Hello, I am writing a story here several times, some readers who follow the forum may know me. For those who are not acquainted, I will tell you briefly: I am a girl of 20 years, I fell in love and loved a man of my father's age, that even (for cover) and his friend. He deceived me, I fell in love, I left him, I wanted to go back to him, but I had already repulsed him with my childish behavior, I was looking for him, I called, nothing. We tried several times to get together, but things still didn't work out, again through my fault. The last time we talked (three months ago), the conversation didn't end well. He had given me some promises and he didn't keep them, so I told him that if he didn't keep his man's word, then he wasn't a real man (as he ALWAYS defines himself), he shut me up, very offended, and since then, neither I was looking for him, nor was he looking for me. After a year of humiliation and persecution, I was able to accept the fact that I had no future with this man, and that we would never have anything in common again. Well, this year, he had no contact with ours. We have a house abroad and a few days ago he came here with his new girlfriend on vacation, namely here "we fell in love last year. He knew I was here. He started going out with my mother and father in the evenings and questioning them. for me: what am I doing, how am I. These questions and actions of his irritate me a lot. How my father looks me in the eyes, given that he is * ball (with an apology, but that's exactly the word), was, humiliated, insulted "Isn't he uncomfortable? That they even go out to dinner. They've never been as close as they were this summer. In that first week he was here, I tried to avoid him, I didn't go out to dinner with them. ,, I didn't go to the beach and I distanced myself from him as much as I could, and he asked if he asked about me. He left the sea, I thought that by this time his contacts with my parents would stop. Yes but no. Today I call them again, when they have returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) as much as I could, and he asked if he asked about me. He left the sea, I thought that by this time his contacts with my parents would stop. Yes but no. Today I call them again, when they have returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together.
My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) as much as I could, and he asked if he asked about me. He left the sea, I thought that by this time his contacts with my parents would stop. Yes but no. Today I call them again, when they have returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) that by this time his contacts with my parents would have stopped. Yes but no. Today I call them again, when they have returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together.
My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) that by this time his contacts with my parents would have stopped. Yes but no.
Today I call them again, when they had returned to our hometown, to call him to see him, even with my father they started to take action, to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him? Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) to do some business together. My question to you is ... since he will obviously be present in my daily life (I still live with ours), if I find him somewhere, how should I deal with him?
Withdrawn? Friendly? It is true that I avoid contact with him, but I cannot escape the problem forever. And apart from the fact that I live in a small town and we often meet. If I happen to see him on the street, should I greet him? And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) should I congratulate him And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :) should I congratulate him And in general, what should be my attitude towards him? Thanks in advance. :)
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I think you're doing the right thing by distancing yourself. There is no point in unnecessary dramas and telling your parents what happened, you can fight to eat this ex ... do not create problems for your father. In case of a chance meeting, greet him, but don't stop talking, and when he comes to you, just go down under some pretext. You will go to study soon and the problem will be solved by itself.
Stay at a distance and ignore him. Gradually you will find another and you will forget this one.
Number 1 is more in solidarity with your uncle than to give you real advice. Meaning, he advised you, but he seems to be mostly worried about his uncle. My advice is to act like nothing happened. But if you feel any 'more special' attitude towards you, tell your father immediately! In my opinion, such men should eat a fight from the fathers and brothers of the girls they were with in order to come to their senses! And look after the dolls of their age! Or just go and pay prostitutes. You are an adult, yes, but you are small compared to him and that makes you much more emotionally unstable and easy to manipulate on his part. That's why he took advantage of you to pass. That is why I am very much against older people having sex with young / younger people.
And how do you look your father in the eye, letting go of his friend after he fucked you, as you say? :)
There is only one solution - tell your father about your relationship with this man and how he treated you. My recommendation is because obviously there is still interest in you. And because he sees that you are not manifesting, he tries to sneak back into your life to resurrect the past, using your father for this purpose. The business they will do "together" is just to have an excuse to be closer to you. When you get pressured or use the common business as a blackmail card, or when you cut it, the business in question will fail and your father will wash the towel. Tell your parents to stay away from him at all. His behavior is completely manipulative.
Много благодаря на всички за съветите. До номер 4, когато имах нещо общо с този мъж, той не беше близък с баща ми. А и тогава гледах света през "розови очила", мислех си, че съм хванала Бог за шлифера и въпросният господин ми е в кърпа вързан и мога аз да го изиграя, не той мен. Както каза номер 3, аз съм по- малка от него и съм лесна за манипулитане, естествено, тогава не мислех така. Мислех, че е мой завинаги и ще си имаме деца. Да, осъзнавам, колко глупава съм била. Но нали затова са грешките, за да се учим от тях. Различно е ТОЙ да излиза с баща ми на вечери и да двуличничи, това е долно държание от негова страна, все пак е посягал на дъщерята на "приятеля" си. Един истински приятел не би посегнал, на когото и да е от роднините на ближния му. А и той ми е баща, нормално да го гледам в очите? ! :D... не намирам въпроса ти за логичен
Instead of developing, being real, aware, etc. They themselves perish from an early age and are easily used .. And finally they roar that there were no men ... I am disgusted .... Author, what children of a man at that age? !! Be aware and do not get involved in nonsense.
I am in such a situation, dear, only I am 19 years old. And my dude is a friend of my father's, but the difference is that he can't do anything more than flirt with me because of his friendship with my father and his girlfriend. I advise you to avoid it as much as possible ...
Number 7, I wrote that I was stupid and in love. Why are you attacking? I did not say that there are no men, nor did I ask for your opinion on what I am. You can't tell if I've failed a story, and it's anonymous. I asked a specific question, stop attacking!
№5, why tell her father when she is to blame? Neither her father's sharing nor any complaints would help, as she is already e ... l, as the author herself put it. Unfortunately, little girls are very, very naive, but everyone has the right to make mistakes and bear the consequences. She is not a minor to tell her family that because of her weak angels, some uncle there made fun of her. The author did not repel him with her childish demeanor, but simply bored him as sex and image, not only with youth.
From №5: Number 10 she is responsible, but it is not her fault that the man is sticky and probably a manipulator. Whatever she did with him in the past, but it seems that this man now has the opportunity to fuck her father in some way. Do you think he should leave things like that? Because she also has a responsibility to let the situation get worse? Enough nonsense. To admit the girl before the slave has gone too far.
10, was her come on with this male solidarity! What about being an adult? What's wrong with sharing with your parents? And no, it's not her fault. The old uncle / aunt is always to blame in such a situation, because older people are expected to be more mature and calm! If a person is really mature, he will not deal with any little girl or boy at all! Author, tell yours and let him lose this one from your life and everyday life, as soon as his presence oppresses you and you feel a special attitude from him. They, like your parents, will even appreciate you sharing with them. Whoever tells you to persevere and be patient is simply in solidarity with your uncle. And those who attack you do not write to them at all.
To say, but he doesn't seem to have the eyes of his father
Darling, I think you should tell your father. It is good for him to know who he considers a friend and who is called his friend. And with whom he runs a business in which he bets his money. I don't know your family, but if you think it's better, talk to your mother first. Because one day your parents may understand and feel very betrayed by both their "boyfriend" and their daughter.
From number 7 to the author - Where am I attacking you? Just stop getting involved in movies that then only suffer and repel at some point stable people who want a normal, real and serious relationship. Haha, when you were *** you were nice, but now it's too different for you. Each of you has to ask yourself, why is this happening ?! Pleasant moments for everyone like you. :)
* Number 13, come on. So anyone with a different opinion should be attacked? * It is good to share with parents, but not when a fact is over, but when it is considered possible to happen or is happening at the moment. * Adults must be mature, but she, as an adult, could not be more mature, after all, this is an acquaintance / friend of her father? * Let's say he tells his parents what you think will happen? It happened, she can't go back, she can't complain to the police, because there is no violence, nor have there been any threats against her. She had fun, that she fell in love and was deceived is not our problem, everyone has their head on their shoulders. * If she had a violent relationship with her uncle, she would have told her parents from time to time to take action, but I don't see anything like that. Now, even if she did, they would hardly understand her, having previously been silent and had been in a relationship with him for a whole year. * The fact that he is an adult does not mean that it will not happen to her peer, as she is injured, to start complaining on the site. If I were her mother, even though I am her age, I would not be sympathetic to her, everyone has the right to make mistakes and learn a lesson. Both sides are always to blame, only if it is a violent relationship is it different. * This will not be her first disappointment in love, whether she is young or old does not matter, it depends on the person. But after every disappointment, pouring them out and thinking of yourself as a victim doesn't help at all. * Author, choose your partner for the future, do not go with adult uncles who are friends / acquaintances of your father. First make sure of the feelings and then act, be neither naive nor stupid. -Maryan does not mean that it will not happen to her peer, as she is injured, to start complaining on the site. If I were her mother, even though I am her age, I would not be sympathetic to her, everyone has the right to make mistakes and learn a lesson. Both sides are always to blame, only if it is a violent relationship is it different. * This will not be her first disappointment in love, whether she is young or old does not matter, it depends on the person. But after every disappointment, pouring them out and thinking of yourself as a victim doesn't help at all. * Author, choose your partner for the future, do not go with adult uncles who are friends / acquaintances of your father. First make sure of the feelings and then act, be neither naive nor stupid. -Maryan does not mean that it will not happen to her peer, as she is injured, to start complaining on the site. If I were her mother, even though I am her age, I would not be sympathetic to her, everyone has the right to make mistakes and learn a lesson. Both sides are always to blame, only if it is a violent relationship is it different. * This will not be her first disappointment in love, whether she is young or old does not matter, it depends on the person. But after every disappointment, pouring them out and thinking of yourself as a victim doesn't help at all. * Author, choose your partner for the future, do not go with adult uncles who are friends / acquaintances of your father. First make sure of the feelings and then act, be neither naive nor stupid. -Maryan I would not sympathize with it, everyone has the right to make mistakes and learn a lesson. It is always the fault of both parties, only if it is a violent relationship is otherwise. * This will not be her first disappointment in love, whether she is young or old does not matter, it depends on the person. But after every disappointment, pouring them out and thinking of yourself as a victim doesn't help at all. * Author, choose your partner for the future, do not go with adult uncles who are friends / acquaintances of your father. First make sure of the feelings and then act, be neither naive nor stupid. -Maryan I would not sympathize with her, everyone has the right to make mistakes and learn a lesson. Both sides are always to blame, only if it is a violent relationship is it different. * This will not be her first disappointment in love, whether she is young or old does not matter, it depends on the person. But after every disappointment, pouring them out and thinking of yourself as a victim doesn't help at all. * Author, choose your partner for the future, do not go with adult uncles who are friends / acquaintances of your father. First make sure of the feelings and then act, be neither naive nor stupid. -Maryan But after every disappointment, pouring them out and thinking of yourself as a victim doesn't help at all. * Author, choose your partner for the future, do not go with adult uncles who are friends / acquaintances of your father. First make sure of the feelings and then act, be neither naive nor stupid. -Maryan But after every disappointment, pouring them out and thinking of yourself as a victim doesn't help at all. * Author, choose your partner for the future, do not go with adult uncles who are friends / acquaintances of your father. First make sure of the feelings and then act, be neither naive nor stupid. -Maryan
It will happen that theirs will not get into doing business with this user and manipulator.