Hi, I'm a 14 year old boy. My problem is that my mother makes me sign up to practice swimming because I'm weak. I like this sport and initially agreed. Then, however, I thought. I don't know why I'm ashamed to change even in front of boys. I'm just ashamed I don't know why. I'm also ashamed to wear a tight-fitting swimsuit. Not to mention the shared showers where you bathe naked. I'm just ashamed. My problem comes with the fact that I have already told my mother that I agree, and now I am wondering how to get out. I don't think I'll be able to overcome my shame, but I don't know how to get out of it. I will be very grateful if you give your opinion and help me to cope with this situation or to overcome my shame. Thank you very much in advance.
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We didn't have to take a bath ... Why are you ashamed of the tight swimsuit? Is it so small or so big that it is not normal? And the swimsuit doesn't have to be tight, you can take it a little looser. Girl who practiced swimming :)
well overcome it you have nothing to be ashamed of and they are like you stay 1/2 month and if you do not overcome it tell your mother that you do not want :)) Good luck
hello, there is nothing to worry about being ashamed of even by boys! Swimming is a very good sport, it is useful if you can't overcome it or don't bathe in a shared bathroom, don't wear a tight swimsuit and don't walk very often - for example once a week. Another option I can think of is to choose another sport - some martial art. And the fact that you are weak - you will not gain weight when you go swimming. Just if you want to gain another kilo you have to go to a nutritionist and he will tell you - when, how much and what food to eat. Once you have the necessary mass, you can enroll in sports such as swimming to shape the body. If I were you, I would tell my mother that I am dissuaded and want another sport. Upseh!
You won't change in front of the boys and you're done. Swimsuit under clothes, if you ask why you are too lazy to dress 300 times. After wetting in the corner and you're done, the same thing that happens in a woman's locker room, if your bra unbuttons and you're wearing a bodysuit, it's obvious. And as far as I know, shared showers are not mandatory, and maybe with something underneath, like in the pool, everyone has a swimsuit in the shower and then they already bathe like people. And for your mother, tell her directly, as much as I am you and ours are used to my phases. -Mom, I don't want to go swimming, I gave up, I'm ashamed to undress in front of idiots, take it the other way around ....; dd Hey, partly the tight-fitting swimsuit is sexy. I'm telling you this as a girl - swimmers generally catch our eye, as do serious boys in a sport (not tanned). You will be ashamed, how ashamed you are - a month, two ... then you get used to everything, you make a nice body without being an inflated idiot and someone is afraid of them being around you and a female audience. And if your mother is so keen on training you can do martial arts or something. I tried, as a child, I will not forget that everyone was uniquely kind and behaved as equals, nothing that I had no idea what I was doing.
Swimming is the most beautiful sport you can choose. It forms beautiful long muscles and a harmonious body, and the feeling of being in the water is simply amazing and at the same time it is the purest sport. You are ashamed of your body, but this sport will help you do it amazingly, it is also a way to overcome your complexes about your body, and this will have to happen someday ... not to mention that if you go on the beach and you amaze everyone how you swim, hardly anyone will look at your body. By the way, look at your father's body, it is very possible to acquire the same. Lola
If you're so ashamed, just tell your mother you don't want more, she'll probably understand. But if you continue, you will only win. You say that you are weak, but if you continue to go swimming you will form a really nice body, and swimming is probably the most useful sport.
author to number one: well that's not the reason. I don't know why I'm ashamed of that
Look now, I'm a girl who hasn't practiced swimming! BUT !! I'm a good swimmer, and in principle, as far as I hear from my friends, you don't have to bathe with the others NAKED .. But, let's not get carried away .. so how can you refuse? Well, just go to the calmest, tell her that you like this sport, you like it .. but for now you do not want to do it .. I would understand you, and at the same time there is nothing wrong with sharing your problem, but this is your decision! :)
Author: what will happen if I can't tell her. What will others think? If the coach wants a swimsuit.
I'll tell you what happens. Either you tell her you don't want to train anymore, or you're going to have to overcome this stupid shame! I'm sorry, brother, I'm telling you this, but it's stupid to be ashamed of the boys when you're one of them.
Well, you must be some kind of complex. Are you pretending to be a princess? After a whole physical break, we spend without blouses, and you ... you won't be as complex as a teenager. What is different about them? You are completely like them. Don't ruin your body for such nonsense! Sign up!
You will get used to it, calm down :)