Hello, I have had a lover for some time and we have met three times so far. It was a great expectation, a great desire, and in the end sex was nothing special, even the last time it ended quite hard. Please tell me what to do to make it very nice and unforgettable. I'm ready for anything, I still think I've done a lot, but why couldn't he finish for a long time, does that mean he's not good? Give advice please. ..
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And how long is that long :)
There is no need to have sex with him if sex is nothing special.
If he finished quite hard, then he fucked you for a long time. Did you end up during that time? Maybe you're pretty wide down there and he doesn't feel anything, like he's swinging in the air. You also don't say how old you are. If you're older than him and you don't look sexy in his eyes, plus wide down there, well that's a bad combination. He's certainly not good with you. Why don't you invite a nice young girl to watch you, but also to be naked when you have sex. He can then finish faster watching the young girl. Try this recipe. And write how you graduated.
Who knows how a person counts up to 1000 in his mind to last as long as possible in bed, and you here are worried that it doesn't end in 5 minutes.
The author Nabori and I are with the man and we are both 35 years old, we are not the first youth, but we are not too old. I think I may be broad, as you say, but what can I do about it. I want it to be as good as I want to give him pleasure. I say that sex is nothing special, but it wasn't bad and I think maybe we need time to get to know each other a little more and adjust to each other.
Emphasize the prelude. Torture him a little. During the act, hug him, press him, moan more freely (but don't overplay ...). Do you turn ... Do you change positions, haven't you noticed which one "strains" him more? Does he consume concentrate before sex? I count myself cumming too fast, the last time I shook for half an hour and finished "with three hundred dawns". I had put some other brandy in more ... Do you do it with a condom? And are you sure he doesn't do "some magic" to last longer? If you get tired of shaking it, you could take it orally (if you are "good"). You can come wide to him, but doesn't he seem thin to you? Possible reasons at all - mine. It is good to discreetly ask him. It is very likely that he knows the answer.
From the Author. While I am waiting for the approval of your comments, I want to say that yesterday we met again, we had sex for probably an hour, I finished 2 times, it was wild and we went around somewhere, but he still couldn't finish Why? Please tell me does this mean that he is not feeling well, in the end I made him happy of course you know how, but why can't he finish while we do it? What to do I tried what not. Please help ..
The reason is not in you, the problem is in him. Whatever you do in bed is not up to you to go to the doctor
At 11 he hasn't drunk anything before, he doesn't drink and he seems to be a little thin, and I'm obviously obvious. In the end, I satisfy him with my mouth and it ends. Does the other thing we do with condoms matter? The first few times we saw each other he was cumming, but then we drive for a long time, he gets tired and fails, then I continue in the other way to be satisfied anyway, but does that mean that he doesn't feel good during sex? To moan there, we change a lot of poses and we are both quite active in my opinion ...
I'm 11. Yes, a condom reduces the sensation. Try different poses. At "lateral" compression ("density") are greater. "Ride," he said. Learn to turn (your pelvis ... like in oriental dances). Accidentally circumcised?
Until 11 he is not circumcised. It's probably his best to emphasize the side. As for the pelvis, I tried that too, but for a short time, I will try again. It turned out that he had a disc herniation and his lower back hurt, he told me yesterday. It may all be this, but still thank you very much for the advice and help.
There is no such thing as the author - she has caught a unique lover! To forget the advice so far and start doing massages and compresses for him.
Well, the problem may be in it. And the reasons for such a problem are different, but still 35 people are still young for some functional disorders. He may be stressed from work, overtired, not playing sports ... all of this affects sexual health. Or he may be fine, but he's used to ending up just masturbating and watching porn. If men have this habit, then they are with a woman, it is difficult to finish. Of course, you have to masturbate every day, if it is once a week does not count. It's just that the brain gets used to ejaculating only in this situation. In that case, he must re-educate him. The condom also does not help, numbs. I'm a woman and it bothers me a hell of a lot, 50% of my pleasure destroys it. If you haven't given birth, you don't have to be wide at the bottom. He may just have a thinner penis. But look, in sex shops they sell some balls for kegel exercises. They are for tightening the muscles. Buy, it will not harm you and you will only benefit. And to make you feel good in bed, blowjobs. He can't help but like it.
It may end on purpose. Separately, he may want something more like that .. All sorts of reasons
I may not like the advice, but ... If things get "stuck" - try anal. Years ago I had such a girlfriend - obviously wider below and during vaginal sex with her I felt practically nothing, and I don't think I don't reach my size ... I haven't had a similar problem with other women before and after her. She was not a very enthusiastic fan of anal sex, but in general we had reached some understanding - vaginal until she decided it was enough and then a little anal to get mine. Usually without even changing posture. And always with lubricant and condoms. Good luck.
I gave birth to two children. Today we met again and everything was amazing and we both finished, I 2, 3 times even he ended not fast, but not slow, normal in my opinion. I just want him to be very happy.
I'm the author, I don't know if this is the place here, because it was about sex, but I want to share that my lover is very complicated, his health problem is currently on injections and he doesn't even want to see me, we just write to each other, I I really want to see you and just cuddle though, but he refused me because he would only get annoyed I'm confused and disappointed ... I did everything for him and he ...
Author, control your expectations a little. The lover does not want you to see him in a position of weakness and lose status in your eyes. And the more you did for him, the more he did for you.
Don't be angry with him! Here I have met several topics from people with a similar problem. It is definitely a serious problem and there seems to be no solution. Orient yourself "in another direction".
Get your Kegel balls. They are sold in sex shops ... My husband is your set, and I am smaller. We recently had a holiday and he gave me a great set of toys, erotic ointments, etc. Ever since I retired with the balls (mine are medium size) and plasters, as we go to the bedroom and it becomes scary, wild and unbridled for both. Take care of HER and you will see what pleasure you can get.
What do these balls do I am not familiar with these things. Otherwise, yesterday we still saw each other slowly but again we had sex, it was nice and we both finished, but we talked a bit about it and came to the conclusion that I am wide, and it is a little thinner, but longer ... When we do it on the one hand, I think we do best ... I still take advice ...
TO 26 Can you explain to us a little more and in detail how you do it with these balls? I want to be able to use them and I want to know a little more about the very feeling of sex after these workouts, do you get tighter and how do you get wild as she described herself! otherwise try anal sex next to the author and you will see how it will end in 5 minutes and will moan like a wolf, I drive it crazy with this as a finale :–) Mary