Hello! I need a little help .. I have a girlfriend of 3 months and more, everything is ok, but she is a bit difficult (she keeps repeating it) and we can't relax - she says she can't relax until I let go and then finally let her relax. She's often out of her mind and when I ask her what's wrong with her, she says, 'I don't know you yet, it doesn't matter, you can't help me.' But when I ask her what to help, she immediately jumps up and says she needs a flair for this thing, not to tell you. I try to get to know her by asking questions while talking, but even that doesn't work very well. Maybe the problem is that we don't have very similar topics. Also, she once hints at sex, whether it plays a role. So my questions are how to make her relax in front of me and start sharing. thanks for the help
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I will never understand why people try to form relationships with other people with whom they have nothing to say or whose characters are worth the effort, and in your case you can't even talk normally. Is it just because of one beauty and sex? What do you hope to get out of this? Is it worth?!
Write competently, it seems very sexy to me! In my opinion, if you make an effort and she doesn't respond, maybe you're just not for each other. This is a three month relationship. Even if she thought there was no way to help, at least she would tell you. Besides, you felt that you didn't have many common topics.
Maybe you should have given yourself time to get to know each other before you left. I was like that with my last friend. We met and soon left, although we didn't know each other well enough, but we had to. I was the one who couldn't relax until we finally broke up. What I want to tell you is that you needed more time. However, since time does not go back: DD, just go out more often when you are both, talk to each other, share. If she doesn't share, you share first. Show that you are interested. This will bring you closer.
If you are so illiterate in sex, do not wonder why you do not succeed. The girl told you exactly-sense of smell must, that is, experience. She is not a school doll, first learn how to make it, and then deal with girls!
If you think you love her very much, strange as it may sound, read everything you find about depression. I know he writes general things and almost everyone can recognize such symptoms, but there are still specifics that you may know. And if you decide that you love her and want to help her, arm yourself with patience, a lot of patience!
You specify a question - are you Bulgarian? If I recommend you to leave your girlfriend and study Bulgarian spelling and orthography. She may not have understood what you were saying.
Dude ... set her up and stop talking!
Get her out of here! You don't need such a "character" at all. You will still be the one to blame, and she will be "like that" ... Get rid of her, and watch the next suitors, after you, how she makes them monkeys. Then you will wonder and wonder how you could even catch up with one who has the incredible talent to make every single person miserable.