Hello, I have been in love with a Bulgarian woman for some time and she also shares my feelings, but we are doomed to hide because her parents do not approve of seeing me. Although they do not know that there is something between us, they still do not approve of it. .. they are afraid that something serious will happen between us, but they don't mind us being friends and I don't know what to do ..
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I understand how you feel, because I experienced the same thing, with the difference that I am Bulgarian and he was Turkish ... I say it was because our relationship ended a few years ago. Now briefly my story ... we met and fell in love very much, I can even boldly say that he was my first big and long love. Everywhere and we were always together, my friends accepted him very well, even my parents liked him .... BUT his mother me - no. And that's where the problems started ... when she saw that things were starting to get more serious between us ... it separated us. I will not explain exactly how he achieved it, but he succeeded. We both suffered, we saw each other secretly, but things were no longer the same, there was too much pain and insults. I put an end to everything between us. But time heals everything. We're friends now, we hear each other and see each other ... but that's all. I even sometimes wonder how such great love turned into a friendship. So, I don't know what to advise you, because I know how difficult such a love is, but I wish you not to go through what we went through and not to allow anyone to try to separate you, fight for your love ... don't give up like me. Success!
I agree with NUMBER 1 :) she said many strong words and I am really glad that she set an example with her life! Listen to her, remember this "don't give up like me." Fight for your love and don't let anyone or anything separate you, if your girlfriend is fighting with you, give up, whatever happens, but if she bows her head or tries to put an end to everything, already it won't make sense, if that happens try to forget it and don't forget that there is always a way and life doesn't end with a broken relationship, now I'm giving you an example with the worst, because I think that's why you should always have 1 on um .. I wish you a long and strong relationship with a lot of love and passion! Good luck!!!
Love can hardly survive and survive in such a case. Sometimes manners and traditions are stronger than love. It is almost impossible for one of the two partners to completely give up their affiliation for the sake of love. Many things divide us and bring us together too little. The main thing that connects us is that we are human beings. But I know from personal experience that people who define themselves as Turks never accept us Bulgarians as equal beings. We are always in their subconscious something like gyauri, paradise, etc. And in this regard, we must completely renounce our morals and accept fully and unconditionally their code, which is related to Islamic values and traditions.
My friend is Turkish, I am Bulgarian, we have been together for 4 years, life and health next spring we will get married, we also got engaged. By this I mean that, despite everything, such connections are entirely possible. Just don't give up. In the first year we had problems with our parents, but in the end everything was fine, they saw that we cared for each other and we would not separate for anything in the world. They reconciled, a little later they expressed a desire to meet me. And so far, they keep asking about me and sending me greetings, his grandmother sews various things for me and in general we went through a lot to get here, but it's worth it. Be strong and don't let them influence you in any way. At first I thought this relationship was doomed, but God knows what to do. If you really want to be together, fight. I did so and I was right. I can give you more examples of such connections. Blood and water do not flow, so your families will reconcile, sooner or later they will accept you. I'm not saying it will be easy, but it's worth it. I wish you success.
"Love is the answer and you know it." My friend is also of Turkish origin, but I have never felt that he is different from other people, except that he loved me more and showed more respect for me. We are no longer together at this time, but even now he respects me more than some of my other friends while we were together. How good a person is is not determined by his race or religion, no matter how important they are of our very being ... Unfortunately, when a person builds such a relationship, he has to take into account many other people's opinions and influences, which inevitably has its influence on each relationship. The hardest part is going through them and overcoming them. I am convinced that your love will win! I sincerely believe in this! Sh.K.
My friend is a Turk and I am a Bulgarian. At first I had a lot of worries about the relationship because he is smaller than me. But now I do not regret anything. He loves me very much, not to mention respect. He cares a lot about my opinion and everything I think is right. Their family likes me very much, they are against us, but I want to be with him and I will be. We have plans to live separately so that my parents do not interfere. I love him very much and I think it is worth fighting for your happiness. Good luck :-)
Are these friends of yours from Turkey to call them Turks or are they Bulgarian Muslims?
They are Bulgarian Muslims.
So you are all Bulgarians, only you profess different religions ... - so what is your problem then? After all, God is one, only in the world he is called by different names ....
Yes, in reality it is, but not everyone perceives it that way. It doesn't matter to me, but it does to others. It is bad when loved ones do not want to believe that such love can exist. He does not want me to change my religion, we have talked about children, he agrees to be brought up in my religion, their names to be Bulgarian. Their parents love me very much. But that's right, time will tell what will happen.
I was also in such a situation, I am Bulgarian, and he was a Turk (I say he was because he died), but I will tell you that you have to fight for your love against everyone and everything if necessary. What have we been through, nightmare .. We promised ourselves before God that only he would separate us, this happened alas and I do not live now, but I exist ... I can write to you a lot, but my pain is HUGE .. Only you I say - really fight if you love each other so much.
Fight! Success!
It doesn't matter religion, the important thing is to love each other.
When two people love each other, it doesn't matter what the nationality is ... Be with her and enjoy her, compatriot!
And if she was German, or English, or Russian, would they accept her? Or just because she is Bulgarian, they don't want her for that? This is very stupid, especially nowadays.
I am glad that at least some of the people understand each other, which warms me from within. Despite the hatred on both sides, which is very strong, unfortunately :( to each other, I have always believed that despite the obstacles, be it political, religious, etc., there will be understanding. Love each other, there are no limits to love. We live one life, let's experience it fully!
Well, become Christians too. It's easy, it's quick and it doesn't hurt!