I am 28 years old and I have been married since I was 3, but I still worry about being naked in front of my husband. I have complexes because I am slightly round. This shame of mine prevents me from experiencing my sexual fantasies. then I do not relax completely and it is not possible to whine every day. Give advice.
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Hello. And I'm a little chubby and until recently I thought no one would like me like that. Recently, however, I turned my back on all prejudices about my body and realized that what I had been thinking so far was just some kind of my imaginary complex. I don't think you have to worry about your husband once you're married, so he found something in you that he can't find in another woman. So unleash your sexual fantasies and show him what kind of woman he has found :)
I can't give advice, but I can give an idea: sleep naked so you'll get used to the thought :)
At such moments it is very easy to give advice from the side :)) Darling, round or not, your husband accepted you as such, if he wanted you to change, he would just tell you. Stop pouring and self-pity, and find time and energy to do sports, it does not require any funds - sneakers for 5 leva and look around for the nearest pedestrian alley. And you don't waste time - you need no more than an hour a day. And eat more vegetables. You are the one who has to model the body he wants to feel good. And the feeling that they are looking more and more will come very soon, and it is very nice, believe me !!!
Sometimes when you are alone at home, start the following procedure: undress naked and stand in front of the mirror. Start bragging, enjoying your beautiful naked body, the beautiful soft curves - start with the breasts, look at them, caress them, think how sexy, juicy and sweet they are. Continue on the hips, tell yourself how feminine and arousing it is for men, caress your ass and think what pleasure your husband feels when he touches it with his hands, etc. A woman, even a little full, even not so beautiful and sexy, if she accepts herself as such and others will strain it! The sexiest are the confident and arrogant women :) SUCCESS
I think your husband likes you the way you are. Don't worry about getting undressed. Summer is the hottest season and you have the opportunity to show him a little more flesh. Try it! Plus, men like more relaxed women in bed.
Honey, believe me, there is hardly anything more beautiful for a man than a naked female body!
You are no different from 80% of women. But why do you think men only go to bed with models. I'm 40 and my wife is not a model at all, and I like watching her naked. If your husband is happy, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Maybe you run to the other room every time you change. What you are trying to hide, he saw a long time ago.
See you say a lot of beautiful and nice things, which unfortunately are not very true. Personally, I would have liked it better if my wife hadn't undressed in case she was fat. Sleeping naked is not a good idea because in the morning no one knows in what position they will wake up. My advice is to start taking care of your body instead of complaining. After all, we only live one life, isn't it too short to allow ourselves to look awful. And the cowardice that makes a person suffer for three years for something that can change in three months disgusts me more than bacon. Salute this from me
It is complete nonsense to be ashamed of your body. I am 40 years old and I have always liked bigger and plumper women. The weak type of "models" are sexually indifferent to me. My wife is 175 tall and weighs 80 kg, she is round with medium breasts. She does not follow any diets and since I am terribly fond of natural female hair, she "rewards" me with gorgeous black armpits and pubis. As soon as I see her naked, my member instantly hardens and I want to have sex, even though we have been together for 12 years. which is popularized by the yellow editions, dumb commercials, dumb naked showmen, metrosexual pedals and so on. You can only be happy that your husband likes rounder.
Look, if nothing else - this should calm you down ... Let's forget the fact that you don't like yourself for a moment. It has been proven that men think about sex three times more than women. Another interesting thing is that when men have sex they are not interested in the details - I mean that while you are thinking "does he like my hair" or "does he see my scar from (something is there)" he thinks about himself sex. You can weigh 80 kg and be 150 cm, have an indelible nail polish and a funny hairstyle, but let's now remember that the 1st you are married and the 2nd during sex he can only admire you. Don't worry - your body is perfect !!!
Offf I have another problem, I am very hairy on my legs and arms and this worries me a lot
Go to number 11, if it bothers you, epilate and know that just as number 9 likes a woman's hair, me and many others do the exact opposite. For the girl who wrote the question, I will tell her that my wife liked her very much and she was also plump, but she did not like her and things were not going well. Then she took herself in her arms and lost a little weight, but she already liked herself and is great now.
"Look, you say a lot of beautiful and nice things, which unfortunately are not very true. I personally would prefer if my wife did not undress in case she is fat. Sleeping naked is not a good idea because in the morning no one knows what posture will wake up.My advice is to start taking care of your body instead of complaining.Yet we live only one life, isn't it too short to allow ourselves to look awful.And cowardice makes a person suffer for three years for something that can change in three months disgusts me more than bacon. Salute this from me "---------------------------- --------- The body does not matter if the man likes her, on the contrary, if mine loses weight, I will deprive her of sex for a long time, until she gains weight as she was and more!
My advice is not to worry about your body but to like it as it is. For this purpose be bold in bed, be active then I guarantee you neither you nor he will think who it looks like, the important thing is to have fun, and your husband to be with you means that he likes you as you are, kill these thoughts, be a braver girl, dress bolder and you will gradually build your self-confidence.
After he married you, he likes you so much and you don't have to worry, but history teaches that people have fallen in love with rounder women! try to change;)
Towards 11. "Offf I have another problem, I'm very hairy on my legs and arms and that worries me a lot" - ooh to pick you up, I adore naturally hairy women, I get aroused, I adore naturally hairy female armpits! I just ejaculate thinking about how I'm going to kiss you and lick you cute!
I don't think you should be ashamed of yourself, especially in front of the person you love. You don't have to get drunk or do anything just to get undressed. Just because you're slightly round doesn't mean you shouldn't experience the pleasures of life, does it?
I personally lose 2 kg and now I feel sexier and I walk more upright. My friend tells me that I am much sexier in these moments, although he does not know that he is talking about the moments when I feel weaker. Try it too, go down a little to see what effect it will have on your self-esteem! My thought is that it's all about the psyche and perceptions - if you feel sexy, you like to play with your husband's reactions to your various sexy actions, if you look at him devilishly, you will have no equal for him. Conversely, sad but true - if you shrink and worry about yourself, if it seems that you do not like and appreciate, if you want to be Jessica Alba, your attractiveness decreases dramatically.
You don't have a serious job scratching your tongues with nonsense! If your husband likes you more juicy, what's the problem, if you lose weight, his libido will drop! I can't understand what kind of dumb ducks you are, modern Bulgarians! You may pass for beautiful women in Europe but you are clogged with prejudices and orientalism and mental limitations!
in our culture we are brought up to be ashamed of our bodies. From an early age, I was careful not to be seen by my mother by accident, etc. In addition, skinny, petite women are worshiped. I am 175 cm tall, I now weigh 63 kg. and I'm just FAT, but I was like that and I weighed 58 kilos. My ex found me fat and at 55 pounds! Years later, I went to the sauna with my German friend and had to part with this culture of shame from the natural human body, or expose myself cruelly. Here in the saunas, everyone is naked, men and women together, with no sexual meaning. Towels and bathrobes are allowed, but in the sauna itself you sit on a towel naked. There are all kinds of people - old, pregnant, grandparents, etc. My friend is proud of me and grins as he watches how other men find it difficult to control themselves. But I repeat, there is no sexual moment. People rejoice in their bodies, salts are distributed, finally even honey and rubbed into the skin. Everyone is accepted as they are. And indeed, so I lost the shame of myself, the fear of aging, because I find that there is nothing more beautiful than a healthy person of any age and with any defects
Chubby women are great, I've always liked them. There's nothing to worry about. I agree with the second comment - it can help.
the round is great! These are unnecessary female worries that you only suffer from. Why do you waste time thinking instead of just throwing yourself at your husband ... He won't bring you back unfinished