You can't help but think about it. I think about it all the time because I have been alone for a long time and no one but my parents loves me. I am so lonely sometimes that I even think of ending this miserable existence. I am a very nice girl, but something is wrong with my love and I always come across either women or employees. And now for about two months I have been seeing a boy who has had a girlfriend of 5-6 years. We see him once a week, and sometimes for coffee somewhere outside. When he's home, he hardly kisses me except when we're having sex. He never stays asleep, and when he leaves it's very awkward - some kind of nothing - no hugs, kisses, etc. I want to make him love me, but how to do it? Lately, I have the feeling that no one will ever love me and that I don't know what to do to evoke these feelings in someone. Please teach me. I want to be happy and have a family one day. I don't want to die alone. How can I convince him that he will be better off with me than with her, so that he can leave her? There are so many women who are skillful manipulators when it comes to love. Wouldn't any of them in this forum give advice on how to do it. Thank you!
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You can't force someone to love you! It either has it or it doesn't! You'd better look for someone else, but as he said, he's been with his girlfriend for a long time, he's unlikely to leave her
If you don't carry this "manipulative" in you, I don't see how it will happen! And what is this effort to separate them? He's a man and he's just diversifying his sex right now by fucking you! I dare say that I'm not beautiful, but I know how to "entangle" the legs of men, I know I'm probably charming, but I think I just follow the advice of one of my exes, who when we parted told me: - act like a liner to look at you like a king! Until then, even when I was with him, I was jealous, kind, obsessive, even like a straw drowning man. I clung to everyone I was with, as if he were the only one. But since I rediscovered myself, everyone started clinging to me, to the one who pretended that she didn't care about anything, nothing that ate me from the inside ... And I, like you, think that all my life only my relatives will love me, Nooo I've been in a relationship for 3 years now. we think of children, I love and am loved and I no longer need that rule, even though I started with it! I still use it, but just out of female vanity, to other men, not that I'm looking for something, but it's nice to be wanted, and even loved by others ... I became selfish, I have mine, and the foreign attract!
Only with a fight. Ha didn't love you - ha more and more fighting.
Unfortunately, it is not done by force. Either he will fall in love with you or not, but aren't you worried about the fact that he both sleeps with you and has a girlfriend? To me, this looks like another womanizer who plays both of you and just has fun at the expense of your feelings. If so, is it worth suffering for such a person?
Number 1-walking 5-6 years does not mean you can not leave her!
If he wanted to be with you, he would be. Now, tighten up and find yourself a conscious and mostly free boy. Think about it, if you were in this woman's place, would you be okay? !! Don't do what you don't want them to do to you. Isn't this situation offensive to you? Eli.
To number 5: This is clear - no one has a guarantee for anything :))))) But as the author describes it, he only goes to fuck something foreign and may not intend to grow into something else! Why she has to deal with this only she knows, but if she is with her tomorrow - she will fuck someone else for variety and she will hardly feel ok from this fact
If he hasn't loved you so far, it won't happen in the future. In this case, he seems to be the manipulator as soon as he manages to play his girlfriend and you. I'm sure that one day you will find someone who really loves you ... and until then you decide whether it is worth to be with this boy or not.
Just show him that you have feelings for him and that you love him !! If he is decent, if he loves you too - things will work out between you :) The fact that they have been together for 5-6 years does not mean anything. They may be tired already, so - it's not scary;): D. Boldly FORWARD !!
You're naive, the boy doesn't have sex with his girlfriend, and you just tie him up. No wonder there are no hugs.
I don't understand how calmly you accept him ... he has a girlfriend with whom he has been for 5-6 years and he is cheating on her with you. That's horrible, I don't want to judge you, but don't you feel sick? I'm talking in terms of cheating on you, you're the other woman, what will happen if they do that to you ...
Well, it is clear why they don't love you - in the first place you don't love yourself in order to be subjected to such doomed relationships with bound people. You agree to be with everyone who pays little attention to you, because you don't have a wide choice, but you don't have it because you don't value yourself. Who would love a man who is ready to do anything to get a little attention, but no one. If you valued yourself at least a little, you would think that you deserve something better than a committed man. And you get what you think you deserve. Once you agree to crumbs, you will eat your crumbs for life, and the manipulators you are talking about just think they deserve attention and love and get it. , and without forcing them to do anything.
What's the matter, you have sex at least: D Nobody loves you because that's all in your head.
Aww, how low! What to do to separate them! Only with her would he be happy! That's why you're alone! And you will be left alone. Because you are vicious and envious. Who would love such a narcissistic intriguer? May God protect you from people like you.
Why do you want to separate them? The others are right. This boy is just diversifying his sex life with you. Leave it to his girlfriend. And don't focus on finding someone. Until you feel comfortable with yourself, you will not find someone to make you feel good and love you. You must not live in love for the sake of the other. You have to live for yourself. To know what kind of person you are, what you can do and what you want. The idea is not to cling to your partner, but to both walk and look in the same direction.
Find your boy. What you have now is just sex, no feelings and I don't think there will be. Don't waste your time with this one.
If he cheats on her, what is the guarantee that if he goes with you, he will not cheat on you? He kills me again for some truths about women, but I will keep quiet. And it's very stupid to think you're a very pretty girl. Beauty is subjective. I don't like blond women, for example, and most men like them. For me, it is more important for a woman to have charm and femininity, not to have physical beauty. But even the terms "charm and femininity" are subjective. A blonde girl with big tits asks me why I didn't like her. Well I just don't like blondes with big tits.
The only way to make someone love you is to show them that you deserve love by loving yourself and putting yourself at a high price. Ask yourself what else you will offer him if he leaves her and stays with you alone. He still has everything you can give him, why deprive him of what she gives him? With apology Sucks the man from 4 tits! Why deprive yourself of half?
And how do you know he'll be better off with you? He may be happy with his current girlfriend and use you only for sex. In reality, this is the case.
You're a jerk. You drink it. Then you drag him into the basement. You take it off. You chain him - naked on the cold and damp, moldy cement. And you ask him: - Do you love me !!!? And he says "no!" - fight, kicks between the legs, electric shock, whips and sticks, and you ask him again and ask him: - Do you love me !!! !!! And so until the soul bears, or until it becomes yours!
I am a boy. From experience I tell you - force does not work. There is one very important rule to attract people and that is to love yourself. To like yourself, to be self-confident, etc. Doesn't it impress you that the most beautiful women are often not engaged. While the uglier ones are. His mother is confident.
My friend really likes dunes :) I buy it every day and she loves me for 3 years now. The bad thing is that she's very addicted to garlic sauce and looks like a pig ... but quo of that. He loves me and we are happy.
22, recipe for garlic sauce: 1 cup of yogurt - thicker, for example "Vereya 4.5%"; 1 box of mayonnaise - "Krasi" or some other, which looks like the one-time, but not small; 1 packet of garlic powder. Abe 1: 1: 1 but in terms of packaging, not weight :) You mix the three well and put them in a closed box in the refrigerator for 1 night. It is an extra for all kinds of crumbs and meatballs, roasted chickens, donuts and other extras!
Well, they won't love you because you fall for such rubbish! ... You don't like men who like you and want you, the ones who only make fun of you, such as I don't feel sorry for them at all, that's how you like it. Philip32
to 23: a good garlic sauce is made only with fresh garlic, pressed, that powdered garlic is a dead job! In addition, you should not overdo it with mayonnaise, so that it is not too greasy and add a little lemon juice, but again freshly squeezed! :)))
I read the opinions of others and I think you need to show him that you don't just want sex. Tell him you don't just want a chill, you want love, and if he doesn't agree to make your relationship more serious ... cut him off. You don't need someone to just use you and then go to someone else. Believe me, there is a place and people for everything, and the person you are looking for may soon appear either in the face of this lover of yours or as someone else. But dignity is most important! Don't fall low just to feel some artificial love.
There is no way to make someone love you. And you can't know that he will be better off with you if he loves you. Find your own, unattached. You have a high opinion of yourself, and you left with a committed man. I'm sick of people like you! The great confidence that you can go tied up and think you're better than his girlfriend. Well, yes, but no! You are pathetic. And you even say that he will be better off with you. Put yourself in his boyfriend's shoes. And if you are cheated on after 5-6 years of relationship, how will you feel? !! You are an evil girl, very evil. You don't have a boyfriend for that, you won't find one, but if you do, it will still be some rubbish like the current one, who is cheating on his serious girlfriend. No one else like you deserves it. Take hold of a little, and be not like those wretched and lowly women who cling to bound men and expect love, because we all know it won't happen. You will only fail a relationship, but you will not receive any love. Whatever you did, you deserved. You deserve to be treated like that. A girl with dignity would never go out with a committed man and would never try to separate a couple. Because women know the price with dignity, and you show that you are cheap.