My question is to both sexes - "Why do you think a man or woman is in a hurry in your relationship?" For example, you meet for 3-4 months, and begin some plans for the future, children and so on. It happened to me with a man recently. Relationship in the beginning, we are still getting to know each other. He started talking about a common future, children, aging together. I am his first girlfriend after a long relationship. Do you think it is strong feelings and sinking? Or fear of losing the other? Or are you in a hurry to raise the new relationship to the level of your previous one, to continue it in a way?
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What are you napping about? If you're not ready to look through your fingers and ignore blunders or awkward moments and not make a lot of compromises, where are you going?
Anything is possible, he may want to show you that his intentions are serious, he may want to hear if your intentions are serious. It is also possible that he is afraid of another separation, and you may also suggest to him with your behavior that you are hesitant. The way you asked the question makes you feel that you do not feel ready for a long-term relationship or at least you are not ready to commit to the particular person, in short you are not very attracted and you look at your current relationship as a something temporary - use protective equipment, and the rest will become clear to you in the process of getting to know.