My friend has a bump on her nose and this has been quite repulsive to me lately. I know this is not the case, but I feel it. At first I did not look at this flaw, because she has a great body, face, always smells great and is dressed perfectly, but when I look at her in profile I see this hump and it repels me. She wants to have an operation, but she is afraid and I am hesitant to help her with money. Her parents stop her, they say they will cut themselves and this divides her. How can I convince him to do this operation?
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Well, I haven't been in your place, but when I hear what qualities you've listed that attract you to it, there's no point in trying to explain to you how things are in relationships.
Consumer mentality in action.
Do you know how such an operation is performed, what risks it hides and how it is recovered later? On someone else's back and 100 sticks are few. Supposedly to undergo this thing, so that later it will be good for you, as you look at her nose.
And I don't like people's crooked features, but I look at them with different eyes when I get to know them and they become nice to me in character. Do you love her? If she wants to have surgery - she will, if she doesn't want to - she won't. I don't see how anyone else can make her, except by manipulation! Do you want advice - how to manipulate it? A good plastic surgeon is needed, but there are risks of being left with a crooked septum and making it difficult to breathe, or requiring a second operation, as the desired result is not always achieved the first time. Besides, according to my observations, people are the best with their natural proportions, do you understand me? Look at her lips, her eyes, her eyebrows, her forehead, her cheekbones ... don't they fit perfectly? Do you think a little nose will go to other parts of her face? In nature, mistakes are rare, at least visually.
God, how much sorrow there is in this world. What if your girlfriend doesn't like you're dumb, how can she screw you over with a little brain transplant?
Looking at what low thinking some people have, I lose hope in humanity. Boy, leave her and look for the perfect one!
Give the chick here;) I will not look at her nose;))
You compromised on something you subconsciously disagreed with, but you ignored it and now you're naughty - well, of course. For example, if I personally don't like a man's nose, I just can't start a relationship with him - honestly. This is important to me - I don't know why, but I respect it. And I'm always happy when I look at my husband in profile and in full face!
Author, are you perfect? Don't let the chick answer you like I think hd.
Okay, and if the chick is not happy with something in you, for example, your size, how will you feel? And will you have to undergo augmentation surgery at the risk of remaining impotent if she fixes her nose?
9, I agree 100%. I'm a serious girl, but I've told my friends many times that I wouldn't be fat, dwarf and ugly. When they laugh that I am a fool, I answer them: "Girls, you are cool, but not honest. You only look at the soul, but your men are both beautiful and healthy. You just don't admit it."
Wow, to like someone for his own sake with all his features as they have become a place and emotion for a select few. Horror. Just reading such writings I am horrified at how primitive a nation we have become. Some look at size, others look at weight, still others have a complexion, still others are only interested in profit, etc. Relationships have become a market. You author is also no exception to the rule. The consolation for you is that you are in a herd with a huge part of the table. What should not comfort you, however, is that tomorrow you will be beaten by a jester, as you will hear at least 10 truths about yourself, where you do not see them at the moment Baba Torbalana
And have you ever thought that if you fix your nose, she will become the perfect chick, and then what are you for, since she will be able to find more beautiful and richer than you, if we play the consumer one?
You're just tired of her and you don't have the same attraction to her. If you "fix" your nose, then you will realize that her breasts are asymmetrical, her legs are crooked, and then it will irritate you how she grunts when she eats an apple and how she sleeps on her left side. It is normal after a while for the attraction to decrease and for you to start noticing things that did not impress you before. I think it's time to separate, because no matter how much you improve your appearance, you will always find something that irritates you. And to those who immediately jumped on you that you are a consumer and a commercial - please do not pretend to be so moral. Everyone looks at the appearance of other people. Everyone wants to be with the best looking representative of the opposite sex. Yes, the soul is important, but in the evening you want to lie down with the strong chick, not with the crocodile, right? Don't be a hypocrite!
There's a movie: "The Hal Remover" - watch it! There, the main character has a friend who only looks at the chicks to see if their middle toe is longer than their index finger ... It's crazy, you'll like it! :) Even now, I'm going to let him go, drawing for him ...