Hi, I'm a woman and I'm a lesbian, I don't find anything shameful or bad in that, so I feel good. I recently started a new job and the circle of people I work with is quite limited in many ways. First I want to ask you what is your opinion about homosexual orientation and my second question is do you think that if I do not hide in my new job there is a possibility that it will affect my development in the company in question
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If you are a lesbian and you like it, go on and don't care! But one piece of advice don't show it in the workplace.
Hello! Homosexuality is inherent in man and has always existed. The point is that until recently, homo was a dirty word that was only mentioned quietly and in whispers. But what shame can there be in the nature of a person? !!! Let's not forget that in ancient times the ancient Roman emperors praised not only their female adventures ... Unfortunately, the difference has always scared many people ... So it is with homosexuals. I have a feeling that people refuse to understand them more than they can't. Personally, I am absolutely heterosexual, which, however, does not prevent me from having friends with a different orientation - I do not accept that they are different cancellations or less capable. On the contrary! But there is always one but. Just because I take things that way doesn't mean everyone shares that thinking. I still think that people with a different orientation are accepted with difficulty and prejudice. Too bad, but a fact. If your colleagues are intelligent people, then you should not have any worries and reservations. But that's only if they're really sensible people. The other thing that might be in your favor is that you are a woman. I don't know why, but homosexual women are viewed with a better eye than men with such an orientation. From me so much. Greetings and head up - it's you and everything is in your hands!
Hello! First of all, congratulations on acknowledging who you are and accepting yourself as such. This requires great courage. Once you have it, you have to show it at work. Intelligent people understand that professionalism is most important in the workplace. Of course, it is very likely that you will encounter a misunderstanding, but you know best how much it costs.
And I like men, but some time ago I was attracted to a woman and I was shocked to find out that she was a lesbian. I find it strange to be in her presence, but no one else has attracted me. And yet men are revered by me. And on the subject - I do not see anything shameful in this and my colleague who is gay is probably the most respected in the whole company
Hey congratulations, for being brave and admitting ... I still don't have the strength to do it and it's eating me from the inside. Tip - be yourself, who loves and respects you will always be by your side.
I am in no hurry to congratulate, as we are all anonymous here. Whether to show your sexual orientation clearly depends on your environment, on the thinking of your colleagues and most of all on your boss. If I'm in his place, no problem - go to bed with whoever you want. But be honest with the person you are with! I'll tell you exactly what I mean. I divorced because of my husband. I had no explanation for many things in his behavior, I was fine with him and our children. I soon learned he was gay ... and the puzzle came together. He lied to me, he only used me as a cover. I hate him now! The children also understood, it turned out that everyone knew except us. And they hate him, they don't want to see him ... Now he has no explanation for passing him by as a stranger. And all this is because of the lies, it sucks to be lied to! This is whatever you decide to do,
From the author: I am honest and open to my family, friends, but I am afraid to show it at work because once I was fired solely because of my sexual orientation.
Don't show it at work to save yourself any trouble. Although personally I do not understand who and why should be the one with whom you sleep. Unfortunately, our society has not yet grown up ... and is full of idiots.
Without wanting to sound discriminatory, and yet it is a fact - if your mothers and fathers were like you, you would not be in this world (right, right?). Are things just about sex - one day you have to live with someone, to build something, is life just what happens in bed? And what can one woman give to another woman - support, strength, child? What? Hiding, shame and poor quality sex. I do not understand you. I'm sorry for you. And I do not agree with the so-called genetic talents, but rather a matter of fashion.
(to number 9) Didn't it happen to you number nine that you fell in love with the wrong person? If so, why are you judging ... and what does it mean to feel sorry for such people with a different orientation. It is a pity that men in our society are emotionally limited, and if they can satisfy a woman physically, then they cannot satisfy her mentally. That is a fact and you know it. There is the thing that when a woman is with another woman in an intimate relationship for one reason or another .... there is no going back. It is incomparable! Only those who are familiar with these feelings can understand what I am talking about. And the fact that sex was incomplete hahahaha you have to take! I can only agree for the children! You're right there ... you need a man ... or at least part of him!
To № 9 - this is a pure test of your malice, how can you judge something you do not understand, your narrow-mindedness is complete and pathetic, let everyone live their lives and do not be a judge tomorrow and you will not be judged.
Number nine, you don't understand - well, don't get involved in things you don't know. My best friend grew up in a lesbian family. Both her biological mother and the other are terribly cool people and have raised her wonderfully. We live in the 21st century, darling, I don't know if you've heard of sperm donors and so on. 'If your parents were like that, you wouldn't be here.' Hahaha. I'm really sorry for you, I'm very sad to see people like you. And you are so bad that you contradict yourself. First you ask if it's all sex, then you say it's bad. Ha. Haha. Well, honey, it's not all sex. I don't know if you've heard of the word LOVE. Because I fall in love with a man, not with his penis o.0 'One day you have to live with someone, to build something, is life just what happens in bed?' Well yes. And if I fall in love with a woman and she loves me, nothing prevents me from living with her and building something. And yes, it will give me support and strength, both. And many other things. Why do you think you can get support and strength only from a man with a penis ??? I'm not hiding. I am not ashamed. And yes, I'm proud to be a lesbian. I have a great job, my boyfriend is a colleague, her salary is quite good, and everyone knows about our relationship and yet they accept us as normal people, they even enjoy us. And sex - ahaha, you will have to take. So you better shut up instead of speaking unprepared. From where to where someone like you will tell me who to fall in love with and that I am in love only because it is a matter of fashion. Take her to your husband and don't interfere where you don't care. Why do you think you can get support and strength only from a man with a penis ??? I'm not hiding. I am not ashamed. And yes, I'm proud to be a lesbian. I have a great job, my boyfriend is a colleague, her salary is quite good, and everyone knows about our relationship and yet they accept us as normal people, they even make us happy. And sex - ahaha, you will have to take. So you better shut up instead of speaking unprepared. From where to where someone like you will tell me who to fall in love with and that I am in love only because it is a matter of fashion. Take her to your husband and don't interfere where you don't care. Why do you think you can get support and strength only from a man with a penis ??? I'm not hiding. I am not ashamed. And yes, I'm proud to be a lesbian. I have a great job, my boyfriend is a colleague, her salary is quite good, and everyone knows about our relationship and yet they accept us as normal people, they even make us happy. And sex - ahaha, you will have to take. So you better shut up instead of speaking unprepared. From where to where someone like you will tell me who to fall in love with and that I am in love only because it is a matter of fashion. Go to your husband and don't interfere where you don't care. And sex - ahaha, you will have to take. So you better shut up instead of speaking unprepared. From where to where someone like you will tell me who to fall in love with and that I am in love only because it is a matter of fashion. Take her to your husband and don't interfere where you don't care. And sex - ahaha, you will have to take. So you better shut up instead of speaking unprepared. From where to where someone like you will tell me who to fall in love with and that I am in love only because it is a matter of fashion. Take her to your husband and don't interfere where you don't care.
From the author to number 9: I want to ask you, don't you suppose that I probably don't fall in love (excuse me for the vulgar expressions) with a pussy or a penis ??? It is more logical to fall in love with a man, and not with his gender or his genitals .. A woman can give me the same support and support that even stronger than the one a man can give me .. I do not have nothing against men, most of my friends are men, but they just don't appeal to me in that aspect. And you can't say if sex is good or not if you haven't tried it. I do not hide behind masks, I live as I am, real, and I am not interested in the imposed limits and I will NOT play in them ... And have you thought about the advantages of living with a woman? When you're in ... let's call it the naughty days of the month, will your husband understand you the way another woman does? I doubt.. After all, everyone makes a choice for themselves, I don't judge you for what you put between your legs and who you go to bed with, nor do I evaluate sex with a man, because it just doesn't attract me ... so, darling, don't judge yourself either! Come on health ...
A heterosexual man writes to you: For your second question - my advice is not to advertise your sexual orientation at work, you go to work to make money, not to look for a boyfriend; if understood - a great miracle, but really do not try to emphasize their sexual preferences, people are suspicious of the different and what is not typical of them. This way you will save - men to try to want to sleep with you because they want to try something different, and women to wonder if you will not want to take them off (and especially - why you do not want to take them off); In both cases, you save yourself annoying misunderstandings and relationship problems that you have to see every day - unless they are all broad-minded people, but I have never seen such a job. For the first question - an ex-boyfriend, with whom we are still very good friends, is bisexual. She is now married and has two wonderful kids. If men are not attracted to you, there is nothing wrong, just give yourself a clear answer whether they are attracted only to women or men. It `s your life.
I'm bisexual and I really like it. Do not hide your orientation from anyone. I did not hide it and I did not lose my friends. But it would be good not to really show it at work ...! :)
Abe people tell me she can be with her husband and wife
I accept lesbians and even admire them, but gays definitely not! Don't share anything at work!
I'm not disgusted by my quota to talk to myself
I've never been with a woman but I really want to try it myself, I feel I'm curious, but I want to do it with a woman who knows how to do it
I'm also. I don't see anything wrong with that, on the contrary ...
I'm a lesbian too. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. On the contrary! :)
I'm a lesbian too, there's nothing wrong with that! :)
I'm a lesbian too :)
and I'm a lesbian and what of you. Does anyone give you an account of who you sleep with ????? as long as you attacked us. just because we don't sleep with a man doesn't mean we're fucking aliens !!
And I'm a lesbian, my girlfriend and I will have a child (hopefully it's a boy) I just wonder when he grows up who will he call Daddy !? Won't they make fun of him at school ... how will this affect his psyche? : S And when he is brought up by 2 women, won't he also be pampered? O_o 100 for 100, there is nothing wrong with being the other way around and making pathetic attempts to start a family ... but I think you lack a healthy male x * y !? : D: D: D
I'm even more inclined to hetero, I've only been with 1 woman but 5 years, I adore men in bed, but I can't talk about love and emotional feelings until then, so I'm nowhere, always thinking about London and her: '(
I'm a girl, I like my boys, I'm attracted to girls too ... and so I don't see anything wrong with being a bisexual lesbian, etc ... even I like being like that .. ..
Be yourself! Never let fear or others ruin your built life! What about someone else being different and having different tastes? But this is what to do, our conservative society will not change soon. The fact that you are a lesbian does not make you more incompetent in any ethical relations than others. In fact, in today's world, do the words ethics and morality exist - NO! Congratulations on acknowledging what you are like in front of others! I personally would not do it! And it may sound a bit like an advertisement, but as Tupac said - "Only God can judge me!" ....
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I imagine they understand me at work that I am a lesbian. They will comment on it for sure while they are alive ... don't share it at work! Simplicity is everywhere in Bulgaria. there is a complete misunderstanding on the issue and absolute nonsense is being said!
number 9 - that's right!
There is a movie about lesbians, it is said to kiss Jessica, I forgot some, but write it will come out and you will answer your own question about whether it will interfere with your work or not ... And in this I think that there is nothing wrong with everyone free to decide what he wants to be once you have chosen this path go it and look straight ahead, do not allow anyone to judge you ... Good luck :)