Humiliation

   I think give yourself and him some time. As far as I understand, you want an explanation for his apology, to make sure he realizes his mistake. However, even in the realization, he may think in a different way exactly what he has hurt you with. That's why it's probably not an adequate answer for you. The car ... apart from the fact that it is a vehicle, very good in the case, it was still something like the icing on the cake. with the loss he had to realize that the peaceful material life had already passed. I think that was the shock for him. Think, calm down first and when you are ready not only to insist on "yours", but in conversation (without pressure for apologies and the like) to say how you feel, but to listen to him as well. It is not easy for him at all, with everything that happens at the moment, he loses you too. He may even have deliberately provoked you, after which there is nothing, .. . maybe he thinks that you will evaporate like a car. And at the moment it is exactly like that. Do not instill in him what he needs to think and feel, it means to beg him to lie to you. Learn to listen to him, to "translate" his words and actions correctly. He is weak now, you should be his support. Yes, I understand that his behavior irritates you, but this with conversation and ... that's it. No hints, insistence on explanations and the like. The bad thing is that when you leave at such a moment ... he may lose confidence in you. but that's a conversation and ... that's it. No hints, insistence on explanations and the like. The bad thing is that when you leave at such a moment ... he may lose confidence in you. but that's a conversation and ... that's it. No hints, insistence on explanations and the like. The bad thing is that when you leave at such a moment ... he may lose confidence in you.

   As you describe it - it's all about money. Then why look for it?

   My man was almost devastated by the loss of his luxury Mercedes. "Well, that just killed me." Your man is slightly immature. Otherwise, you'd better wait a week for the negative emotions to be postponed and if he doesn't look for you within a week, you do it. Require a mature and adequate conversation about what happened. Then share in the comments what happened. Interesting story, finally something more normal in this section.

   Liglovtsi. What kind of vicissitudes do people go through ... there's nothing to comment on here, just.

   Трудно е наистина на този ранен етап от криза във вашите отношения, да се каже нещо категорично. Нито да се разделяте, нито да седите и да се измъчвате за нечии или ваши грешки. Нещо между вас сега не е наред, но пък съществува и прошка(само ако си струва)му я дай. Ако пък и той не е решил докато те няма да сложи края на вашите отношения. Като за начало може да сте на дистанция, но не виждам как ще се съвземат семейните им бизнес неща. Ти добре си го запитала защо хленчи за предмети, след като не са в добро състояние, не е редно даже да кара такава кола. Всеки иска хубава, ама като е трябвало-продали са я. Ще дойдат хубави времена, ще си купите по-хубава, а вашите отношения няма да стават по-хубави и не му позволявай да те напада пред хората. Ако е с теб не може да ти обърне гръб в първата изпречила се трудност. Успехи и дано не ти се налага повече да четеш коментарите по тази тема, а да се съберете и да си изгладите нещата :)

   Добре си направила, че си се изнесла. Нужно му е време за да си даде сметка как се държи и че излива цялата си агресия върху неправилният човек. Не може да те обижда и наранява, когато не му върви или нещо не му е наред. Другия път, когато разговаряте му кажи, че му даваш последен шанс да се поправи... може да се стресне и случката да не се повтори повече.

   As the people say - all evil for good. Sometimes you have to lose what you have to appreciate it. The short separation brings variety to a sample and provokes emotions. In my opinion, this way two partners could get rid of the feelings they have slept for years, as well as realize how much they are attached to each other and experience long-forgotten feelings. It's very sad when you realize that the feelings are gone, but it turns out that they are not gone, they just fell asleep for the moment and all these petty reasons for quarrels only ignite them again and even prove useful.

   Hey, these are the women - at the slightest indication that you may be left without sponsorship, you dry up like farts and start to denigrate the man next to you, that when I look at you and support each other.

   Both you and he are complex.

   What I can say is that in a couple where one holds the other on a leash and tries to change it to their liking, things are doomed. Basically, this is the crowning achievement of women, who often allow themselves to model to their liking the men they have a relationship with, but many men do the same. This testifies to selfishness and is not true love. Sometimes one country gets tired of compromising its desires and the things it likes to do, but it's too late. In such cases (more often the man) has already lost self-esteem and, accordingly, the respect of his partner. In such situations, the relationship is exhausted and sooner or later there is a separation. I will tell the author that if this man tries to model her to his liking, in all probability he is authoritarian and selfish in nature. In principle, it is good for a man to be the leader in a relationship, but when it comes to behavior like the author's boyfriend, I think it's too much that he doesn't like her the way she is and tries to make her what she doesn't want to be. Now, for the finale, I will say that it has happened to me personally in the past to go through a similar relationship in which I stopped being myself because I allowed a selfish woman to model me to her liking. The result: I lost myself in it, I lost my self-esteem, I stopped being who I am, but at one point I got tired of criticism for drinking beer from a bottle, watching football, wanting to do the things I love and she doesn't approves that I behave not in her way, etc. Then I objected, the conflicts were not late, and the paradox was that she herself did not like her creation and never got anything in me. Then we broke up, but I have learned the necessary lessons, and for nothing in the world would I allow a second such relationship in which to lose myself. Let the author think about this.

   From the author :)) We met to drink coffee. The first time he saw me, he said, "You're gone!" In a very rude tone. The rest of the time we talked about other topics ... not about problems. But he definitely kept his distance from me. He changed his style. Hairstyle, clothes. Now his cousin from Italy is his guest. I didn't understand it out of curiosity or watching, but I know that they go out to bars, discos. But I'm not angry. He needs to cheer up and relax. I'm not angry, but I don't know how to interpret all this. He can feel happy without me, because when we were together he wanted to be with me everywhere .... He didn't go to the supermarket home without me (even before his period of financial crisis).

   You sound pretty mature to me about a 21-year-old girl - you're probably not that old .... Decide if you love him or not. Interestingly, you were with him during a period of material well-being. If you hold on to it, you will support it even in a period of poverty, otherwise it happens a bit like that - it was nice, but when you run out of money, it's not like before. Man has built his self-confidence and the whole worldview on the world that was around him, now this world is totally different. Be patient, but only if you really want to be with him and he deserves it as a person. People need support when they are weak, then of course what they are inwardly. Then friends are sifted from acquaintances, then it is clear whether the family is healthy! Whether you look for it or not REALLY doesn't matter - it's not a game. Put your cards down on the table and talk frankly with him. Gifts are a sign that he respects you, regrets the way he has behaved, is confused and wants to show you that he cares about you, but maybe he can't express it any other way. Women, learn to accept gifts - there is nothing more demotivating than an unaccepted gift ... The important thing is to decide whether to be together. Success in the endeavor

   People, put yourself in his place for a moment. Not that I justify it, but imagine having an expensive car, a thriving business, never running out of money, etc. And all of a sudden it all comes crashing down. It's normal to be nervous, but you still have to (almost) have to rebuild everything. I don't think he's immature. On the contrary, this is what sobered him up. I support the advice of number 1 to give him some time. Let things settle down. Nothing is lost and I know it's hard to forgive harsh words (in this case criticism), but try to swallow. Again, the above is not an excuse, but no one is sinless, we are all wrong.

   I don't think you have to justify it. Difficult period or not, you do not have to tolerate criticism and bad treatment. To remark on how you walk? !! And how do you breathe doesn't it want to change? A person criticizes the person next to him when he is dissatisfied with him. If you can't figure out where the root of his resentment is, you better go on alone.

   From the author: I look forward to every next comment on the topic with great anticipation. Some have said that we are liglevtsi - yes it is. There are many injustices and miserable moments in people's lives, but it is foolish to put a pattern on a person's unhappiness, no matter what it is. The other commentators gave me hope and a chance to rethink my mistakes. And yes - I am 21 years old. And no, I'm not materialistic. I am financially dependent only on my parents. I haven't seen him at all today. At times I am calm, but he is constantly in my thoughts. I will allow myself to give myself and him time. Today I began to understand the meaning of the word patience, which is by no means simple.

   Number 8, if you want to be the richest man in the world, a guarantee that all the petite women where we are here and support each other will not notice you. The light ones stick to you anyway, since you're so mean, you haven't come across a product. :)

   Probably now that his cousin is leaving, as you say to the author below in your comment, you will be online again. He is now meeting with him and apparently he has influenced his styling, but when he returns to your "reality" he will look for you again for company, or he has decided to change radically more things. Whatever happens, you are also an author, and you have the right to be happy, right!

   Since his father's business, car and money are more important than you, you have no place there. Money is needed so we can live. That is a fact. But when you behave like a pig with the people you "love" and push them away from you because of money, then there is something very wrong with you. And his behavior at your meeting ... You better forget him and go on with your life. It's not worth bothering with G27

   From the author: I will listen to you people. Yes, we are liglevtsi! I left because I couldn't move forward with him. I love it and miss it incredibly much. From 3 days apart, we saw each other 2 times. The first time to drink coffee, the next - to take the rest of the luggage. The second time he was really rude and didn't want to look at me. Strange, until a few days ago he said that I was everything to him - mother, father, sister, brother, that I was a male girl, wife, girlfriend :)) And now he behaves as if nothing had happened. I owe his demeanor to the fact that he feels hurt, furious. Too bad he hides his emotions. There is no way, we learn from our mistakes ... supposedly. But that's not the way. Anyway - it stays at his expense. I am me and nothing can break me emotionally because I do not invest in my feelings ...

   And what a man this is. He roared that his father had sold the car. But you seem to be a materialist too. Then roar that there were no men. Catch a boy who is brought up as a man, from whom you will receive emotions and will break you from ...., and not to give you perfumes and take you to restaurants.

   you better not hang out with him he's already totally damaged he's gone find someone who isn't yet while you're young dump him this bastard

   Notice what you like, I quickly weigh them how much they cost, straight alaminut. If I were in the place of the author's friend, I wouldn't even look at her, this is a betrayal of a close person in a difficult moment for him, no matter how you name your female baseness.

   Unfortunately, I also think like number 24. The author did not have to leave him in the most difficult moment. I was in the place of the boy (I had a bad illness) and the boy who was next to me then turned his back on me ... and we were together for 2 years! No matter how hard I try, I will hardly ever forgive him ...

   H21- author ... this comment of yours, no, you're not ruined, but you're very offended that he didn't do a triple somersault, landing at your foot, in a desperate attempt to kiss the big toe of your foot. Darling, he behaved rudely after explanations from the family of .... you are everything to me, because this "everything" is gone. So, he probably also realized that it was stupid to "invest" in his feelings for you. Don't you seriously care or are you lying to yourself ?! I think you confuse pride with pride. Talk to yourself nicely so you don't regret it later. "Iron is forged while it's hot" If you want this boy, it's time to show him. He has a fever to share, but it's not that bad. Why is it so difficult for you to be an initiator in reconciliation ?! Does pride bother you ?! And are you really ready for everything to end? You love him, it's obvious, but your "hard" head ..... As long as you read me, call him, talk to him ... and admit your mistakes.

   From the author: I learned what the word "patience" means, of course, there is something to upgrade :)))) In difficult times, men need a strong woman. The fairer sex is the "magic" that governs a man's inner peace. These sentences are not thrown in vain. Only a Woman can understand them !!! After a month of analysis, paranoia and understanding of our real problem (on my part and his) - he looked for me. No, he didn't do a double somersault, as I expected, that confident man appeared with a laconic, but also quite accurate statement. The key to our love is balance. I hope we can find it!