Hello, writes an 18-year-old boy. In general, I have something like a problem that may be on a mental basis, or it may just be weird as a physique. I have a relatively high self-esteem because I try to be good to everyone and I work very hard to be able to do what I love - I am an artistic person myself, but I have a very strange problem. In short, I hate my body. In the last 5 years (maybe the years when puberty enters and you start to realize what kind of person you are, how you look, etc.) I went through different stages of my body - like every person: D During them I was definitely not fat, at one time I was even terribly weak after I got sick and I didn't look like anything (according to people). But there is one feature, which I don't see in my other friends and in general boys and men I've seen without a t-shirt no matter on TV or live. My body is somewhat girlish. Yes, I have shoulders, I have a back that distinguishes me as a man, but I also have the so-called "slings" or even if they are not slings, they are just something like a bigger bone. It's like my body makes an hourglass . This stops me from wearing tight t-shirts and I even go against the wind, I pull my t-shirt forward so that it doesn't stick to my body and it shows: D I wear wide t-shirts to look "more rectangular", but again is a shame from my body. I'm quite tall - about 1.86 and as I said, I'm not fat, maybe with enough fitness I would get the figure of a perfect American superhero, but I'm not into fitness, muscles, tiles, etc. - I just don't like that. I like to play sports when I kick, but no further. I just see how men, fatter or thinner, have normal bodies, and now I realize that I will probably be like that for the rest of my life because at 13 I thought that puberty would overcome that, but I grew up, I grew stronger, I grew bearded. so to speak, but my body remained strange. I have a girlfriend who loves me the way I am, but here the thing is to love even the shortcomings of the other. Does anyone else have a similar body structure or does anyone care if it's just the more common structure or this one? I was bearded, so to speak, but my body remained strange. I have a girlfriend who loves me the way I am, but here the thing is to love even the shortcomings of the other. Does anyone else have a similar body structure or does anyone care if it's just the more common structure or this one? I was bearded, so to speak, but my body remained strange. I have a girlfriend who loves me the way I am, but here the thing is to love even the shortcomings of the other. Does anyone else have a similar body structure or does anyone care if it's just the more common structure or this one?
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What problems do people have, if you know - and still live that they are arrogant.
Don't worry, don't worry at all! God creates us in a certain way with some imperfections, but we still have to accept them because they are part of our essence ... what I want to tell you is that even if you have a more unusual body structure (as you say), just be ok with this and accept it .... in the sense that if your girlfriend loves you the way you are, then it really is not such a problem with your body .... believe me and I do not I like some things in my body, for example I'm big and I'm not thin as a model, but what's so .... life is too short to waste it in unnecessary worries .... I hope I helped you with my comment and to realize that you are super just the way you are ... enjoy life and enjoy the moments with your loved ones ....
You can fix this with fitness, ask the instructors and they will help you.
Move and start training something - maybe running, maybe swimming ... whatever you decide. And you will make a body, and you will be healthier. The day starts in a different way, as you play sports, especially outdoors - I tell you from experience. It's not bad for your girlfriend to like you the way you are, but it's more important that you like yourself.
Well, I'm sorry, but you film a lot! To think even when you walk against the wind and when your T-shirt is stuck, what happened! Is anyone really watching you at this moment! You have a very big advantage - height. Second, at 18, you are still in puberty, when the body may not be shaped. Third, I had a neighbor like you tall, but he looked like a liver. His father kept making fun of him. And he went to the gym - got the physique of a bodybuilder, but not in their nasty dumb shape, and became sculpted. If you do not want to be at the gym, choose from the net exercises for this part.