but I wonder how I will change my lifestyle. If I stay 2-3 days without drinking, I become irritable, etc. and fix it with a cup. that in principle I do not smoke - I have given them up, but when I get drunk lately - I start smoking, and there I have made great efforts to quit them and this makes me even more ashamed of myself. So I accept all kinds of advice and guidelines, but I wonder how I will change my lifestyle. If I stay 2-3 days without drinking, I become irritable, etc. and fix it with a cup. that in principle I do not smoke - I have given them up, but when I get drunk lately - I start smoking, and there I have made great efforts to quit them and this makes me even more ashamed of myself. So I accept all kinds of advice and guidelines, but I wonder how I will change my lifestyle. If I stay 2-3 days without drinking, I become irritable, etc. and fix it with a cup.
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Seek help and treat yourself. I live with a person with alcohol problems and it's more than hell. And as much as I feel sorry for him .. I think I will save myself .. Draw conclusions ..
I support number 1. I am the daughter of an alcoholic and although he has a slight drunkenness and has not done nonsense like the author, it was still more than hell for the relatives not to mention that he is under 60, but he has physically deteriorated and will eventually his mother had to look at him in antiquity. It is full of diseases - it starts with type 2 diabetes (proven alcohol) and ends in ulcers and hernias. He has been physically rotten from alcohol for at least 20-30 years. Today he regrets that he missed our childhood, but it is too late. There is no former alcoholic, but there is a dry one - if you can afford even "one cup", then you have not said goodbye to your alcoholism. Being irritable is indicative - you are addicted. Seek the help of a psychologist and if necessary take a course of treatment in a clinic, but get well, because life is ahead of you.
Hey bastard, I'm exactly the same as you and I get drunk a hell of a lot with company and I drink in our country, but you can't stand more than a week, what are these slimes, the surest way not to drink alone or if you want not drinking at all (optional) is by no means thinking about alcohol, when you think of alcohol even slap yourself for a second or get distracted immediately. It has helped me a lot since 1 year, I have been drunk at most 2 times and I almost do not drink alone. I decided to limit it because just like you I did nonsense that sober to kill me I can not do them, SUCCESS
Sports dude! Get stuck and start playing sports. At first, stop hanging out with friends and indulge in sports. A person who had the same problem tells you. Success!
I can't seem to drink from time to time. I hadn't drunk for a week, I got drunk last night, as a result of which I lost almost all my money, and today I'm starting a new job and I have to go with a hangover. I think I should either give up alcohol altogether, or I don't know, because I can't drink from time to time. Last night I made up for lost time and even had to get off the subway to vomit. I feel extremely bad drinking. I never want to wake up when the morning comes. The author
sport bro, sport, this is the truth, after a workout I feel sick and take a sip, start today!
a little late I write on the subject, but believe me read what is written. So first to Number 3 -man YOU DON'T HAVE A LITTLE IDEA WHAT IT IS TO BE "BIBLE", after you stop it when you want and as you want. And now to you dude: Well, I've been drinking for 8 years from 18 to 26 (right now). I was at work exactly one week ago (last Saturday) when, as I was at the checkout, it happened. I drank 3 to 8 liters of beer a day. My work in fruit vegetables is very revolving, as I was standing at the counter it hit me in the head literally, it became warm all over my body, then on my head, and the queue is almost to the end of the store, because of my slow service, due to dizziness . I was about to collapse completely, but it's good that the boss showed up. He stood at the cash register, I barely crawled to the pharmacy, and there, when my blood was measured, the question was " let alone run), I was nervous, now I'm super happy and satisfied, I had no money, now my wallet is not dry. It's just the truth, put an end to it, because I'm already scared and used to it, even for a short time without it - I found other activities. Do it this way, because it leads nowhere. As for the job ... it's good that I have a cool boss to whom I told the truth and at the moment I'm waiting to fully recover and start working. Good luck man. to whom I told the truth and he is currently waiting for me to fully recover and start working. Good luck man. to whom I told the truth and he is currently waiting for me to fully recover and start working. Good luck man.
8 liters of beer a day ?! You're kidding ... and it's bad. Apparently instead of kidneys you have a strainer.
Man, fortunately I have no problem with the kidneys, obviously God knows his job, the important thing is that I realized, now I do not want and I am disgusted when I think of my old habit, I hope it continues, I get a lot of support from colleagues and relatives and friends. Let the boys be too.