I am a young man of 22 years, At Christmas, at the table for a simple dispute on a normal topic of life, I defended my opinion, but my mother's friend aggressively as a primitive creature raised my voice and my mother intervened to say that it is not good at Christmas to talk this way and stop, at which point this man got up from the couch and aggressively started screaming and shaking. With the words that he was not guilty of anything, but he was shouting and behaving in the most disgusting and rude way, as if he would jump on both of us and beat us. Things were going almost to battle. My mind prevailed and I hugged my mother and reassured her. I did not say anything bad or offensive, I just defended my thesis on the topic we commented on. A few positive things can be said about him as a person, but the negative ones are tens and tens of times more. You can't talk to this nervous person. He comes home from work and sits on brandy and salad. I don't know if his mother wears it, but in general he cooks and cleans sometimes. They do the housework with their mother together, sometimes just her, sometimes just him. His understandings and way of thinking are outdated and he cannot be given reason. For him, young people are useless and he grew up at the right time. He talks about how arrogant and stupid people were, how bad his bosses were at work. That he is hardworking is hardworking, but he cannot shout aggressively at the table and at the woman you live with. I still tremble at this scandal just remembering. I was on the scales to get up and act with force, but my mind prevailed and I decided to shut up and hug her. I want to emphasize that such scandals have happened before, he shouted at my mother in front of me. But as in this case it was not. Last Christmas he also ruined it in a similar way with his anger and aggression. So I am writing this one in order to advise me what to talk to my mother, because I have nothing to talk to him about. I'm considering stopping talking to him altogether, but that will reflect on my mother. Because this man is primitive and stupid. I wonder if I should shake his hand when we see each other and if I should talk to him. I don't think it's worth it at all. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). In principle, I do not visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately. because I have nothing to talk to him about. I'm considering stopping talking to him altogether, but that will reflect on my mother. Because this man is primitive and stupid. I wonder if I should shake his hand when we see each other and if I should talk to him. I don't think it's worth it at all. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). I don't usually visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately. because I have nothing to talk to him about. I'm considering stopping talking to him altogether, but that will reflect on my mother. Because this man is primitive and stupid. I wonder if I should shake his hand when we see each other and if I should talk to him. I don't think it's worth it at all. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). I don't usually visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). I don't usually visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately. My mother and I made the mistake of being good people. The pathetic disgusting primate is obviously at work and in society he is peaceful and meek and his nasty energy kills somewhere (in this case on me and my mother in similar situations). In principle, I do not visit them, but my mother has lived with him for many years. I live separately.
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There is a high probability that he will envy you for your youth, for the fact that life is in front of you, and he has already "withered". I notice similar behavior in many men of that generation. Usually forgive people who only now have realized that they "live" but to be young at that time ... and comes the malice against the young. They start fighting in the chest and killing complexes, talking about barracks and the like, lying on old laurels and made up or decorated and so on. And when you are around and see the young man who has yet to have everything he can only dream and dream about ... and when he says to himself "hey, now with that mind I would be his age" and she makes up stories, and she meekly deceives how great he is, he wants to believe and he's ok. However, it does not pass in front of you: ) that you even defend your thesis and he feels that he is very old and a fool. Do not aggravate the relationship otherwise, apparently your mother is used to it and brushes his ego. The problem for him is you are young, with character, a reason for envy for him. If he is not aggressive in principle, as long as he helps at home, hardworking, your mother knows how to manipulate his ego and make him believe that he is great, let them look at each other. I bet that if you are with a friend of this age as a guest, your uncle will be quite naughty to convince you how great he is, and howl tt tc :) don't get attached to him. that he was great, let them look at each other. I bet that if you are with a friend of this age as a guest, your uncle will be quite naughty to convince you how great he is, and howl tt tc :) don't get attached to him. that he was great, let them look at each other. I bet that if you are with a friend of this age as a guest, your uncle will be quite naughty to convince you how great he is, and howl tt tc :) don't get attached to him.
Ask your mother why she is with him and whether it would not be better without him. Tell her you support her, but you don't agree to live with someone who behaves that way. But it is your job as a man and a son to show him that this woman must be respected. When he hits you - there is a door and a restraining order. You can also judge him. There is a huge difference between being good people and enduring humiliation. You can be a good person without getting on your head.
My father is ashamed of me for visiting him, my mother doesn't behave that way
Don't pay much attention to him, pretend you haven't heard what he's saying - he shouldn't beat a woman. Egati and the lunatic is this friend of your mother's
I am a 30-year-old woman and I want to tell you that your assessment of him is extremely correct. Keep relying on her and your common sense. Your reaction to the holiday was as correct as possible. You hugged your mother (the woman next to you) at the height of the scandal instead of continuing to escalate with him - so does the real strong man, the emotionally mature man who is at peace with himself, the man who holds his life confidently in his hands, the strong man. If you had jumped to fight you would have fallen to his level and then he would have easily made you think that you are useless, that you do not respect her, that you are a malnourished mother, for example, etc. People like this are from a bad generation - The truth is, in fact, that they were born at the wrong time. They are like guinea pigs - they are neither pigs nor guinea pigs (now I risk robbing the hate, but health is:
I'm glad you posted this topic author. We need to talk more about these things! Not to be silent and sweep everything under the rug. It is very sad that in Bulgaria this type of domestic relationships are super common and many people accept them as 'normal', 'part of life', justify them, and some even show understanding and support for beings like your mother's husband.
Your mother has lived with her boyfriend for a long time. Apparently you don't know everything about their relationship as long as she keeps sticking to it. It is your mother who must decide whether or not to continue living with him. You are only 22 years old. Ah, this person is probably 50 years old, don't be a judge, because you yourself don't know what you will be like in those years ...