Hello :)) I am an 18 year old boy from Sofia. And I lead a relatively distant life from the public. I am an introvert and I am complexed by my appearance .. I wanted to ask you, how can I socialize step by step? I really want to go with a girl ... in fact that's all I want right now! But I feel like a ghost in the streets .. In restaurants, at events, everyone is with someone, the company grows over time .. and I do not know a single person in the city with whom I can go out .. Once rejection from society was equal of suicide, one could not survive .. So do I ... I am in a very difficult situation .. I work, I do not have time to study .. in the sense of enrolling in university yet. Although I've heard that this is a good way to socialize ... I don't know anything other than in absentia. Can you give me some advice? I will be terribly grateful to you !!! :
Answers 4
I'm antisocial and the university didn't help me at all.
Hi I am a 17 year old girl and my problem is similar. I think others don't like me and I ignore others myself. I communicate freely with my close friends and family and I can't do that with others. I just can't be myself and I also do my best to please others and that's a problem for me, at least it was before I overcame it and I would advise you to sit somewhere quiet for half an hour and think everything over, for example, think for what you would like to achieve in life, I do so and every day it becomes easier with things, you are not rejected by society, you just have not found the right company for you. I would very much like to meet if there is no problem :)
For the university to be like that, even there you can find your great love.
If you have the opportunity, write down regularly. Part-time will not socialize you. And I went to live in a dormitory. Before the conditions were super miserable (15-20 years ago). But now it's light years away. But there is no such socialization. Even if you don't want to, you will still be in society. I hope you happen to a roommate.