My question is very simple - how to lose weight when my boyfriend is constantly tempting me with ice cream, cakes, chocolates, etc. I can not refuse him, I do not want to offend him, but I have some 4-5 kg to lose , and I fail because of his kind surprises :( I try to eat 1200 calories a day, and thanks to him I have reached 3000+: /
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I am in a similar situation, only with my husband - he likes to eat and has told me thousands of times how unpleasant it is for him to sit at a table for a woman to eat a salad and feel guilty. So I feel obliged to order his, and it is not very healthy. If I don't eat it, he eats it for me! And also I can not lose weight, especially since the last 4 kg are difficult. We had a conversation recently and I'm trying to change that, but mostly we stopped going to restaurants so much. By the way, I both think they were rewarded as children with food. My husband told me that his mother had saved on food and that it was probably only on special occasions that they had good food. Now he wants to unconsciously reward himself and me with good food. Yours was rewarded with sweet things ... I think they both love us, but tomorrow they will start trampling their children like that, there must be an end! It's just a conversation and a will on your part, because there's no way you don't like things ... sweets are a drug
People, you obviously have no will and you are just greedy! I hope this triggers a light bulb in your brain ...
Maybe you're not fat enough, and he may fall for the round ones. Or he thinks they are some kind of Afrophysicists.
Just deny him that much. You should not feel guilty, this is your body, you decide what to feed it. Don't eat to please him, why doesn't he stop eating to please you?
He will die without food by May 5, don't you think?
Author, well, obviously he likes you like that :) this of course can only make you happy, but if you want to lose those pounds for yourself - get rid of these treats for a few weeks: P