Hello. I am a girl of 16. I don't know if the topic is for here, if it's for this site at all, but someone can still help. I feel different. For as long as I can remember, I have been very sensitive. Sometimes I get very upset about something completely normal for others. I explode easily and start crying. People don't understand me, not even my parents. Because my older sister is not like that, sometimes they think I'm overdoing it and drooling. I can't stand criticism and I'm terribly upset. My favorite thing is to put on my headphones and relate to my fictional world, strange as it may sound. Basically, people think I'm very quiet, but in fact there is always something to say. I have very few friends because people think I'm boring and I obviously don't tell them interesting things. I hate the noise, I hate someone shouting, and most of all someone calling me, which makes me upset again. I love the facts and analyze the situations. Sometimes I cry so much that I can't catch my breath for minutes. I don't fit in somewhere. People don't understand me. And the chest I wanted advice. PS I'm sorry that everything is so confused, sometimes when I start talking about something and lose the thread
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I'm an 18-year-old girl and I want to tell you that I'm the same. I take offense very easily, but I do my best not to show it. I haven't been able to give you advice or help, but sometimes knowing that there are others like you is reassuring.
This is from puberty. Your hormones are raging and changing your body. You'll be fine. This is a temporary situation and it is in order. Calm down. :)
"Sometimes I cry so much that I can't catch my breath for minutes." How many minutes did you spend without being able to breathe? You can hardly stand a minute, and you talk for minutes. Shame on you by lying so that people will believe you. You are talking absolute nonsense.
Hello! Oh I just can't believe there are others like me. I'm also 16, but I'm a boy, which is even worse because sensitivity suits girls better than boys, but that doesn't matter now. I've learned a lot this year, and one of them is that I have to be myself, not pretend to be someone I'm not, so be yourself. My other advice to you is when someone tries to hurt you in some way, whether it will be with criticism or something else, it doesn't matter, don't give in to him, just hit him back. Because the other thing I've learned is that you shouldn't be silent, so you shouldn't be silent. Also, sometimes tell yourself that people who don't understand you and stay away from you are not at your level and that you are more than them. I know most people won't agree with that now, which I wrote in the previous sentence, but this is one way not to collapse. I would also suggest that you find a hobby that you don't think about the bad people in the world. For example, I like to walk in parks, groves near the city and in general where there are birds, so I can take pictures of them. I also love reading books and watching movies, they just take me to a different, better world. Another important thing to do is when you realize that you are starting to analyze certain situations that I guess are not good, to erase them from your mind as soon as possible and to start thinking more positively. At least I do so, because I, like you, constantly analyze the bad moments and forget the good things that happen to us. That's why lately I've been trying to think more positively. You also don't have to cry in front of people, who do not deserve it, cry only in front of people who are worthy of your tears. I personally prefer to shed my tears for a good movie or a good book. Also, don't forget to be different, show people who think that nowadays all girls are the same, that they are muffins and, except for sex, they are not wrong, they are wrong and they are not right. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your story I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I am 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents are not separated. Do you understand me??? I personally prefer to shed my tears for a good movie or a good book. Also, don't forget to be different, show people who think that nowadays all girls are the same, that they are muffins and, except for sex, they are not wrong, they are wrong and they are not right. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your history I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I am 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents are not separated. Do you understand me??? I personally prefer to shed my tears for a good movie or a good book. Also, don't forget to be different, show people who think that nowadays all girls are the same, that they are muffins and, except for sex, they are not wrong, they are wrong and they are not right. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your story I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I'm 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents not separated. Do you understand me??? that they are wrong and wrong. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your history I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I am 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents are not separated. Do you understand me??? that they are wrong and wrong. And lastly, I would tell you to appreciate what you have, because from your history I am left with the impression that you still have 1-2 friends, I don't even have one and I would give everything to have at least one. And be thankful that you have a family that I'm 100 percent sure loves you, because not everyone is lucky enough to have a family or their parents not separated. Do you understand me???
Go to a psychiatrist to see if there is a problem and resolve it. We can't tell you what's wrong with you here.
As if I wrote it ..
How many days will we wait for you to post the comments ???
Hello. I understand you perfectly. I'm not just saying that, because I'm exactly the same as a character. Even that about music is also true ... I'll just tell you not to despair. Sometimes you may feel alone and misunderstood, but believe me there are many good people who would understand you and accept you as you are. The most important thing is to accept the people in your life with a smile and to be yourself. I believe you will succeed. 19-year-old girl
To number 3 I don't mean that she doesn't breathe during this time, but that it is difficult for her a few minutes after she cried ... She didn't understand but she is in a hurry to express her miserable opinion .. 1. "Be helpful to others with your comment!" 2. "Hatters are not tolerated!" ..and some people seem to be asleep If they are not observed and any comments are added, are these conditions above for decoration?
You're just sensitive, so much, you're fine. Try to control your emotions and in no case go to doctors and psychiatrists. Or puberty can affect you