I am a 14-year-old girl and I am a boyfriend with a 16-year-old boy. We have been together for 1 year and a half. In the beginning my parents knew, but then they did not allow me and I continued secretly. Unas I'm clean, I cook, and I watch my brother I go to school I don't go out and my father is still not happy I have 1 more sister she got married at 18 and it's him for that I hold me very strictly, but I don't like it . my boyfriend is a second boyfriend and he behaves very well with me, I see what the other boys are like, they are not like them. I want to marry him, I am happiest with him. My mother and father don't let me be a boyfriend with him because he was far away, but it's not like that. My father treats me badly because I'm still with him, nobody understands me, and how can it be possible to stay with the boy once I ran away and I don't know what to do again they put me on the wanted list and socially intervened but I don't know how to do it I end my life !! please help i know it's a gypsy for you !! but i would like you to help me.
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Primer my girl, you need a primer.
The biggest gypsy is your illiteracy.
At first I don't know what this spelling is, but mother dear. Secondly, at the age of 14 I caught a boyfriend that my mother didn't like and we were together for 3 years, I finally dumped him because I actually saw why my mother didn't like him and all my relatives and friends in general. So do not rush after another year you will not want to live with him maybe lol.
When I look at your spelling and thinking, you have to be from the neighborhood. If you don't study, you don't get at least a high school education, you don't have any profession, and you are in a hurry to live with an irresponsible person like you, you will really sink into the gypsies.
Are you sure of your ethnicity?
Normally, today you are in one mind, tomorrow you will be in another. And if you are in your place, you will behave strictly, otherwise you will be 16 with a child and a failed life. Learn more, enjoy your youth, and your boyfriend, if he is literate, will not run away :)
To number 3! And how did your mother know, or her relatives and friends, why didn't they like him even then ... let me hear what they told you that only then did you feel it? !!
In my opinion, in another year you will both be 18 and you will be able to live together. If you love each other, you really have nothing to worry about.
A child for love and sex has and will have time. Learn, learn and don't just think about love. Its too early. At least he finished high school. Because tomorrow you will be in the position of your parents.
Someone not only composed the topic, but also deliberately and purposefully wrote the text illiterately in order to re-expose the female class. Doesn't it impress you that for some time now someone here has been fabricating clumsy and meaningless stories in order to discredit women and / or men.
I understand that you are of Roma origin, but don't be like your brothers, fight and change things, sit down and study (you have a very, very urgent need, especially for the Bulgarian language) in principle you are small for such things, but with you they are normal. I don't know, brother, I don't know if my comment makes sense because your thinking is different. But I think wait, do your school normally, get a job, if you really love each other and then you will love each other. And you can't get married officially because you're not of legal age, so checkmate again.
11, I advise you to take advantage of your recommendation - you have a "very urgent need".
It's nice, but don't you remember that if you live with it now, someone has to feed you and pay the bills. Your boy is only 16 years old. The other thing to think about is that all day there you will only cook and clean and look after children. The parents-in-law will not let you go for walks, you will lose your education, you will be addicted to social money for the rest of your life, the day will come when there will be nothing to dress your children with and something to feed him. Is that what you want? Otherwise it's easy, you run to him again, they find you again, and so on until they give up and accept your choice, and the day will come when they will accept, after all, they have gathered in a similar way.
You wait two years, you get pregnant and you get married. At 16, you can with good reason (such as pregnancy) and without the consent of your parents. If you are not born so early, you wait until the age of 18 and get married. Just wait, you'll be together for the rest of your life.
Girl, what grades do you get, for God's sake !? A friend !? That at your age I didn't even think about it. When's your birthday, darling? Instead of expensive gifts, someone should buy you a spelling dictionary! It's normal for your father to be angry with you!