My problem is that in principle I can't refuse and when I do I can very seriously offend a person ... How can I refuse sex without offending the boy? And how do I avoid questions like did you have sex or why don't you let me? Please help me, I really don't want to offend the people around me, and I don't know how to refuse in a kinder way.
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Well, if you have a boyfriend, it will be difficult without sex. If you don't have a boyfriend, there will be no one to refuse. Something like platonic love exists for a very small percentage of the male class, but as far as I understand your boyfriend is not one of them. If he truly loves you, he will wait, but let's not forget that boys have physiological needs and can't wait forever, especially if the boy is not a virgin. If he was a virgin, he wouldn't push so hard. How to refuse him? Well, just tell him the truth - that you don't want to and tell him what the reason is (you're not ready, you're in a cycle, etc.). To know that if you don't let him go for a long time, there is a chance that he will either dump you or do it with someone else, which I don't think you will enjoy. ~ Bloody victory ~
You say NO and that's it! What do you care that you insult the boy. Let us women give to anyone who asks us not to be offended. If it's about your friend, explain the problem and tell him you want to wait. Learn to refuse, there is nothing to dodge. Men will see that you are weak and without an opinion and will do with you whatever they want.
Well, when the whole neighborhood passes you, you will understand. Now seriously ... To the question “did you have sex? "You can say that 'this is not a lady's question' or just ignore it completely and 'did you do it? If he says yes, say, "I'm happy for you, and now I'm sorry - I have a job." On indecent proposals - direct mode. For example, "look at yourself in the mirror, do you think you deserve me?" "" Watch your work "," how is your mother "... mostly complete ignore AND NO EYE LOOKING
And I think that they are offended and I tried to dodge, but I just realized that from this evasion - MEN say to themselves "How elementary it is" and they go crazy when they hear NO. He who deserves you would not ask you such nonsense.