I am a girl of 21. In the end, I wonder how I could trust someone again, given that I've always been disappointed. I'm small, yes, life is ahead of me, but so far only beams, and the last time I wondered if I could trust him, I did it and I was hurt again. And when I think about it in the future, how is it possible for a person to trust someone else so much when I look at what's going on around me. People separate, cheat on each other after years of relationship. You live with a person, you love him, you have children and he comes home and tells you he wants a divorce. Or you find out from elsewhere that he sleeps with his secretary. How can you trust someone in these times! ??
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Well, you can't, and if you can, it will be difficult. It takes time and rest from relationships until you meet the right one for you.
I'm a boy of 21. I ask myself the same questions. People are very mercantile and hypocritical. Among the herd we are units that have the qualities to be different and to oppose such low behavior. I hope you find such a man. I'm looking for such a woman, but I haven't met her yet. Success! :)
If you meet your soulmate he won't dump you, and you women like "bad" guys most of the time, then why are you dumped or cheated on you .... think!
Unfortunately, God fucked you up by appointing you to be a woman. Women are always fucked up, no matter how hard they try to be loyal and honest. Do not trust so easily, and be a little selfish, put yourself first, then men will be at your feet!
All important things in life are achieved through sacrifice. And the victim in this situation is to love and trust, even though you have been hurt before and despite the fear of rejection. Everyone chooses which is more important - love, despite the chance of being hurt, or the ego, even though you are alone.
You can, but blindly, you really should never have unconditional trust in anyone, sooner or later it all ends. Such times have come that people have no respect for their choices. People do it to each other, incite each other by making fictitious comments and spreading gossip and fictional stories.