Hello. I am a girl of 18 and I need your advice. I have a friend for 4 months, but the problem is my parents ... They make me a huge problem to see, when I ask them they say of the sort today or not, we have a job will not be today and I was already embarrassed to ask. My friend will study in Varna and I will study in Pleven and I don't know what our relationship will be like ... I am very attached to him. But he can't stand my parents' treatment of him. My mother once shouted at him on the phone, telling him he was selfish. And that's not the case, he just has the desire to see me and so he will lose his feelings for me if we don't see each other ... he doesn't even want to be every day. And I already notice that he loses his feelings, because these quarrels between me and my parents become more frequent ... my parents tell me that I have no opinion in this home until I carry the money. How can I explain to them that I want to see him when he is going to Varna to study ... Isn't love known? I even went to a psychologist and my mother found out from somewhere and she is angry with me, and I talked to them a lot on this topic ... they are always like that when I am committed. I don't want this to be another failed relationship .. They don't even let me sleep with them, given that his parents know mine .. I can't get along with such people, but they want me to be happy .. They they don't ask me what I want. I do not want to lose this man, but in this way, by treating me and him, we will part. Please help... they are always like that when I am committed. I don't want this to be another failed relationship .. They don't even let me sleep with them, given that his parents know mine .. I can't get along with such people, but they want me to be happy .. They they don't ask me what I want. I do not want to lose this man, but in this way, by treating me and him, we will part. Please help... they are always like that when I am committed. I don't want this to be another failed relationship .. They don't even let me sleep with them, given that his parents know mine .. I can't get along with such people, but they want me to be happy .. They they don't ask me what I want. I do not want to lose this man, but in this way, by treating me and him, we will part. Please help...
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Защо трябва да ги питаш? Казваш, че излизаш с приятелки и това е. Майка ти да крещи по телефона на приятеля ти? Не е редно. Дори при строги родители, ако искаш да имаш среща с човека, ще го напрвавиш. На 18 си, не си длъжна никого да питаш за срещите си.
Може просто да не го харесват като човек за теб. Родителите виждат нещата по по-различен. Може да не харесват семейството, него като поведение. Не пишеш той на колко години е, работи ли.
От авторката: Приятелят ми е на 18 също и ще учи за програмист. Неговата майка се познава с баща ми от както са били ученици, били са в един клас даже на 1 чин са седели заедно. Родителите му не са лоши като хора, просто нямат консервативно мислене, както нашите. И приятелят ми също не е лош. Показвал ми е любовта си по много начини. Нашите явно не искат да му се доверят, а и преди много добре се разбираха...
Може да не харесват компанията му, или да искат нещо повече за теб. Може да не е лошо момче, но да искат някой повече за теб.
Момиче, май и на теб ти трябва повече учене, на 18 си, но се изказваш като 14 годишна. Л
From the author: Does it matter how I speak? I need advice, not reproaches because of whether, for example, I wrote it correctly or that you think my words were like those of an eighth-grader. And as far as studying is concerned, I have been learning my success for 3 years in a row is excellent, so don't judge the book by its cover. Take a good look around the forum and you will see stories that are written at least 100 times more illiterate. I think this comment from you is just pointless, I'm interested in advice, not some flaws because of such nonsense. :)