Hello, everyone! I am 16 years old, my friend is 23. We have been together for a year. And now to the problem: It's very difficult for me to let people in ... And I'm very, very sensitive. My boyfriend and I are constantly arguing about nonsense. About something he said. There is love, definitely ... BUT he is starting to feel neglected and unwanted because I am very withdrawn and the reason is our scandals. How do you feel about a 23-year-old man being dry all year round This is exactly what shows me that he really loves me. He doesn't stop or say anything, but I feel that way. It's just that with each subsequent scandal I move further and further away, even though I wanted it before, after the scandal I'm not the same person. I hope you understand what I mean. Is there a problem in me?
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Who knows what kind of boy you are ... But he probably doesn't know how smart he is to hang out with you. And they say that women matured earlier ... as physics maybe, but as mind ....
You have too much age difference for these years. If you were over 20, and he was 7 years older, there was a chance, but a teenager with a young man ... you look in different directions, I really don't know what future this relationship may have.
I am in almost the same situation, I am 17 and he is 23 ...
Nonsense I was just like you !!! in the same years I left with my friend, now we are together for 3 and a half years, (I am 19 he is 26) his parents bought us an apartment, we are doing repairs and we are very happy !! about your problem: my friend and I have promised ourselves not to quarrel over nonsense, about various everyday things and who said what - compromises are the option !!! If you truly love each other, you will come up with an option for every situation and you will not quarrel :) I wish you a lot of happiness :) show him that you love him in some kind and pleasant way so that he does not feel repulsed, this is very important!
4, you just forgot to share that you also have stable parents with whom you can always go home (you didn't have hooks instead), that you have some money aside, a profession, education maybe, but come on - good luck to you , hopefully it will be the same after 10 years, because every couple in love spends 3.5 years together, especially if there are no household problems, thanks to the old ones, but not every couple spends 7, 10 years. And while with us it would mean just a tearful separation, with you there will be children's snot, and with the author and courts, because grandparents know what is best for the little one and no court will be moved by the tearful story of the author. and will not give the child to a perpetually unemployed and uninsured, without income, without savings and a place to go
TO NUMBER 5: What do you mean by 'children's snot' ??? and I don't have parents to rely on but we're doing great !! next year I'm signing up to study, I'm currently working in my friend's shop we make money and so on !! !!
I'm 16 and he's 24 and we don't have any problems, but obviously you're not that mature. everyone is different. my mother fucks my childhood and let's say I had to grow faster, maybe that's why I have no problems ...
Let me tell you that I am 15 years old, almost 16 so to speak, and the person I want next to me is 7 years older than me. Unfortunately, at this stage we can't be together, I wouldn't want to deprive him of anything, because now I can't give him sex. We promised ourselves in 2.3 years, but I'm afraid things will change. With each passing day we move away from each other and it hurts. Rejoice, because my parents would not accept such a relationship. You are lucky :)
№7 "My childhood fucks my mother" Do you consider yourself very mature? To the author: Either you are too closed and shy, or your man cannot predispose you. My ex-girlfriend (and she was 16) and I also had this problem until I changed my approach and realized it didn't happen all of a sudden. Then everything was fine. And you will cope, I understand from your writing that you are an intelligent girl, not a pamper. Keep the man and the smart one;) M23