He was young when he lost his mother to cancer. He had long relationships and likes .... but he never loved, I am his first love. His best friend has asked him many times about his mother, and he changes the subject ... He is very strong, always laughs and has never shown the pain of losing her. I have never touched on this topic until one day alone he didn't start telling me and cried ... I had nothing to say and I cried with him hugging him. He said that only in front of me and a friend of his who was next to him after his death and spoke on this topic. When we were 6 months old he told his family about me and introduced me to them ... I am the first one he took to their family. His father accepted me very well (he was best friends with his dad when he was younger) and he knows what family I come from. His grandmother was so happy for me, his sister adored me ... I have slept with them many times ... I felt at home !! We haven't been together every day since October because it's in another city, and I started at university. I went out with boys and girls like him, but there was never jealousy ... there was great indestructible trust, even though acquaintances and his other grandmother wanted us to break up. We never listened to the opinions of others, we were happy. When it came to the parting because of the distance, we both cried that it was impossible without me and separation was not a solution because we were dying for each other.
We missed each other terribly, it was ruining us. He cried for me in front of the company at a gathering when they played our favorite song out of happiness that he was proud of me. There was no jealousy, there was trust, understanding, support, we had no complexes because our companies separated and he was in one, I in the other and we did not grumble why we are not in one, we respected our privacy, we quarreled, we did nonsense, we forgave each other, we gave each other chances ... in general, our relationship was equal to freedom !! We were together for 9 months and there were scandals about nonsense, but it is normal for any relationship ... For 1 month we have been separated at his request, saying that it was because of scandals and told me to leave his life. After 1 week when we met, he said that he hates me ... People, please express your opinion, how will his love evaporate or he says it without thinking about it? HELP !!!! After 1 week when we met, he said that he hates me ...
People, please express your opinion, how will his love evaporate or he says it without thinking about it? HELP !!!! After 1 week when we met, he said that he hates me ... People, please express your opinion, how will his love evaporate or he says it without thinking about it? HELP !!!!
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With or without scandals, with complete happiness or without it - all this. Love evaporates after three months. Love is a trap for naive people and an instrument of the Matrix for the purpose of self-reproduction, most often meaningless because of itself.
Look now, this is your point of view. There are "nonsense" scandals in a 9-year marriage between people who love each other. In a 9-month relationship of young people in love, everything should be flowers and roses. Who started these scandals? You? You describe some idyll, some complete harmony in the relationship and suddenly ... a scandal. What were these scandals for? Give an example, describe a situation that ended in a quarrel. Love doesn't just evaporate, nor do you hate someone suddenly and for no reason. I guess most commenters here will tell you that he met another, but I don't believe so. I rather suspect that you are not saying everything.
Maybe there's another one, and that's why he tells you to hate it easier. Or he is angry that he broke up with you, but his pride prevents him from telling you that he wants you again and he was wrong.
I absolutely support number 3!
He still loves you, but HATES that he loves you. However, once he has done so, it is better to cross him out of your life. He's obviously as emotional as you are. You better find a more balanced partner who doesn't act like an emotional wreck. With this one you will only experience drama after drama and you will be in the series non stop.
No, you're just dealing with an emotionally unstable person. I guess around 20, every girl around that age has met at least one. Don't waste your energy trying to understand why you broke up. The truth is, he doesn't know either, but you don't need one, he'll just pull you back. Come to me, you can't expect trust from such a person for future plans and family. Glad you got rid of it.
Leave the boy alone, normally shouting scandals for 9 months, you're not well.
Number 7 you're not good, no quarrels the connection is not a connection. I had such an ex, who sometimes abandoned me and disappeared without a trace, sometimes came back from nowhere. Like someone said come to me come to me can't. If he loved you very much, he would not leave, but would try to mend the relationship. He dumps you, and does not give a specific reason, the former writes to me to this day, seven years have passed. Even if he wants you back, let him try, don't ask him you won't get an answer. These cowards always leave like mice.