Hello! I am a 14-year-old girl and my friend is 28. Almost all my relatives think that I should not spend so much time with him. However, there is one small detail: they do not know that we are walking. My mother actually sees that there are some feelings between us because he makes me super cool gifts and I don't hide them. The problem is that being in front of other people does not show any interest in me. Maybe it's because no one knows and he thinks that's the way things should be, but it's very complicated now. Help me! Tell me what to do so that we don't have to hide, but also get rid of the scandals
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Girl, you are a minor! This is a pedophile!
It's just that your difference is too big, at the age of 14 a person thinks in one way and at the age of 28 in another.
what is the problem between me and my friend the difference is 10 years and we have been together for 3 years. and they didn't know us yet but they already know :)
He is much bigger than you, but if you truly love each other, you may have a future
Follow your heart, if you love it, be with it
Honey, I'm 16 and I also had a relationship with a 28-year-old. My advice is to think carefully about how your relatives and friends would react if they found out. Then talk to your friend and decide together what to do, but do not hide from anyone. If he wants you to hide, then he doesn't really love you. Everyone around me knew about me and my friend. I was often criticized quite harshly, so I prepared mentally.
Well, of course, he doesn't show interest in people to you, so you're only 14 years old. He can be suden for pedophilia, of course he is afraid
Hello I want to ask you for some advice! I'm 13 but I like a boy of 14! So far so good, but he is not from my city, I can't see him very often, we write to each other on Skype, but nothing more! I think he also feels something for me, but what exactly! He looks at me gently, speaks sweetly to me, etc.! Okay but the problem is different! My cousins live in this town and my younger cousin attends this boy's school and sometimes when they see each other they say things to each other! One day he (the boy) offered me to moan boyfriends and I refused! Then, when they saw my cousin, he told him that we had written to each other and that he had offered it to me! From there, my cousin told my grandmother and she asked me if it was true! Then, without wanting to, I heard a conversation between mom and grandma, in which grandma tells mom what's going on and tells her everything she knows! But since then neither grandma nor mom has asked me anything about it! I want you to tell me whether I should talk to my mother or leave things as they are because this thought torments me a lot, but at other times I am in love !!! Please tell me how to proceed and what to do! THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!
Girl, he is much older than you leave him or you will always suffer
Practically he can be your father !!!
I am also 14 and my friend is 26 ... We love each other and we are very happy ... There were many people who wanted to separate us, but no one succeeded ... There are no limits to love, as long as it really is to love each other! :) :) :)
Abe is enough! You are a child and he is a man! You are yet to grow and take shape as a person, and it is time for him to have a family ... In my opinion, such a relationship has no future.
People, I want to tell you THERE ARE NO BOUNDARIES FOR LOVE
about number 6: why are her friends and relatives interested in her, is she dating your boyfriend or are they?!? Once you love each other, continue !!!
Pedophile's it.
Dear chicks, you think you're boiling with love, but it's not like that. It shakes your hormone. If you don't know what it is, ask. It is not so strange to have such a difference in age between two, but since the "little one" is at least 20 years old. Do you darlings know what a pedophile is? The one who uses minors for sex. This is a crime under the law and sends him behind bars. Come on, if you love him so much, don't let him be appeased. To number 8. Don't think that since you haven't even seen each other, you're already in love. Talk to your mother. You don't know exactly what your cousins said to the boy and how much things match what he told them.
Leave it, it's very big for tanning. As you grow older, you will find a boy who will suit you. Don't worry!
but let me ask you kisses and things like that? how far have you come with him? I recommend you to leave it and go with someone of that age. I understand that you enjoy gifts but ... I'm 14 and there is one at 29 where he fixed my computer and ... abe gave me an Iphone recently and abe I avoid him because I'm scared. He invites me to play on the Wii, but I say I'm busy and he also writes me text messages with kisses and calls me sun, but he writes to me about school, but ... I try to do it I avoid but he is impudent, otherwise he did not want or say anything on such a question. And tfA that love has no limits is complete nonsense .. there is more how. !!!! MY ADVICE IS TO FUCK HIM !!!!
Hello darling ... I want to tell you only one thing ... you are 14 years old to go with a 28-year-old I know, 4e now you will not understand what I will tell you ... but I will tell you my story ... I Am 17 years old ... 1 and 5 months ago I met a girl who is now 24 ... we became very good friends ... he pampered me a lot, he bought me he had a serious girlfriend for 5 years but they separated 7 years ago months ... we became even closer ... and 4 months ago standing in the garden..on the bench he told me do you want to be together ... I told him I'm not small ..and he said I love you and I know 4e and so it is with you ... you are a unique girl ... at that moment I wanted to kiss him ... but I just said if you love me prove it .. After another 1 month somewhere I decided to try .. and it was very cool with him :) we just stood and watched the stars we went to the sea to the market together I was never happier he told me everything I will give you I am not with you for sex I love you and I know it is so but 5 days ago I received a text message .. sms from the treasure me ... I thought he would tell me he was kissing me but in the text he wrote..4e wants us to stop the connection here and 4e there is no p he just loved me a lot and didn't want to hurt me ... I was shocked ...; (but now that I think about it .. maybe that's the best way ... he promised me that we will be together again and I know that this dem will come ... !!!(but now that I think about it .. maybe that's the best way ... he promised me that we will be together again and I know that this dem will come ... !!!(but now that I think about it .. maybe that's the best way ... he promised me that we will be together again and I know that this dem will come ... !!!
Abe, are you crazy, bro ?! I'm a boy of 17 and when I fish with a 13-year-old girl, for example, I'm super uncomfortable, let alone 28 !!! This is more than unbearable .... in these years you think in one way and with each passing worldview you change and you wonder why you did such nonsense .... fuck ....
ashamed of you accept reality :)
There is no way to show it in front of other people, because it is a jurisdiction and is called pedophilia. At best, you will have to wait another 4 years (until you turn 18) before you can openly show your feelings for each other, because otherwise you can fall victim to ill-intentioned people (even yours or his parents, if they decide to you are separated) ... and if they find and gather evidence that you are having sex, they may even soak him and he is in prison.
Are you okay? what is that fashion 14 year old with someone at 28 ?? I'm 15 and moves with boys maximum 17-18 or 19! he is a pure pedophile and I think he will soon offer to fuck;))
Do you realize that you were not born when he was your age?
Oh, wow ... oh. I can't believe it ... At 13 I was playing in the street, at 14 I was entering the world ... Will you get married at 15 ??? And why not get pregnant at 16? Pffff: H
May I ask a question - why in such cases are the boys older? Why do I never see a 15-year-old boy with a 24-year-old girl for example? I know that girls develop earlier, but still ... From a girl of 15
Is that a 14 year difference? Find someone who is your age or at least 2/3 years older, not 14 ..; ]
you are small for him
People, I have to tell you that the difference between my grandparents is 20 years and they are still together, so I agree that there are no limits to love !!!!
That love has no limits, that's right. But he is 28, he will soon start wanting a wife and children .. and she is 14, she still doesn't know anything .. if she was 20 and he is 34, he is already different question ... They will break soon .. it is very small. He doesn't know anything yet. It can also be seen from her writing :) -Death_Blade ^
I'm in the same situation: (... But I like two people and the stupid difference between the years bothers me: (... And as for you. Maybe he's worried that people won't take it very well and the two of them will I think there is something between you, but as much as you want it can not continue for the simple reason that it is bigger than you :( Soon as said 37. he will ask for a family, children, and you are still so small :( Have a secret relationship until you both find the perfect scorers :)
abe this one is 14 years old, do you know how much and 14 years old, you say that you are so old, it's like going with a newborn: XX oil
I don't think this is within normal limits! There is too much age difference and it will affect not only you but also your parents over time when they find out. Imagine that one day, your underage daughter is dating a MAN 14 years her senior. I'm also a girl of 14 and I have a friend of 19. For me, this is a little more acceptable. Maybe if you find a friend on 17-18-19 .. there will be no such serious consequences from your parents and relatives, once they find out. In general, my advice is to be very careful and to be careful !!!! You hardly love each other in the same way, because the thinking of one cannot be compared to the thinking of the other. I personally am against! Of course, you know best how things are with you, how he would react, and whether you are able to take action, both to continue your relationship, and for its termination! :)
No NORMAL man of 28 years will go to engage intimately-emotionally-sexually with a girl of 14 !!!! Point! Obviously the question is NOT in the mathematical difference 28-14 = 14 years :))
This one must be very pathetic .. to go with a 14 year old .. :( shows no interest in me do your math :)
I don't know what those connections are. two years ago your menstrual cycle began and gley got caught up with some 28 year old pedophile grandfather. and what do you love him for? That he makes you very nice gifts? love is not just gifts. Have your trials in love begun so that you understand how responsible he is and how much he cares for you? There is simply no point in being with him, you still have a lot of life ahead of you. Find someone your age. These experienced over twenty are easy to deceive these underage girls who have yet to learn in life, to learn about love what it is, true friendship what it is, etc.
Why do I think he just wants to borrow you and dump you? Don't you see the HUGE difference between you? What will a MAN look for in a 14-year-old GIRL? You hardly have common topics of conversation or any feelings. Both lack true feelings: you are in love with the gifts and the attention they give you. It's best to drop it and find someone your age.
Go to parliament. Look for a man named Vlado Kuzov and ask him how he got along. Even if you're lucky and he'll shine on you, you fall for grandparents
number 45 broke me :)))))
you are 14 and that? is 28 is you think it's a little painful a
Darling, aren't you well aware that girls up to the age of 16 are considered MINORS and the relationship with an ADULT is considered to be PEDOPHILISM? Wait another 4 years (or 2 more to become a MINOR) and if you "love" yourself so much, continue with him. Don't ruin your childhood so early! 32
"32" I do not know in which country you live, but in Bulgaria sex with persons OVER 14 years is not pedophilia. Take and read Art. 49, 50 et seq. Of the Criminal Code. MINORS ARE UNDER 14 YEARS Minors are persons under 18. Do not mislead children, they are as naive today as in your time. At 14 they took their first ID card and did not fool around. They have access to information and by trying to lie to them we only lose their trust!
Number 50 sorry, but I'm 20 years old, there is a lawyer in my family and the penal code says that "pedophilia is called a sexual act with a girl / boy under 16";) I don't know what this code is, what are you people;) 32
Look at him from the other side When he was 14, you were born ....
51, I'm sorry, but I have a surgeon in my family, but you won't let me operate on you, will you? There are laws What you are talking about are art. 191,192 of the Penal Code (marital life with a person under 16 years of age) The penalties here are administrative, IF THE PERSON IS OVER 14 YEARS OLD, BUT UNDER 16 YEARS OLD I was confused - the articles that refer to fornication and pedophilia are Penal Code Art. 149 next / not 49 as I wrote / !!!! Let your relative-lawyer find them in the Penal Code and read them to you - I did not invent the laws, I was a baby then. Before you say anything, take and READ THE LAWS YOURSELF. THE CHILDREN DO IT. Having a relative-lawyer is not relevant and does not make you right. There are laws, read! --------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------------------------- -------------------- Section VIII of the Penal Code of the Republic of Bulgaria Debauchery Art. 149. (Supplemented, SG No. 28/1982, amended, SG No. 89/1986) (1) (Amended, SG No. 107/1996, SG No. 75/2006) ) Whoever commits an act in order to arouse or satisfy sexual desire without intercourse with respect to a person under the age of 14 (!!!!!!), shall be punished for fornication with imprisonment of one to six years. --------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------------------------- -------------------- Art. 150. (Supplemented, SG No. 28/1982, amended, SG No. 89/1986, SG No. 107/1996, SG No. 75/2006) Whoever commits an act for the purpose of arousing or satisfy sexual desire without intercourse with respect to a person who has reached the age of 14 (!!!!!!), by the use of force or intimidation, by the use of his helpless state or by bringing him into such a state, shall be punished by imprisonment of up to six years, and in a particularly severe case - by imprisonment of two to eight years. --------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------------------------- -------------------- Dear children, clever - The legislator has given you great freedom! Be informed, but know that you also have a great responsibility. With unwanted pregnancies and diseases you can destroy your future! P.P. There is a NK on the Internet, read. There you will see that the Legislator still protects people under the age of 18 in general. They can convict anyone of rape without having to prove that it was violent, but only that there was sex / fornication (and a simple tongue kiss is one of the latter). Do not have sex with minors, although the law allows it. Children are easy to manipulate and under pressure from parents / teachers / relatives they can convict you of rape !!!!
Girl, are you crazy? You're just starting to develop, and you've already run after men. To everyone with the opinion "love is without borders" the difference between a relationship between people aged 25 and 39 and 14 and 28 is huge. At 14, she is just a child. A naive child who is still learning and has a lot that he has yet to understand. And at 28, it's time to start a family. Someone at this age to go with a 14-year-old is like going with his daughter .... My advice (maybe it will sound a little sharp) - stop getting into various movies and run while you can :) To 45 - This broke me
Look now! I'm also 14, but I'm a boy. I don't think it makes sense to walk, because the age difference is very big :)
abe a girl with a 28-year-old tva is unrealistic .... The only thing he wants is for you to let him go and after tva to fuck you if you haven't already let him go and he stops to avoid you and tva is possible or he has realized that you have no future and can to be your father and therefore to move away from you .... DO NOT DO THINGS FOR WHICH YOU WILL REGRET FOR A LIFETIME :)
It may be too late to respond to this message, but what will I lose. Maybe you have already found a solution to your problem. I have the same problem and I want to ask you for help. I am also 14 years old and my boyfriend is 26. We have been together for three months and I can no longer stand it. I want to tell my parents about him. How did you tell your parents? The big problem is that we met in vbox7. com (ie on the Internet). Two weeks after we met, we started talking on Skype and he told me he loved me, but I love him too ... so much! After three weeks I finished 7th grade and I invited him to come to the city where I live and he agreed. I want to tell my parents then, but I think that after this day my whole life will collapse. I ask all of you for help! Where am I wrong? I don't want to part. :(
A friend of mine has a boyfriend of 32 as much as my mother, and she is only 16 years old. They are together, but I don't know if she loves him because he has money, and she just tells me how many things she bought. I told her if she didn't like him until he dumped him, but she told me that he was rich and wouldn't leave him, that he supported her, and so on.