I am ashamed that I am of Roma origin. As a 15-year-old boy, I studied at American College Arcus, years ago my father decided that he did not want me to grow up in the environment in which he grew up, and we moved to another city, far from my relatives. I am ashamed that I am a gypsy, I get good grades at school, I have dreams, etc. But when I look at my school how they are against gypsies, I get very naughty ... I have white skin, my mother is Bulgarian, but I'm ashamed ... I like a girl, but I don't think she'll want to hear about me if she finds out I'm a Roma. My relatives are irresponsible people, commit thefts, for which I am very ashamed :(
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The important thing is what kind of person you are, it is normal for people to have an opinion about the Roma because most of them are like your relatives, but as it is called there are gypsies and gypsies, a colleague is also a gypsy, but a responsible person of 45 has two children for whom takes care of the mass 4-5, works, supports his family and is a dude in general. I've never bothered to go out to bars and so on. You have nothing to be ashamed of, those who should be ashamed do not.
If someone is judging you because of the origin or color of your skin, then that person does not deserve your attention.
Number 2. Which Bulgaria do you live in? And to the author, go to another country such as England which is multi culchral there you will feel really free. There is no hope for Bulgaria. She died for her own common people. I tell you this as a 100% pure Bulgarian who lives abroad. I hate when I come home and hear my father, he was a gypsy, he was a nigger and such nonsense. I have shouted at him more than once when he mentioned something like that. Because he is simpler than those he offends. But that's another topic. Get out of there!
For a Bulgarian woman, it will always matter whether you are a gypsy or not. If the girl you like is English, Russian, Armenian or it doesn't matter what else you will be a foreigner and accordingly she will not care if you are a gypsy, a Bulgarian or something else.
You are a wonderful person. God created every single person, as gypsies, Bulgarians, Vietnamese, Chinese, Indians, Negroes .. All people are God's creations, do not be ashamed. Look in the mirror and look how perfect God has made you, you have arms, legs, face ... Everything in you is amazing. Think for example if you have a cold, runny nose .. And you lose your sense of smell for 2-3 days because of this runny nose and do not feel what you are eating. You are perfect and without only one of God's creations in your body you are nothing ... Don't be ashamed of yourself. Who doesn't like you to watch your work. You are an honest person and rejoice that you are alive and well.
Study, develop and prove to everyone that you have nothing to do with your relatives. There are also many respected gypsies in Bulgaria. Have you ever heard anyone say something bad about Prof. Chirkov? A great doctor saved thousands of people. So, striving to become like him, in the sense of not necessarily being a doctor, but being a good professional and living a life radically different from the usual for gypsies. Then no one will even think to compare you to the sludge from the ghettos.