This year I met an amazing girl. At first I wanted to be friends because we have many common interests, but with each passing day I realized that I fall in love with her. She is smart, beautiful and kind. There are several problems: I am shy and I don't know how to admit it to her, she studies in another school, she is full of much more athletic and nice boys around her. What should I do? Should I confess to them?
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Dude, shy or not, you take a flower (a nice, fresh rose), go and acknowledge it! After such a confession, I am responding to a girl to whom I had only fleeting sympathies and no feelings! Only because of her courage, excitement, trembling voice ... Eventually things worked out! Someone just has to light the spark. If you wait for it, it is very unlikely to happen. Girls are usually the passive side when starting a relationship. If they are active, this is not a good sign, because it is very likely that he will continue to try to dominate. Your human value has nothing to do with the athleticism of your body. True - the athletic body shows a healthy mind and great consistency in action, but usually means limited intelligence. Not everyone can be an athlete! You can be a genius scientist, writer, thinker, businessman, etc. - You don't need muscles for all this. Although a good body would serve you better and longer. Think about this in the future. Even if the girl does not respond, at least you will be aware of things and you will not suffer for years with illusions, the rupture of which will hurt you even more. Remember, too, that sometimes women, especially after having several consecutive disappointments, go back to a man who is confident, stable, punctual, understanding, and has shown them that he has feelings for them. There is always a moment of interest in women's love, and this is genetically set, for the sake of securing the future generation. So, if you are really a Man, and not some womanizer, airman and tailor, you should not be afraid at all, ashamed, but you should be proud of your feelings and express them with an open face. Such feelings for such a man would be an honor and a privilege for any woman. Head up, think seriously about your self-esteem, and success in your endeavor!
You are the boy, the man - you go talk to her, make compliments, make her laugh, smile if you want to look dumb even. You admit, and whatever happens, bet on a flower, candy or another nice gesture. You have to impress her, and get rid of that shame you're not a girl after all. You leave a man anyway, and so if it happens, if there are no others. Hug her, lift her, hang her, hold on well and let her feel and feel special. It is.