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I Am Ashamed Of My Thoughts

By naroah_ August 01, 2020 12 answers Last updated August 01, 2020

Hello! I am a boy of 17 and will be in 11th grade this year. I have a lot of weird questions for you (at least for me they are weird). I'm ashamed to ask my father because I'm not used to asking him about these things. I'll start directly so it doesn't take too long. I've recently been thinking about whether to get circumcised later in my life. Is this good? When I watched porn, I noticed that many porn actors were circumcised, and I had these thoughts of circumcising myself. Also for a year I may have a desire to have a hairy intimate area and it is very hairy. I don't know why these desires appear, perhaps because of puberty. How do you think it is better hairy or not? I haven't had a girlfriend even though I want and like a girl, but she just knows she can't become my girlfriend unfortunately. I'm still a virgin and I have the feeling that I will stay for the rest of my life. I noticed that one of my testicles was higher than the other. Is that a problem? Thank you for taking the time to read these worries of mine, of which I am ashamed.

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ritavega answered · August 01, 2020

   Circumcision is done from a hygienic point of view if you have phimosis (the scalp is difficult to get out of the skin hole, simply put). Otherwise, there is no problem with getting rid of it. If you do, it will not be a problem either - it takes about 2 weeks. It is also normal for the testicles. Hair - as you like. Success !

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girlbeautyhot answered · August 01, 2020

   Do not circumcise yourself and do your own research when such whims come to you asleep. America is the only country that does this, and the reason is foolishly simple - in the past, Catholic peasants thought it would stop the desire to masturbate. Not so, the only thing you gain is the risk of losing sensitivity. There are no hygienic reasons, there are no advantages to cutting your salami. Do whatever you want with your hair, if you want a graft from a bear, know that it means sweat and stench. For the third, go to the personal and ask for a referral to a urologist.

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annycosta_ answered · August 01, 2020

   Hello! I do not recommend circumcision, in Bulgaria we women will not be well received. I do not recommend hair, again for the same reason. Aesthetically, I think that if someone loves you, they will accept you as you are, but most of them might accept that for your testicles. The other hardly.

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adrian_marco answered · August 01, 2020

   Not to confuse circumcision with stripping the head? I have watched very little porn with circumcised penises. In general, your questions are superficial and irrelevant. Most women don't care if you're circumcised or hairy. Some are sensitive to a lot of hair downstairs, but generally it doesn't matter. Sex is about enthusiasm and desire for the person, not for the genitals.

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lilmizzbabie answered · August 01, 2020

   Enough with these provocative topics! Whether you are circumcised or not, when the penis is aroused, there is no difference! And the fact that it is more hygienic only applies to Anatolia, where hygiene is questionable, so they are circumcised! If you bathe every day, you don't need any circumcision, and if you have decided to become a Muslim, that's another question !?

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jrvman82 answered · August 02, 2020

   In the West, many men have been circumcised since they were children, but you live in Bulgaria. I think it will be harder for you to cope as a big person, because it is still a surgical procedure and in any case you will feel discomfort and pain. However, the decision is entirely yours. The question of whether it is better from a hygienic point of view is debatable and I will not comment. The body is yours, that's all. Hair is also a matter of choice, it is considered a big problem if a woman is hairy and not so much if we are talking about a man. I repeat, the body is yours. Try it, see if it will be convenient for you, everyone decides for himself. I haven't seen a very hairy man in the intimate area, but I haven't seen anyone like a naked snail. Honestly, this does not impress me, my hair does not bother me. No, you won't stay a virgin all your life, but you have to know that every young man thinks about it before having sex for the first time. It happens to different people at different times. At 17, you are not an old bachelor and you will have the opportunity to be with a woman many times. This is also in order for the testicles. The human body is a work of art, but it does not observe perfect symmetry.

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sharanya905345 answered · August 02, 2020

   For your testicles, I don't think it's a problem because I know a lot of people with a similar "problem". I'm not familiar with circumcision, but look, it's not normal for hair to walk hairy. At least I hate hair, but if a girl spins one for you, will she eat hair? It's disgusting, you look unmaintained and especially for oral it's naughty. It sucks, even - someone may like it, but almost every girl hates hair. Would you like to have oral hair. Quite normally, you can even guess from a chaff entering your mouth. It is not pleasant in the case of many hairs, slightly swollen, but not large nightmares. It will start, and if it itches at all, discard these disgusting stories. For oral it is extremely disgusting! Keep that in mind. F 21

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fitguy_01 answered · August 03, 2020

   This is your body and your life - you make the decision. However, be sensible and do not make hasty decisions - consult your parents and a doctor before circumcision, ask about complications, how long is the recovery period, etc. For the hairy area - try it! Find a person who will like you the way you are and will not want to change you! No man's two halves (left and right) of the body are completely identical, if you are so worried go to a doctor. Health comes first!

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nyconik answered · August 03, 2020

   For circumcision - I do not recommend it if you have no problems. And you could always do it. See the opposite then is impossible, so do not rush. I was circumcised at the age of 40 due to health problems. Not bad, but there are downsides! It is normal for the testicles.

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clarice21 answered · August 04, 2020

   As a woman, I will say that I like the circumcised member more, purely aesthetically. But I think that to a large extent the sensitivity of the man in this place is lost, it ends more slowly,, than what I have heard on the subject. If you don't have a good reason, I don't see why you should.

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vicky_rendon answered · August 04, 2020

   Visit the site you brain on porn.

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mike694fun answered · August 04, 2020

   Don't cut it, it loses its sensitivity and it's just not the same, even in my opinion the skin itself is very sweet and pleasant for kisses Woman 21